Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Why is my boyfriend so jealous of my past?

My bf asks too many questions about my ex and sexual history. I have told him everything honestly but he still won’t stop. Now it’s bothering me. Rashi (24), Kullu

I like to dress up as a woman. Am I gay?

Hi Auntyji, when I am alone, I like wearing women's clothes and makeup. Does this mean I am gay? Sameer, 21, Patna.

Can transgender people conceive?

Can transgender people have sex and children? Neema, 23, Gurgaon.

I fantasize about other women – is that ok?

I enjoy sex with my partner but I still think about sex with other women. Does it mean I’m not having a healthy sex life? Dibakar, Indore.

The date is set but I don’t want to marry!

Hi Aunty ji, I am not very confident about the boy I am going to marry next month. We are not at all compatible. But is it too late because the invitation cards have been sent. What will the society say? My parents too will have to bear financial loss. Shivangi, 28, Dehradun.

My husband doesn’t want to use a condom, help!

Hi Auntyji, my husband says he doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I don't want to have birth control pills. What should we do? Supriya, 24, Chandigarh.

My bf wants me to prove my love by having sex, help!

Hi Aunty ji, my bf says – prove your love to me by having sex. I am scared and don't want to lose him. He is good and loves me. Shall I have sex with him to show my love? Drishti, 20, Patna

My bf banged his head into the wall!

Hi Aunty ji, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. Last week we had a huge fight and he banged his head into the wall. He has never been like this before and after. What should I do? Kuhika, 19, Salem.

How do girls get an orgasm?

Hi Aunty ji, how do girls know when they have an orgasm? My boyfriend asks me how often if I've come after sex. But I don't have an answer. Sanah, 18, Pune.

I don’t want to live anymore after my break-up, help!

Hi Aunty ji, My girlfriend broke up with me. I don’t want to live anymore. What should I do? Karan, 22, Delhi.

Is it wrong to date in a park?

Hi Aunty ji, my bf and I were sitting in the park just holding hands and the police harassed us. They threatened to call our parents. What should we do if this happens again? Tanya, 20, Lucknow.

Shani ki dasha in 2020, what to do?

Hi Aunty ji, my horoscope says 2020 is not good for any relationships, what to do? Ankita, 22, Baroda.