Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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My husband says sex is his legal right. Is that true?

Hi Aunty ji, my husband of six months wants to have sex everyday. If I refuse, he says, it's his legal right. Is he right? Sukanya, 24, Jharkhand.

Can I get HIV with oral sex?

Hi Aunty ji, I had oral sex with a sex worker, now will I get HIV? Uday 23, Jaipur.

Should I call him after a date?

Hi Aunty ji, I really like a guy and we met through an online dating app. Everything went well and we exchanged numbers. However, it’s been two days and he has not called. Would I look desperate if I call? Should I call first? Tanika, 19, Haldwani.

Gf is pregnant. Should we get married?

Hi Auntyji, we had sex for first time and my partner says she is pregnant. Do I have to marry her? Adil, 21, Haridwar.

My partner refuses to keep Karwa Chauth. Doesn’t she love me!

Hi Aunty ji, when I asked my girlfriend to fast for me on Karwa Chauth, she laughed it off and said she won’t fast. How do I believe she really loves me? Shamit, 24, Ghaziabad.

He wants more sex, I do not. Help!

Hi Aunty ji, I like sex but my partner wants it daily. Our desires don’t match and it’s really making us argue. I love him but how to handle this situation. Keerthi, 25, Chennai.

Can I first ask for sex with my bf?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. I would really like us to make love but being shy, my boyfriend hasn't initiated anything yet. What should I do? Seher, 23 years, New Delhi.

Will it be tough to have kids if I marry late?

Hi Aunty ji, I am 28 and my parents are putting pressure on me for marriage saying my ‘biological clock’ is ticking. Would it be tough for me to conceive if I marry late? Is it true? Namita, 28, Jageshwar.

How to have sex without risk of pregnancy?

Hi Aunty ji, I want to have sex with my girlfriend on her safe days, can you suggest how we can find those out? Chirag, 23, Guwahati

My ex-bf posted our personal pics online. Help!

Hello Auntyji, I broke up with my boyfriend last month. He wanted me to resume our relationship. When I refused, he put some of our intimate pictures online. What should I do? Geeta, 21 years, Meerut.

I am teased for being too girly, help!

I am a 17-year-old boy and people tease me for my mannerisms, calling me a girl. Please help. Ankush, 17, Chennai

How should I convince parents to not take dowry?

I do not want to take dowry from the family of the girl I am about to marry. How do I explain it to her parents and mine? Sandarbh, 22, Buxar.