Talking about sex
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Tips for him on making love

Not sure how to talk to your partner about sex? Here are a few tips to make it easier for you.

Be yourself

Have faith in yourself and don’t try to pretend to be someone you’re not.

Talk and listen

Be sensitive to your partner and think about what they want. Learn from each other. You can also say, ‘let’s try something new’. Or you can ask, ‘what would you like?’

Put things carefully

Think carefully about the way you say things to your partner – don’t hurt their feelings.

Choose the right place

If you want to talk about sex, choose a quiet place where nobody else is around.

Know what you want

Think about what you really want and don’t want. Don’t just have sex because of what other people might think of you, or because you think it makes you look cool. Only do it because you really want to.

Be aware of exactly what messages your partner is sending

You can tell if your partner wants sex or not – from the sounds they make, from the way they guide your hands, from the look in their eyes, from the way they touch you.

Sometimes it's not so clear

‘Maybe’ usually means ‘no’.

Be yourself

Have faith in yourself and don’t try to pretend to be someone you’re not.

Talk and listen

Be sensitive to your partner and think about what they want. Learn from each other. You can also say, ‘let’s try something new’. Or you can ask, ‘what would you like?’

Put things carefully

Think carefully about the way you say things to your partner – don’t hurt their feelings.

Choose the right place

If you want to talk about sex, choose a quiet place where nobody else is around.

Know what you want

Think about what you really want and don’t want. Don’t just have sex because of what other people might think of you, or because you think it makes you look cool. Only do it because you really want to.

Be aware of exactly what messages your partner is sending

You can tell if your partner wants sex or not – from the sounds they make, from the way they guide your hands, from the look in their eyes, from the way they touch you.

Sometimes it's not so clear

‘Maybe’ usually means ‘no’.

Comments

anti i need to know k meri gf ne first time fingrng ki tu bht bleeding hoi usko.. tu does it mean that she has lose her virginity..? anti i am really worried about her and she is also.. so kindly give me reply.. i am waiting

Vikram bete, jaldi viryapaat hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. Toh sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Dilip beta, sex ki ichccha hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahayata nahi kar sakte! Lekin aap hastmethun try kar sakte hain kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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