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Masturbating

When you masturbate, you touch and caress yourself to give yourself sexual pleasure. Often you do this until you're fully aroused and have an orgasm.

Masturbating makes you sexually aroused. There are lots of ways to do it.

Women usually do it by rubbing their clitoris and vagina with their fingers. And men do it by rubbing their penis up and down. But you can try anything you like. For example, you can arouse yourself by touching your nipples or your anus.

You can also arouse yourself by fantasising about sexual images or stories. You can fantasise about whatever you like – nothing is weird in a fantasy!

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Masturbating is enjoyable. Also it’s useful. You get to know your own body. You find out what your penis or vagina looks like. How it feels, smells, and works. And if you know what turns you on and gives you an orgasm, you can tell this to your partner when you make love.

Even if they’re in a relationship, most people masturbate. It’s perfectly normal to masturbate very often. But if you never feel like doing it at all, that’s not unusual either!

Masturbation in a relationship

Many people continue masturbating even when they’re in a happy and committed relationship. But why would they if their partner is sexually pleasing them? There are several reasons. But it’s good to know that people who masturbate regularly also tend to have more satisfying sex lives in general.

A few reasons why people in a relationship masturbate:

·         Stress relief: some people use masturbation as a release to relax after a stressful day.

·         They feel aroused but don’t want to have full sex or don’t have the right opportunity for it.

·         They want to try out different techniques and movements, which they can then practice with their partner.

·         They know the rhythm of their own body and use masturbation to help build the excitement.

·         If you’re getting upset by the fact your partner masturbates regularly, calmly ask them why they do it. Then ask if you can watch next time! Both men and women can find it a turn-on to be watched masturbating by their partner.

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‘I’d really like to watch you masturbate next time, so I can see what turns you on.’

Then your partner won’t feel ashamed of doing something perfectly natural, and you won’t feel excluded. It can be a real turn-on to watch! And you may well pick up some tips on what feels good to them for the next time you have sex together.

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AK LANGYAN
Fri, 06/03/2016 - 11:21

aunty ji mere l**d ka size chota h nd m daily mutth marta hu or jb bi m kisi sexy ladki ko dekhta hu to ye khada ho jata h nd har time khada rhta h plz help

Aap khud ye nirnay le ki aapka ling chhota hai ya bada yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Aur sorry bête isay bada ya lamba karne ka koi tarika nahi hai Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liye yaha padh ljiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Hastmaithun bhi ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. Jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Utejna hone par ling main tanaav aana toh bahut common see baat hai. Haan yeh toh zaroor hai ki yadi aap har mahila ya ladki ko dekhkar uttejit ho jaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahilaon ke prati bahut ek arfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hi chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi! Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Aap iske liye hastmaithun ko zimmedaar mat samajhiye aur na hi thakaan ko kamzori samajhiye!! Bas swasth raho aur yaad rakho ki hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti, yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/masturbation-bad-habit https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Pehle zamajhiye ki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes

ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best

Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apne aap ko santusht karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut si aur activities hai jinme aap time bita sakte hai, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Beta, Kya aapki samasya jaldi discharge hai? Agar essa hai toh iss stithi mein partner par focus badhana, foreplay; pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaien karna, jinke baare mein aap niche diye gaye link par padh sakte hai, apne partner kee uttejna badhane ke liye, yeh sab activities karna sabse zaroori hain. Iske elava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle ek baar hastmaithun kar sakte hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi aapki iss samasya ko sujhane mein madad kar sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/foreplay-dos-and-donts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Bete, it depends on you and it is completely your personal choice. remember that masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness. But there are many other activities where you can spend or utilize your time such as sports, games Or hobbies. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Hi auntyji i am get addicted to mastrubation mein daily mastrubate karta hun 5-6times a day mujhe mastrubation puri tarah bandh karna hai semen jo hai watery or sometimes cloudy aa raha hai testicles mein bhi pain hota hai errection mein bhi dikkat aa rahi hai weak errection errection jadha time tak maintain nai ho pa raha hai plz auntyji aap kuch bataye kya mein aage baby produce kar paunga meine decide kar liya ki mein ab se bilkul mastrubate nai karne wala help me auntyji plz
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