Hymen - what is it?
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The hymen: what is it?

All over the world people have different ideas and opinions about virginity and the hymen. They vary a lot depending on the country, culture or religion.

Sometimes it can be hard to know what to think yourself. Stories get passed on by grandmothers, aunts and cousins, some true and some untrue. In this section you will find some FAQs and Myths on virginity.

But first, a short, spicy video about virginity and the hymen:

I really want to know if she's a virgin!

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Do not worry, Seema beti. Kaumarya ka poora daromadaar hymen ya jhilli se juda hua hai. Yaad rakhiye ki yeh bahut hee asani se toot saktee hai, jese cycling, horse riding ya khel-kud ke duran. Isliye jab tak mahila khud nahi batyegi ki woh pehli baar hi sex kar rahi hain woh is baat ka pata nahi laga sakte! Lekin sex mein jo bhi karein safe karein. Apne mann se doubt clear kijiye aur yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty Ji! Mera ling bada nahi hai kewal 5.9-6.0 inch ka hi hai. Maine apni girlfriend ke sath do baar sex kiya. Dono baar ek hi dikkat ayi. 5 inch se zyada andar jaata nahi hai aur jaise hi lagbhag adha ling andar jata hai ya main dhakke marta hu to usko dard hone lagta hai. Kya karu dard kyu hota hai? Ling bhi 6 inch koi bahut bada nahi hai.
Robin bete, dard hone ka ek sabse mehtvpurn karan yeh ho skata hai ki apki partner sex ke liye theek tarah se tyyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex kare ke liye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona bohot hi zaroori hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zaroori hai. Ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki woh pregnancy se darti ho ya society se? Jo bhi ho shayad woh abhi tayyar nahin, pehle yeh sab baatein clear karo aur phir sex ki planning. Sirf ek person ready hai aur doosre nahin, so phir toh koi maza nahin na? Aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? Isliye make sure ki apki partner in sab cheezon ke liye tayyar hui hain. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy https://lovematters.in/hi/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Aur virya ka gadha-mota hone se koi sambandh nahi hai zara yeh padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ejaculation lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/is-masturbation-making-my-semen-watery https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/male-body/semen-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
होता है नुकसान शरीर grow नहीं करेगा अर्थात हेल्थ नहीं बढ़ेगी और चेहरे व कन्धे पर फुन्सीयां निकलने लगेंगी। मेरे साथ हुआ था अब जब से हस्त* छोड़ा है सुधार आ रहा है। Please 🙏🏻ऐसा कुछ मत करना लत और लग जाती है मेरा मन होता है होता है नुकसान सोच लेता हूं और नहीं करता ऐसा कुछ भी apna khayal rakhna 🙏🏻🙏🏻
देखिए इसका कोई भी मेडिकल प्रमाण मौजूद नहीं है कि हस्तमैथुन से शरीर को नुकसान होता है, स्वस्थ रहिए और ये जान लीजिए कि हस्तमैथुन ऐक सेफ़/सुरक्षित तरिका है अपनी संतुष्टि करने का इससे कोई नुकसान या बीमारी नहीं होती. ये भी पढ़ीये: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Yeh bilkul bhi sahi nahi hai, bete!! 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko naitik-anaitik batoon ka vichar karna chahiye. samjhe? https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sorry bête! Hum is bare me aapki koi madad nahi kar sakte hai agar aapke paas koi anya sawal hai to puchh sakte hai. Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty g many first tym apny partner k sath sex Kiya or mujy bleeding nhi huii ... Iska kya reson ho skta hai ... Bleeding na hony k karn mery partner ny mujy leave kr diya .. us Ko lgta hai mainy already sex Kiya hai phly ... Jo ki sch nhi hai ... Plz bleeding na hony ka reson btana ...
Reema bete bahut bura laga sunkar- aapko bleeding nahi huyi aur aapke bf ne aapko chhod diya? Sabse pahle toh ye jaan lijiye ki aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ki chinta mat kijiye. Aur bete aapki baaton se toh yahi lagta hai ki is rishte mein vishwas ki kami thi- hai na ? Aur jab kisi rishte mein vishwas na ho toh us rishte ka bhavisya kya hoga- khud sochiye. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Aur ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Zoya bête ye nahi ho sakta hai, aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ki chinta mat kijiye. Bilkul relaxed rahiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty g many first tym apny partner k sath sex Kiya or mujy bleeding nhi huii ... Iska kya reson ho skta hai ... Bleeding na hony k karn mery partner ny mujy leave kr diya .. us Ko lgta hai mainy already sex Kiya hai phly ... Jo ki sch nhi hai ... Plz bleeding na hony ka reson btana ...
