Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Why do I miss my parents' home even after marriage?

Aunty ji, I really miss celebrating Diwali with my parents. Everything has changed after marriage. Now I’m in my new home, everyone is nice and loving but my heart still longs for my old home. My husband loves me a lot but he doesn’t understand why I feel this emptiness. Is it normal to miss my old home so much? – Shobha, Aurangabad

Aunty ji, Can sex position decides sex of an unborn child?

Aunty ji, I already have a daughter and now I want a second child. Some aunties in my neighborhood say that sex positions can decide whether the baby will be a boy or a girl. Is this really true? – Aditi

Aunty ji, can we determine the sex of the baby by looking at the shape of the stomach?

Aunty ji, I’m pregnant and the aunties in my colony keep guessing if it’s a boy or a girl just by looking at my stomach. I find it weird… does this actually work? – Amrita, Punjab

Aunty ji, what is the right age to get married?

Aunty Ji, wherever I go these days, everyone keeps asking me the same thing — when am I getting married? I’ve just turned 21. Tell me one thing, Aunty, what’s the right age for boys and girls to get married? – Ruchi, Dhanbad

Aunty ji, my balls get smaller sometimes. It won’t harm me, right?

Aunty ji, these days I have noticed that after bathing my balls/testicles shrink a bit and become very small in size. I am very worried. Is this normal? - Saurabh, Punjab

Auntyji, I’ve been diagnosed with an STI, should I stop having sex now?

Hi Aunty ji, I had sex with a girl and since then I've been feeling a burning sensation in my penis and a lot of pain. When I went to the doctor, I found out I have an STI. Will I never be able to have sex again? Is my life over? – Sahil, Indore

Aunty ji, why do boys send pictures of their private parts in the inbox?

Aunty ji, I am very upset because a few days ago an unknown boy sent a picture of his penis on my Instagram account. What should I do… I blocked him but why do boys do this? -Sneha, Delhi

Aunty ji, am I a wife or just a free maid?

Aunty ji, I am very upset. It feels like I am managing everything alone in my marriage. Like- home, cooking, taking care of in-laws, work. I think every responsibility has become mine. My husband just doesn’t understand that I need help too. I watched the movie Mrs., and I felt like Richa’s story was my own. Are relationships really like this? What should I do? – Soumya, Samastipur

Should I tell my partner about my ex-boyfriend?

I'm a little confused about how much I should tell my partner about my past relationships or if I should even tell them at all. Will it create problems in our relationship? Aunty, please give me some advice. Anika, Meerut.

Can I lose my virginity if I use a menstrual cup or tampon?

Hello Aunty, I've read about the side effects of sanitary napkins and I'm considering using a menstrual cup instead. However, I'm scared it might affect my virginity. Komal, 25 years, Jaipur

Sex on last day of periods - Can she get pregnant?

Auntyji, I had sex with my girlfriend without a condom but it was the last day of her period. Can having sex during periods lead to pregnancy? Sahil, 22, Delhi.

If I pass urine after sex, will it prevent pregnancy?

Hi Aunty ji, my boyfriend told me that if I urinate after having sex, there are no chances of pregnancy. I have heard this from my friends too. Is it true? Parul, 20, Jammu.