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Will I be able to conceive after an abortion?

Pregnancy
Hi Auntyji.. I just found out that I am pregnant and need to go for an abortion as I am not ready for the responsibility of a child. I fear I may not be able to conceive in the future. Is that true? I hope not. Madhu, 22 years, XXXX

Should I feel guilty after an abortion?

Unsure about being pregnant?
My girlfriend and I opted for an abortion. We weren’t ready to have a child. But now we feel guilty about the whole thing. Was our decision wrong? Ravi (22), Bhopal.

I feel attracted to older women, help!

Making Love
Is it normal if you want to have sex with women who are much older than you? I have already had sex with many older ladies in their 30s and 40s. What should I do? Sameer, 21, Saharanpur.

When can we have sex after her abortion?

Unsure about being pregnant?
My girlfriend just had an abortion. I want to know in how many days she may be able to conceive again. Also, I am feeling kind of upset about the whole thing... so help me out here, please. Ishaan (23), Lucknow.

Can I find true love again?

Love and relationships
Hi Aunty ji, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years, two months ago. I thought he was my true love but things didn't go well. But my friends tell me to date again? Can we find true love a second time? Abhya, 26, Haldwani.

What is true love, Aunty ji?

Love and relationships
Hi Aunty ji, I have just started dating a girl and I feel she is my true love! I have been in many relationships in the past but with this one - dil ki ghanti baj gayi! What is true love? Ankit, 18, Chandigarh.

Why is my boyfriend so jealous of my past?

Relationship problems
My bf asks too many questions about my ex and sexual history. I have told him everything honestly but he still won’t stop. Now it’s bothering me. Rashi (24), Kullu

I like to dress up as a woman. Am I gay?

Sexual Orientation
Hi Auntyji, when I am alone, I like wearing women's clothes and makeup. Does this mean I am gay? Sameer, 21, Patna.

Can transgender people conceive?

Sexual Diversity
Can transgender people have sex and children? Neema, 23, Gurgaon.

I fantasize about other women – is that ok?

Love and relationships
I enjoy sex with my partner but I still think about sex with other women. Does it mean I’m not having a healthy sex life? Dibakar, Indore.

The date is set but I don’t want to marry!

Marriage
Hi Aunty ji, I am not very confident about the boy I am going to marry next month. We are not at all compatible. But is it too late because the invitation cards have been sent. What will the society say? My parents too will have to bear financial loss. Shivangi, 28, Dehradun.

My husband doesn’t want to use a condom, help!

Birth Control
Hi Auntyji, my husband says he doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I don't want to have birth control pills. What should we do? Supriya, 24, Chandigarh.