Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Is abortion a sin?

Hi Auntyji, I am just so confused. Is abortion like killing a baby? Wouldn’t the baby feel the pain? It does have a heartbeat, right? Isn’t it a sin then? Manya, Delhi.

Shani ki dasha in 2021, what to do?

Hi Aunty ji, my horoscope says 2021 is not good for any relationships, what to do? Ankita, 22, Baroda.

How to be sexy in 2021?

Hi Aunty ji, what’s your new year resolution and what’s your advice for all your fans? Mahesh, 21, Madurai

I have erection problems – what are your tips Auntyji?

It’s embarrassing but I am having serious problems with getting erections. Not always but sometimes. This wasn’t the case earlier though. Am I getting some condition? What can I do? It’s really embarrassing! Help! – Sushil (28), Mumbai.

Will I be able to conceive after an abortion?

Hi Auntyji.. I just found out that I am pregnant and need to go for an abortion as I am not ready for the responsibility of a child. I fear I may not be able to conceive in the future. Is that true? I hope not. Madhu, 22 years, XXXX

Should I feel guilty after an abortion?

My girlfriend and I opted for an abortion. We weren’t ready to have a child. But now we feel guilty about the whole thing. Was our decision wrong? Ravi (22), Bhopal.

I feel attracted to older women, help!

Is it normal if you want to have sex with women who are much older than you? I have already had sex with many older ladies in their 30s and 40s. What should I do? Sameer, 21, Saharanpur.

When can we have sex after her abortion?

My girlfriend just had an abortion. I want to know in how many days she may be able to conceive again. Also, I am feeling kind of upset about the whole thing... so help me out here, please. Ishaan (23), Lucknow.

Can I find true love again?

Hi Aunty ji, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years, two months ago. I thought he was my true love but things didn't go well. But my friends tell me to date again? Can we find true love a second time? Abhya, 26, Haldwani.

What is true love, Aunty ji?

Hi Aunty ji, I have just started dating a girl and I feel she is my true love! I have been in many relationships in the past but with this one - dil ki ghanti baj gayi! What is true love? Ankit, 18, Chandigarh.

Why is my boyfriend so jealous of my past?

My bf asks too many questions about my ex and sexual history. I have told him everything honestly but he still won’t stop. Now it’s bothering me. Rashi (24), Kullu

I like to dress up as a woman. Am I gay?

Hi Auntyji, when I am alone, I like wearing women's clothes and makeup. Does this mean I am gay? Sameer, 21, Patna.