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Would you have sex before marriage?

Love Matters India asked many young people in Mumbai what they think about sex before marriage and here is what they had to say.

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Gayathri Bhaskaran says, “We’re all a curious lot. Anything you ask us not to do, we end up doing it.”

“If both the partners think they don’t need sex before marriage, then it’s fine. But if they feel that they need it or it happens, it’s not a bad thing,” says Deylyn Norohna.

Shirley D’Costa says, “Everything used to be controlled. Sex was supposed to happen after an arranged marriage, which I don’t think happens as much any more.”

“Every time you want to do something new, you want to be good at it before you do it the right way around. It’s always good to do a little bit of practice before you’re perfect,” Shoeb Shaikh thinks.

Mitali Adhikari thinks sex before marriage itself isn’t a problem: "The problem is that the girl is having sex before marriage.”

Shasvathi Siva has a simple explanation: “You’re in a relationship and you make so many decisions - this is just another one.”

Tamanna Jaisinghani says you could do what you like, “But your parents will never accept the concept of casual sex.”

Aabha says, “If two people are in love with each other and don’t believe in the institution of marriage or just want to express their love, they should have their space.”

What’s your opinion? Leave a comment below or send us your thoughts via Facebook. And stay tuned for our next video: Why sex before marriage is a bad idea. 

 

Gayatri Parameswaran is a multi-award-winning writer, director and producer of immersive media works. She was born and raised in India and is currently based in Berlin, where she co-founded NowHere Media - a storytelling studio that views contemporary issues through a critical lens. She also edited the Love Matters website in its initial years. Check out more about her here.

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Before marriage doing sex is 100 % wrong becoz if partners will sex before marriage then the charm of love will b finish. As my thinking girl save our life if she is not doing sex before sex.
Viraj patel
Sat, 11/04/2017 - 23:40
Everything is okay,until you have guts to admit that to the person you are going to marry. Now comes the deal,people hide. Now if you think it is wrong then do not do it and if u think it is not wrong then do not hide it. Marriage is based on honesty,always remember that. Now some girls will come forward and say,what should we do it is not our fault that the boys' side do not want to accept the truth,well then he is not the only guy for you to marry,go to that guy u had sex with and ask hin to marry then. After all,in most if the cases he has promissed her to marry,so whatever reason it may be,if you are not marrying to each other,that is your fault not that poor fella from whom u r going to hide everything. And one more thing,he has to also admit about past,if he doesn't then god bless you both and have a blessed marriage life hiding from each other.
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