Hymen - what is it?
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The hymen: what is it?

All over the world people have different ideas and opinions about virginity and the hymen. They vary a lot depending on the country, culture or religion.

Sometimes it can be hard to know what to think yourself. Stories get passed on by grandmothers, aunts and cousins, some true and some untrue. In this section you will find some FAQs and Myths on virginity.

But first, a short, spicy video about virginity and the hymen:

I really want to know if she's a virgin!

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Do not worry, Seema beti. Kaumarya ka poora daromadaar hymen ya jhilli se juda hua hai. Yaad rakhiye ki yeh bahut hee asani se toot saktee hai, jese cycling, horse riding ya khel-kud ke duran. Isliye jab tak mahila khud nahi batyegi ki woh pehli baar hi sex kar rahi hain woh is baat ka pata nahi laga sakte! Lekin sex mein jo bhi karein safe karein. Apne mann se doubt clear kijiye aur yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty Ji! Mera ling bada nahi hai kewal 5.9-6.0 inch ka hi hai. Maine apni girlfriend ke sath do baar sex kiya. Dono baar ek hi dikkat ayi. 5 inch se zyada andar jaata nahi hai aur jaise hi lagbhag adha ling andar jata hai ya main dhakke marta hu to usko dard hone lagta hai. Kya karu dard kyu hota hai? Ling bhi 6 inch koi bahut bada nahi hai.
Robin bete, dard hone ka ek sabse mehtvpurn karan yeh ho skata hai ki apki partner sex ke liye theek tarah se tyyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex kare ke liye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona bohot hi zaroori hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zaroori hai. Ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki woh pregnancy se darti ho ya society se? Jo bhi ho shayad woh abhi tayyar nahin, pehle yeh sab baatein clear karo aur phir sex ki planning. Sirf ek person ready hai aur doosre nahin, so phir toh koi maza nahin na? Aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? Isliye make sure ki apki partner in sab cheezon ke liye tayyar hui hain. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sorry bête! Hum is bare me aapki koi madad nahi kar sakte hai agar aapke paas koi anya sawal hai to puchh sakte hai. Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty g many first tym apny partner k sath sex Kiya or mujy bleeding nhi huii ... Iska kya reson ho skta hai ... Bleeding na hony k karn mery partner ny mujy leave kr diya .. us Ko lgta hai mainy already sex Kiya hai phly ... Jo ki sch nhi hai ... Plz bleeding na hony ka reson btana ...
Reema bete bahut bura laga sunkar- aapko bleeding nahi huyi aur aapke bf ne aapko chhod diya? Sabse pahle toh ye jaan lijiye ki aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ki chinta mat kijiye. Aur bete aapki baaton se toh yahi lagta hai ki is rishte mein vishwas ki kami thi- hai na ? Aur jab kisi rishte mein vishwas na ho toh us rishte ka bhavisya kya hoga- khud sochiye. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Aur ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty g many first tym apny partner k sath sex Kiya or mujy bleeding nhi huii ... Iska kya reson ho skta hai ... Bleeding na hony k karn mery partner ny mujy leave kr diya .. us Ko lgta hai mainy already sex Kiya hai phly ... Jo ki sch nhi hai ... Plz bleeding na hony ka reson btana ...
Oh bete! Sunkar bahut dukh hua sirf bleeding na hone ki wazah se aapke partner ne aapko chhod diya hai - Lekin bete isse toh yahi lagta hai ki is rishte mein vishwaas ki kami hai - kyunki aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ho hi ye bilkul bhi zaruri nahi, aap apne partner ko yeh links zarur padhne dijiye aur bilkul relaxed rahiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete aisa nahi hai - ladkon ko bhi dard ho sakta hai, yadi foreskin sahi se pichhe na ho toh.. aur ladkiyon mein sex ke dauraan durd hone ka ek sabse mehtvpurna karan yeh ho sakta hai ki wo sex ke liye theek tarah se tayyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bahut achhe se samjh lijiye ki sex karnye ke liye dono hi partners ko tanav mukt hona bahut hi zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tayyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bahut zaruri hai. Durd ki feeling tab bhi ho sakti hai jab koi darr ya doubt ho, jaise ki pregnancy ya society se. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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