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Should I sleep with my neighbourhood bhaabhi?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 12, 2013 - 14:30
Auntyji, there is a bhabhi in my neighbourhood. She's about 40 or so. I'm really attracted to her. She asked me to come over to her place. I think she wants me to enter into some kind of relationship with her. She even asked if I had a girlfriend. She's very gorgeous and great company. Should I go ahead? Help! Vikram (24), Ludhiana

Auntyji says... Beta Vikram, these days I am hearing this question so often. All you young lads seem to be meeting this bhaabhi or aunty or didi, hain? Is it for real or are you all imagining this? Chalo beta, let's go over this, for your sake and for the sake of all the other young people reading this.

Power equation

So here is this sexy 40-year-old lady line-maraaoing at you. She makes you feel important and you start to think, “Well if she is ready, what's my problem?” Right?

OK, so let's give this picture a bit of background. Here is this in-control woman, someone who has power, who has the guts, who is better settled than you and is more experienced than you. She thinks, “I need better sex, let me call this kiddo. Let him serve my needs.” Are you OK with that?

Back-up plan

Betaji this is a double-edged sword. You might think you have nothing to lose. Well, in any relationship if the power and control is tilted so much in one person's favour, then you are pretty much under that person, not in the way you may like to be, but rather under their kabzaa! Want to be there?

Let's say you go ahead with bhaabhi. What if bhaiyaa finds out? What if she begins to ask you to come over even more often, asks you to do stuff you don’t want to, gets pregnant or says she's pregnant? What then ji? What if she begins to force you, blackmail you? Koi plan hai?

And another possibility, what if she falls in love with you? Says after three-six months, “Marry me. I will leave everything for you.” What's your plan then? And, what if you fall head-over-heels in love with her and want more of her time but she is ready to withdraw or has other family obligations? How will you deal with or cope with that?

'Boy toy'

Beta the thing basically is, if all the initiation is from one side – as in your case – and there is an element of cajoling, the relationship could be considered abusive. It could turn coercive and manipulative.

Now you may say, “No, I am an adult, I know all about sex and I am agreeing to what is being offered to me.” You may think, “Wow, I am getting to live the ultimate male fantasy, I am getting to do it with an older woman.” And she may be thinking, “Wow, a 24-year-old guy is my boy toy.” What do you feel about that?

Tricky

If you agree to these terms, then you should remember that you are also agreeing to all the other possibilities – being used, being controlled and being there to fulfil someone else’s needs till the time they want you. You're OK with that?

Beta, be careful. It can be very exciting and equally tricky. Read and respond to each of the questions I have raised. Maybe that will give you something to think about.

And think with your brain, betaji, not the other body part that's getting you all excited about this! Samjhaa oye?

 

To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed. 

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Apne se umar mein badi mahila ke saath sambadh ke bare mein bahut se log sochtey hain. Lekin apki is soch ke karan kahin aap kisi badi musibat mein na padd jaye isliye zara aap swayum chintan kar leejiye aur soch leejiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lijiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ajit Kumar
Sun, 06/07/2020 - 22:52
मेरे घर के बगल में एक आंटी है वह बहुत ही हॉट है ओ मुझसे प्यार से बात करती है और बात करते समय वह मुझे देखती ही रहती है मेरा उनके पर से नजर हट जाता लेकिन वह नहीं hatati है कोई उपाय बताए की कैसे पताए
बेटे अपने से उमर में बड़ी महिला के साथ संबंध के बारे मे बहुत से लोग सोचते हैं। लेकिन आपकी इस सोच के कारण आप किसी बड़ी मुसीबत में ना पड़ जाए इसलिए ज़रा आप स्वयं चिंतन कर लीजिये और सोच लिजिए ज़रा ये writeup भी पढ़ लो: https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Subhash chand
Tue, 08/11/2020 - 08:14
Hello mam. Mam ek aunty mere pados mai hai us se mulne julne se dono open ho gaye the ek din us aunty ne mujh se sex ke liye bola maine us ko mana kar diya fir wo bolne lagi sex nahi to thoda suck karne do maine han bol di wo aaye din ab suck ki bolti rehati hai mai kiya karu aunty
Subhash beta apne se umar mein badi mahila ke saath sambadh ke bare mein bahut se log sochtey hain. Lekin iske karan kahin aap kisi badi musibat mein na padd jaye, isliye zara aap swayum chintan kar leejiye aur soch leejiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lijiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sagar bete agar unka menstrual circle normal chal raha ho aur aap protected sex karen to, pregnancy possible ho sakti hai. Lekin ek baat jaan lijiye ki apne se umar mein badi mahila ke saath sambadh ke bare mein bahut se log sochtey hain. Lekin apki is soch ke karan kahin aap kisi badi musibat mein na padd jaye isliye zara aap swayum chintan kar leejiye aur soch leejiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lijiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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