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Anal sex

Many people enjoy anal sex. Others are ashamed of it or think it’s dirty. Anal sex is often a taboo.

What feels good?

It can feel good to have your anus stroked. It can also feel good to have a finger inside your anus. If you put your finger in your partner’s anus during sex, first moisten your finger with spit or lubricant. When you first touch it, the anus will squeeze tight – it’s a muscle reflex. Rest your finger on it and wait a little before you go any further.

Possibilities
Touch your anus when you masturbate.
Stroke or caress your partner’s anus during lovemaking.
Put something in the anus – a finger, a penis, a vibrator
Lick the anus – this is sometimes called ‘rimming’
Press or caress the skin between the balls and the anus (the perineum).

Touching the prostate
In men, a little way inside the anus you can feel the prostate. This is one of the most sensitive parts of a boy’s body. It’s about five centimetres inside the anus on the stomach side. Some men find it arousing to have their prostate touched. You can do it by putting your finger in the anus and moving it in and out.

The anus is close to the sex organs, has a lot of nerve endings and contracts when you have an orgasm. This is why anal sex feels good.

Pain
Anal sex shouldn’t hurt. But if you’ve no experience with it, it can be painful. Use lubricant and relax during lovemaking, and the pain will go. If it’s painful when the penis enters the anus, pull it out carefully, because it can hurt even more if you do it quickly.

Many people like to include the anus in lovemaking. If you don’t, say so. You don’t have to like everything!

Tips for problem-free anal sex

- Take your time. Start carefully and gently, give each other time to relax.

- Always use a water-based lubricant.

- Always use a condom. The inside of the anus can easily get infected. You can easily get little cuts or cracks in the skin, putting you at risk of infection with HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases. If your condom tears, you should go to a clinic or see a medical professional and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. You don’t have to have anal sex. If you don’t want to, or it doesn’t work out, just do something else that you enjoy. Worried about hygiene?

- Make sure you’ve passed stool before you start. And you can also have a shower together first.

- Use a new condom if you have vaginal sex after anal sex. And if you’ve done it without a condom, at least wash your penis. The same goes for dildos and vibrators.

- If you put an object in the anus, make sure it’s the right shape. The tip should be rounded and the outside end should be wider than the rest, otherwise it can get sucked inside the rectum and get stuck.

You can’t get pregnant through anal sex. But you can get pregnant if sperm runs forward into the vagina.

Step-by-step

The first time you have anal sex it can be scary and sometimes painful. This usually passes when you have more experience, use lubricant, and relax during sex.

Step by step

1. First touch and caress the anus, to get used to the feeling. If it feels good to your partner, you can put your finger inside the anus a little way and move it slowly back and forth.
2. Would you like to go further? You can put a small dildo or buttplug (a special dildo designed for the anus) inside, to get used to something that’s a bit bigger than a finger, but still smaller than a penis.
3. Both still happy about it and you’d like to go further still? You can gently put the end of the penis in – use a condom and plenty of lubricant! Do it slowly and carefully so you can both get used to it. If it’s painful, take the penis out slowly. If you do it quickly, it can hurt all the more.
4. Does this still feel good for both of you? Then the boy can slowly push his penis deeper in the anus and increase the speed.

Gay or straight

Is anal sex only for homosexuals? Not at all, heterosexuals also have anal sex. It’s one of the ways of having sex for both homosexuals and heterosexuals.

Comments

Yeh toh bahut hee common baat hai beta. Sex ki bhavna yadi adhik ho to yeh hona bahut hee common hai. So don’t worry. Haan yeh toh zaroor hai ki yadi app HAR mahila ya ladki se koi bhi baat karety waqt uttejit ho jaaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahiloun ke prti bahut ek tarfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hee chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi!

Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

but during anal sex the partner love to use my mouth .he put his pines direct anal to mouth ,,,its ok that time bearable after discharging i go to washroom and drop in hole and wash my mouth.my partner lick my anal hole before penetration which is very joy able .my partner also love to lick my clit and go deep after my discharging same he go washroom and wash mouth . and we awaiting for next trip

i am 30 years old and i want to be gay and anybody strong man fuck my ass big whitish soft ass. but problem is this i feel lot of pain when top man inter his penis in my hole. plz solve my problem so i want a dick who fuck me with less pain.

i marraiged with a beautiful girl mean my wife,so we often get a anal sex,with out condom. please some one tell me the safe way to have anal sex without condom.thanks
Rider Ashish
Sat, 01/09/2016 - 20:01

Hello Mam,Meri umar 18 saal hai aur mere gf ki 16 saal ham sex ke liye raazi hai par uski umar 16 saal hai sex karna safe rahega ya nahikya mein uske sath sex kar sakta hu???

Hmmm! So Ashish suniye 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye Ab sahi aur galat ka nirnye aap swayam lijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/im-21-love-teenager

Nothing like that, dear. It's just a myth. If this works for you, Go ahead but remember to use condom! There is no possibility to get pregnant through anal sex, don’t worry! But for cleanliness sake it is recommended that you use a condom. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Aaap khud ye nirney nahi ley saktay ki aapka penis small hai big, aur sorry bête isay bada ya lamba karne ka koi tarika nahi hai Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liey yaha padh lo: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes

Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin , condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Dekhiye kisi bhi sex activity ke liye dono partners ki sehmati hona bohot zaruri hai.Isliye aap Kuch mat kijiey aur sahi sammaey aaney ka intzaar kijiey jab wo khud sehmati dikhaey sex ke liey.Kyunki kisi bhi rishtey mey jabardasti acceptable nahi hai . in baton se dhyan hatiey aur apney rishtey ko aur majbut banaiey.

