Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Should I feel guilty after an abortion?

My girlfriend and I opted for an abortion. We weren’t ready to have a child. But now we feel guilty about the whole thing. Was our decision wrong? Ravi (22), Bhopal.

I feel attracted to older women, help!

Is it normal if you want to have sex with women who are much older than you? I have already had sex with many older ladies in their 30s and 40s. What should I do? Sameer, 21, Saharanpur.

When can we have sex after her abortion?

My girlfriend just had an abortion. I want to know in how many days she may be able to conceive again. Also, I am feeling kind of upset about the whole thing... so help me out here, please. Ishaan (23), Lucknow.

Can I find true love again?

Hi Aunty ji, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years, two months ago. I thought he was my true love but things didn't go well. But my friends tell me to date again? Can we find true love a second time? Abhya, 26, Haldwani.

What is true love, Aunty ji?

Hi Aunty ji, I have just started dating a girl and I feel she is my true love! I have been in many relationships in the past but with this one - dil ki ghanti baj gayi! What is true love? Ankit, 18, Chandigarh.

Why is my boyfriend so jealous of my past?

My bf asks too many questions about my ex and sexual history. I have told him everything honestly but he still won’t stop. Now it’s bothering me. Rashi (24), Kullu

I like to dress up as a woman. Am I gay?

Hi Auntyji, when I am alone, I like wearing women's clothes and makeup. Does this mean I am gay? Sameer, 21, Patna.

Can transgender people conceive?

Can transgender people have sex and children? Neema, 23, Gurgaon.

I fantasize about other women – is that ok?

I enjoy sex with my partner but I still think about sex with other women. Does it mean I’m not having a healthy sex life? Dibakar, Indore.

Date is set but I don’t want to marry!

Hi Aunty ji, I am not very confident about the boy I am going to marry next month. We are not at all compatible. But is it too late because the invitation cards have been sent. What will the society say? My parents too will have to bear financial loss. Shivangi, 28, Dehradun.

My husband doesn’t want to use a condom, help!

Hi Auntyji, my husband says he doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I don't want to have birth control pills. What should we do? Supriya, 24, Chandigarh.

My bf wants me to prove my love by having sex, help!

Hi Aunty ji, my bf says – prove your love to me by having sex. I am scared and don't want to lose him. He is good and loves me. Shall I have sex with him to show my love? Drishti, 20, Patna