Oh bete! Sunkar bahut dukh hua sirf bleeding na hone ki wazah se aapke partner ne aapko chhod diya hai - Lekin bete isse toh yahi lagta hai ki is rishte mein vishwaas ki kami hai - kyunki aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ho hi ye bilkul bhi zaruri nahi, aap apne partner ko yeh links zarur padhne dijiye aur bilkul relaxed rahiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete pahli baar sex ke baad halki bleeding hona common hai aur ye thik ho jana chahiye, lekin agar dard jyada ho raha ho ya bleeding jyada ho raha ho toh ek panjikrit doctor se mil lena behtar hoga. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete aisa nahi hai - ladkon ko bhi dard ho sakta hai, yadi foreskin sahi se pichhe na ho toh.. aur ladkiyon mein sex ke dauraan durd hone ka ek sabse mehtvpurna karan yeh ho sakta hai ki wo sex ke liye theek tarah se tayyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bahut achhe se samjh lijiye ki sex karnye ke liye dono hi partners ko tanav mukt hona bahut hi zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tayyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bahut zaruri hai. Durd ki feeling tab bhi ho sakti hai jab koi darr ya doubt ho, jaise ki pregnancy ya society se. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul bete hastmaithun se pimples ya dark spots nahi aate, iske liye aap kisi achchhe registered skin specialist se mil lijiye. Bas swasth rahiye aur yaad rakhiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bête sex karte samay kya karna hai kya nahi karna hai, aur sex ko kese theek tarah se kiya jaye is bare mein aap yaha detail mein padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/first-time-sex Saath hi sex activity mein alag-alag tariko ka istemal karte huye ise kaise aur majedaar banana hai is baare mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
maim mai eak baar apni bhabhi ko sex kiya o bhout chillai kyouni mera ling bada our mota hai ab mujhse sex karane ke liye raazi nahi hoti ab kya karu baaki sab kuch hota hai
Aapki bhabhi yani ki aapke bhai ki patni, hai na Rajan bete! Unka aapka bhai se rishta hai, yeh sochiye ki jab aapke bhai ko yeh pata chalega toh wo kaisa mahsus karenge. Yadi yeh baat bahar aati hai to aapke liye bohot saari pariwarik aur samajik samasya ho sakti hai. Apni bhabhi ka samman kijiye aur apna chintan swashth kijiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lijiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Gopi bete iske bare mein yaha padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/how-long-does-sex-normally-last Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gahri charcha me judna chahte hai to hamare discussion Board “Just Puchho” me jarur shaamil ho. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Himu beta yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi. So Jald baazi mat keejiye, phele finger se try keejiye, koi lubrication use keejye… Lekin aapki partner ko bahut hee relaxed rehana hai aur aapko bhi is dauran bahut hee support karna hai. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh bilkul zaroori nahin, aur na hee iski rai dee jaati hai. Iske barre mein yeh padhiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts Yadi sex dono pyaar ke saathiyoun ke beech ho, surakshit yaani bina koi zore zabardasti ke ho, so bahut hee achcha. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Wed, 01/11/2023 - 20:13
मैं अपनी गर्लफ्रेंड के साथ सेक्स करना चाहता हूं वो भी मेरे साथ सेक्स करना चाहती है, मगर उसकी शादी 6 महीने बाद होने वाली है तो डर रही है कि सेक्स करने के बाद ब्लड सिर्फ एक बार आता है और शादी के बाद सेक्स के दौरान ब्लड नही आयेगा तो मुझे नही रख जाएगा, इस वजह से सेक्स करने से डरती है और मना करती है मगर कहती है कि तुम्हारे साथ सेक्स करने का बहुत मन कर रहा है। तो ऐसा कैसे करे की शादी के बाद उसके पति को पता न चले कुछ भी।
hmmm! गर्लफ्रेंड आपकी हैं और शादी किसी और से हो रही है ? बेटा ये समझ लो कि किसी भी sexual activity के लिए दोनों partners कि बराबर मर्ज़ी का होना बेहद ज़रूरी है। सो यदि वो ऐसा करने से इन्कार कर भी रही है तो आपको उनकी इच्छा का सम्मान करना चाहिए इसलिए ज़रा इस ओर से ध्यान हटाकर अपने रिश्ते मे और सुन्दर चिज़े ढूंढिए और इसे और सुन्दर बनाए ok? जहाँ तक ब्लीडिंग की बात है तो कौमार्या का मतलब एक हाइमेन या झिल्ली से जुड़ा हुआ है. याद रखिए की यह बहुत ही आसानी से टूट सकती है, cycling, horse riding , या खेल-कूद के दौरान. इसलिए जब तक महिला खुद न ही बतायेंगी की वो पहली बार ही सेक्स कर रही हैं वो इस बात का पता नही लगा सकते ! इसे पढ़िए: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/virginity/jhailalai-evan-kaaumaaraya-kae-baarae-maen-ama-pauuchae-gae-savaala यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, "जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Meetra beta yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh shighrpatan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
OH that is a very sad situation beta, but don’t worry. Yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi. So apne partner se kahiye Jald baazi na kare, phele finger se try keejiye, koi lubrication use keejye… Lekin apko bahut hee relaxed rehana hai aur apke partner ko bhi is dauran bahut hee support karna hai. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh bilkul zaroori nahin, aur na hee iski rai dee jaati hai. Iske barre mein yeh padhiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/en/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love For happy sex https://lovematters.in/hi/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant Yadi sex dono pyaar ke saathiyoun ke beech ho, surakshit yaani bina koi zore zabardasti ke ho, so bahut hee achcha. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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