Talking about sex
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Tips for him on making love

Not sure how to talk to your partner about sex? Here are a few tips to make it easier for you.

Be yourself

Have faith in yourself and don’t try to pretend to be someone you’re not.

Talk and listen

Be sensitive to your partner and think about what they want. Learn from each other. You can also say, ‘let’s try something new’. Or you can ask, ‘what would you like?’

Put things carefully

Think carefully about the way you say things to your partner – don’t hurt their feelings.

Choose the right place

If you want to talk about sex, choose a quiet place where nobody else is around.

Know what you want

Think about what you really want and don’t want. Don’t just have sex because of what other people might think of you, or because you think it makes you look cool. Only do it because you really want to.

Be aware of exactly what messages your partner is sending

You can tell if your partner wants sex or not – from the sounds they make, from the way they guide your hands, from the look in their eyes, from the way they touch you.

Sometimes it's not so clear

‘Maybe’ usually means ‘no’.

Be yourself

Have faith in yourself and don’t try to pretend to be someone you’re not.

Talk and listen

Be sensitive to your partner and think about what they want. Learn from each other. You can also say, ‘let’s try something new’. Or you can ask, ‘what would you like?’

Put things carefully

Think carefully about the way you say things to your partner – don’t hurt their feelings.

Choose the right place

If you want to talk about sex, choose a quiet place where nobody else is around.

Know what you want

Think about what you really want and don’t want. Don’t just have sex because of what other people might think of you, or because you think it makes you look cool. Only do it because you really want to.

Be aware of exactly what messages your partner is sending

You can tell if your partner wants sex or not – from the sounds they make, from the way they guide your hands, from the look in their eyes, from the way they touch you.

Sometimes it's not so clear

‘Maybe’ usually means ‘no’.

Comments

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Vikram bete, jaldi viryapaat hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. Toh sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Kuch nahi bête aur aap kuch kar bhi nahi saktay kyunki Aaap khud ye nirney nahi ley saktay ki aapka penis small hai big, aur sorry bête isay bada ya lamba karne ka koi tarika nahi hai Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liey yaha padh lo: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes

Aare!! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir  Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- yadi kisi apne dost ya saathi ke saath ho jinhe hum bahut pyaar, izzat, ya dosti karte hain, toh yeh bahut hee sundar baat ho saktee hai. Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, itna mazedaar bhi nahin hai aur phaydemand bhi nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating 

Batao!! Iska koi formula hota hai kya? Arre nahin bhai. Dost banao, dosti ke liye na ki patane ke liye, phir dekho kya baat bantee hai. Zara soch khulli karo!! Apna look theek thaak karo, saaf suthre to dikho... koi badbudaar nahin!! Aur alag alag baaton mein dilchaspi rakho aur dikhao!! samjhe mr formula?!! Aur rahi baat jah atak hatsmethun ki toh yeh ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Hmm! Yes yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi so yadi ahista ahaista keey ajaaye toh yahan ling enter kar sakta hai. Lekin apki partner ko bahut hee relaxed rehana hai aur apko bhi aapko bahut hee support karn ahai is dauran. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh zaroori nahin, iske barre mein http://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts Yadi sex dono pyaar ke saathiyoun ke beech ho, surakshit yaani bina koi zore zabardasti ke ho, so bahut hee achcha.

Beta jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur bête Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Bete isye swapandosh ya nightfall kehte hain jo ki bohot common hai yeh koi bimaari nahi jiska ilaaz mojjud , isye aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga, baaki aap yaha padh lo : clovematters.in/hi/news/wet-dreams-top-five-factsa

Hmmmm! kya unhone bhi sex ke liye apni sehmati dikhai hai ? Yadi nahi toh aap Kuch mat kijiey aur sahi sammaey aaney ka intzaar kijiey jab wo khud sehmati dikhaey sex ke liey.Kyunki kisi bhi rishtey mey jabardasti acceptable nahi hai . in baton se dhyan hatiey aur apney rishtey ko aur majbut banaiey. http://lovematters.in/en/news/how-can-i-convince-her-have-sex

Ohhh! beta itna daro gay toh baat kese bangei? acha relax karo! Koi jaldi nahi hai! apana pura time lo har baat ko achhe se samjho! Mentally, physically, aur emotionally bhi. Is website pe bahut see jaan kari de gayee hai use padh lo…Hum humeshan yahan hai aapke liye. ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Aur yeh jo aap bata rahy hain na ling se paani nikalna it is very common beta yeh toh is baat ka lakshan ha ki aap sex ke liye puri tarah swasth hain.

Yeh toh bahut hee common baat hai beta. Sex ki bhavna yadi adhik ho to yeh hona bahut hee common hai. So don’t worry.Aur rahi baat hastmethun ki toh yeh ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Bete Raj ! aisa kyun ho raha hai? kya aap koi aisi activity kar rahe hain jo ki unhe pasand nahi aa rahi hai? Sabse zaroori hoga ki aap unse pyar aur vishawas ke saath iski vajeh poochein, bina jhagda, bina aalochna. Tab hee aap anumaan laga saktey hain, hain na? Saat hee, unhe unka vishwaas aur pyaar…. Yeh bhi yaad rakhiye, ki sex mein HAAN karna ya NAA, yeh bhi unka haq hai, unka nirnay… so yadi who Na kartee hain, so ek baat to tay hi ki koi bhi zor ya zabardasti bilkul allow nahin ha, samjhe beta jee?! zara yeh bhi padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed

Areee! bete koi kamzori nahi, thakaan ko kamzori na samjho bête!! it’s quite common, Bus swasth raho aur yaad rakho ki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Aur Phir yadi aap itna tension pressure mein rahege toh ling mein tanav ki samsya utpan ho sakti hai bete! yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karne ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction

Bete Amit Ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai.All the best

Hmmm! Nahi isse pregnancy nahi hoti lekin Kyunki Mukh maithun ka sabse ehem pehlu hai atyant saaf safai – dono partners keliye, iska dhyaan rakhiye. All the best beta. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0 Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Aisi sthithi mein abse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Relax! yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Suniye ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil karo aap http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
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