What is Masturbation?
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What is Masturbation?

When you masturbate, you touch and caress yourself to give yourself sexual pleasure. Often you do this until you're fully aroused and have an orgasm.

Masturbating makes you sexually aroused. There are lots of ways to do it.

Women usually do it by rubbing their clitoris and vagina with their fingers. And men do it by rubbing their penis up and down. But you can try anything you like. For example, you can arouse yourself by touching your nipples or your anus.

You can also arouse yourself by fantasising about sexual images or stories. You can fantasise about whatever you like – nothing is weird in a fantasy!

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Masturbating is enjoyable. Also it’s useful. You get to know your own body. You find out what your penis or vagina looks like. How it feels, smells, and works. And if you know what turns you on and gives you an orgasm, you can tell this to your partner when you make love.

Even if they’re in a relationship, most people masturbate. It’s perfectly normal to masturbate very often. But if you never feel like doing it at all, that’s not unusual either!

Masturbation in a relationship

Many people continue masturbating even when they’re in a happy and committed relationship. But why would they if their partner is sexually pleasing them? There are several reasons. But it’s good to know that people who masturbate regularly also tend to have more satisfying sex lives in general.

A few reasons why people in a relationship masturbate:

·         Stress relief: some people use masturbation as a release to relax after a stressful day.

·         They feel aroused but don’t want to have full sex or don’t have the right opportunity for it.

·         They want to try out different techniques and movements, which they can then practice with their partner.

·         They know the rhythm of their own body and use masturbation to help build the excitement.

·         If you’re getting upset by the fact your partner masturbates regularly, calmly ask them why they do it. Then ask if you can watch next time! Both men and women can find it a turn-on to be watched masturbating by their partner.

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‘I’d really like to watch you masturbate next time, so I can see what turns you on.’

Then your partner won’t feel ashamed of doing something perfectly natural, and you won’t feel excluded. It can be a real turn-on to watch! And you may well pick up some tips on what feels good to them for the next time you have sex together.

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Suniye Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- yadi kisi apne dost ya saathi ke saath ho jinhe hum bahut pyaar, izzat, ya dosti karte hain, toh yeh bahut hee sundar baat ho saktee hai. Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, itna mazedaar bhi nahin hai aur phaydemand bhi nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/men-masturbating
Aare Nitesh bete!! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best
Dekho bête yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex karnye ke lieye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona bohot hi zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zarurui hai, aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? kahin aap kisi tention, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karne ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction
ling ka tayyar na hona toh kahin aap kisi tention, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karnay ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction
Suno bete! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best
ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best
Suno beta. Yeh Paani waali baat ek kism ka confusin hai. Kaun sa paani? Kya aap yeh soch rahe ho ki jaise mardon mwin aata hain wasie? Nahin beta asia nahin hota. Mahilaoun mein paani ki badhotri hoti hai, mardon jasie nahin. Who tab jab woh sex mein anand mehsoos kartee hai, ya orgasm. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-orgasms Ab yadi aap itne tense ho toh sex ko enjoy kaise kar saktey ho? Sabse pehel aapko ekdum relaxed rehan ahi aur use oopar, aapke partner ko yeh dekhan ahi yak eh saktey hai ki yeh khojna hai ki actually aapko kya pasand hai aur kya nahin. Apne body ko jaano aur jo achcha lage who karo . Usse uttejna bhi badh jayeeea aur aap dono sex enjoy kar sakte ho. Ok? Now bilkul relax aur saath hee yeh bhi padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed
Suniye Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
Hmmm! sex ki ichha hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahyata nahi kar saktay aap chhahein toh masturbation yani hastmethun try kar sakte hain joki ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka.http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/women-masturbating
Aisa hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahayata nahi kar saktay! Lekin aap hastmethun try kar saktay hain kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/women-masturbating
Jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
Hmmm! aisa kyun ho raha hai? kya aap koi aisi activity kar rahe hain jo ki unhe pasand nahi aa rahi hai? Sabse zaroori hoga ki aap unse pyar aur vishawas ke saath iski vajeh poochein, bina jhagda, bina aalochna. Tab hee aap anumaan laga saktey hain, hain na? Yeh bhi yaad rakhiye, ki sex mein HAAN karna ya NAA, yeh bhi unka haq hai, unka nirnay… so yadi who Na kartee hain, so ek baat to tay hi ki koi bhi zor ya zabardasti bilkul allow nahin ha, samjhe beta jee?! zara yeh bhi padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed
ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai.All the best.
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