I have sex but still masturbate – is that normal?
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I have sex but still masturbate – is that normal?

By Auntyji Tuesday, July 10, 2012 - 13:51
Q: Is it strange that I masturbate even though I have sex with my girlfriend? We've been together for six months and we’ve had sex from the start. But even after having sex with her, I’ve masturbated a few times. Is that abnormal? Shams, Phagwara

Spicing things up

In fact, she’ll be relieved enough to reveal her masturbatory schedule to you as well. But to remove all potential conflicts, maybe you can gently explain to her that your masturbation is not a declaration of her inadequacy but just your way of spicing things up. Call it the achaar in your sex life if you please.

OK, too many food analogies. It’s time for me to get something to eat. But Shams betaji, do remember that a fulfilling sex life can include any ratio of sexual intercourse and masturbation from both (or more) partners involved. And you seem to be having fun with your girlfriend and without her. So why worry? Have enough Rooh Afza and grin widely at how well things are going for you.

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Spicing things up

In fact, she’ll be relieved enough to reveal her masturbatory schedule to you as well. But to remove all potential conflicts, maybe you can gently explain to her that your masturbation is not a declaration of her inadequacy but just your way of spicing things up. Call it the achaar in your sex life if you please.

OK, too many food analogies. It’s time for me to get something to eat. But Shams betaji, do remember that a fulfilling sex life can include any ratio of sexual intercourse and masturbation from both (or more) partners involved. And you seem to be having fun with your girlfriend and without her. So why worry? Have enough Rooh Afza and grin widely at how well things are going for you.

To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed. 

Have a similar story? Share with Love Matters (LM) on our Facebook page. If you have a specific question, please ask LM experts on our discussion forum. We are also on Instagram, YouTube and Twitter. 

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