Suniye Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to hi yeh kar saktay hai lekin bete yadi unki sehmati issay karne mein nahi hai toh please koi force mat kijiye, kyunki kisi bhi rishtay mein zabradasti ke liye koi sthann nahi hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Suniye! Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin , condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Ek baar ejeculation ke ling ko dubara utejit hone mein jo time lagta hai woh bohot hi common hai so don't worry. Aur bête Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Suniye! Is tarah hum kisi bhi medicine ka naam apko nahi bata sakte! Aur naa hi is tarah koi bhi medicine lena swasth hai.Aur ek baar ejaculation ke dubara ling ke tyyar hone mein jo samye lagta hai woh bohot common hain.so don't worry!

Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin , condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Dekho bete! kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain :is baaray mein yaha padhein: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love

Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin , condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Bete anal sex mein koi samsya nahi yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Bete guda methun mein condom ka istemal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi tarah ke sankramn se bacha ja sake. Toh bete condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Waise Anup bete! aapko kisi ki bhi body ke bare mein is tarah ki baat karna shobha nahi deta! aur phir toh woh aapki jeevan saathi hain, yeh samjh lo ki kisi bhi sexual activity ke liye dono partners ki barabr ki marzi ka hona behad zaruri hai. So yadi woh aisa karne se inkaar kar bhi rahi hain toh apko unki ichha ka samaan karana chahiye,isliye zara is aur se dhyan hata kar apne rishte mein aur sundar chize dhundhiye, Aur phir, aur bhi bohot si activities hain jo aap try kar sakte hain.http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love

ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best

Hmmm! aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Suno bete! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Beta Mahi Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Aap kuch nahi kar sakte bete kyunki ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best

Hmmm! Woh part bohot dry hota hai isliey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kiya jata hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi iske liye tayyar nahin ho jaata – isme dono ki marzee honi chhaiye.Yadi abhi aapki wife ready nhin so ruk jaayeiye aur jab tak veh sahej na menhsus karein is activity ke ilava kuch aur try keejiye sex mein dard ya takleef ki koi jagen nahin aur naa he force ya zabardasti ki. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Actually yeh poori tareh se na, ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Beta aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Aur Bete virya ka gadha-mota hone se koi sambandh nahi hai zara yeh padho: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ejaculation

Hmmm! Woh part bohot dry hota hai isliey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kiya jata hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme dono ki marzee honi chhaiye.Yadi abhi aap dono sehjta nahi mehsus kar rahe hain toh thoda samye lijiye. Ya koi aur activity bhi try kar sakte hain. Aur Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love

Hmmm! yadi app HAR mahila ya ladki se koi bhi baat karety waqt uttejit ho jaaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahiloun ke prti bahut ek arfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hee chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi!Apne aas paas ki mahilaon ko respect dijiye jese aap apne ghar ki mahilaon ko dete hain.

Bete isye oral sex kehte hain. Oral sex karnay mein koi samsya nahi maslan saaf-safai ka poora dhyan rakha gaya ho aur ismay dono partners ki barab marzi shamil ho toh! aur behtar hoga yadi condom ka isteml kiya jaey aur yaha padh lijiey : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0

Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin , condom use karein, for sure. isse safety bhi rahegee, safai bhi aur sex mein aasaani bhi. All the best http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex

Beta aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

नहीं सर , इसका वैसे तो गुदा मैथुन से कोई संबंध नहीं है. शायद आप जिसकी बात कर रहे हैं योनि का हिस्सा है. प्लीज़ बिना समय गवाए, कृपया एक डॉक्टर से सलाह लें, इसमे टाइम व्यर्थ ना करें. चाहे यह किसी भी नाम से जाना जाए, इसका उपाय तो करना ही होगा ना, सो अब उस पर ध्यान दीजिए. All the best.

Mein samjhee nahin beta… aap sirf dost ban ke rehana chahtey hain lekin uske pati se bhi thoda darr rahe hain? Yeh hai kya? Suno beta, koi bhi asia kadam na uthao jiss se aap par koi nirbhar ho jaye, ki kal koi baat hui bhi to aap toh chal doge, mooh mode ke, lekin uska humsafer ya saathi ya dost choot jaayega… yeh toh aur bhi dukh ki baat hogi na unke liye? Dosti rakho, lekin shuru se hee limit ya ek boundry bana ke rakho, kal aap dono is hee kareebee ko Mohabbat samjh baithenge toh iska parinaam gambheer bhi ho sakta hai.

Sex se koi nuksaan nahi jab tak ki wo safe sex hai, yaani poori samjhdaari dono logo ki sehmati aur safety ke sath kiya gaya sex ho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Dekho bête Samir! yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex karnye ke lieye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zarurui hai, aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? kahin aap kisi tention, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karne ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction https://lovematters.in/hi/news/erection-trouble-where-turn

Bete Mohan ling ke size mein ek apna teda pann hona is quite common bete don't worry isse koi samsya hoti nahin hai.Yeh padhiye zara: http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc Saath hi sex activity mein alag-alag tariko ka istemal kartay huay isse kese aur majjaydaar banana hai is baaray mein yaha padhein: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love
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