'I'm sleeping with my maid'

Ravi is a 24-year-old IT professional based in Gurgaon.

I’ve been sleeping with my maid for the past one year. With a hectic work schedule and many weekends spent at office, I couldn’t find the time (and sometimes even the will) to meet and build a romantic relationship with other women.

The fact that I was a virgin didn’t do much for my confidence. I’ve always fantasied about how I’d make out with a girl. Foreplay, oral pleasure and then mind-blowing sex throughout the night, I’ve dreamt about it all! However, just the thought of approaching a girl and I’d break into a sweat.

Consoling sex

Nisha started cleaning the house and cooking my meals about two years ago. She is young, married and attractive. Our relationship was typically formal but cordial, similar to what you see in most homes.

One day I saw her crying in the kitchen and upon inquiring she broke down and spoke about her alcoholic husband who would get physically abusive every time he got drunk. I consoled her and soon we were hugging and kissing. Sex followed rather quickly and naturally. Soon we would be going at it six or seven times a week and sometimes twice in a day. After all, I had to make up for lost time.

Better than a brothel

I try love-making positions I’ve seen in porn movies and experiment with something new each time. I’m learning how to pleasure a woman and more importantly myself! Initially I’d come quickly and it was all over before it even began, especially for her. Now, I can go on for several minutes each time and make love for longer.

Besides taking care of my sexual needs, Nisha, didn’t judge how good or bad I was in bed. And I think this arrangement, for me, is a million times better than going to a brothel. I give her extra money and buy her a few gifts at times. She seems content, because till now she hasn’t asked me for anything.

Rape!

My best friend, Naveen, knows my deal with my maid Nisha. Although he understands why it happened he doesn’t approve of it. “We aren’t living in the era when Maharajas slept with servants and didn’t have to worry about consequences. Nisha may get greedy and blackmail you. Or worse, if you upset her, she’ll lodge a complaint with the police and charge you for rape!” he said.

I’d be lying if I said that I wasn’t worried about what Naveen said. I do fret about getting into trouble and have even imagined her liquor-soaked husband running after me with a knife, so I try to be cautious. I always wear a condom and never make a move without her consent. I‘m not in love with her and she doesn’t seem to have any “lovey-dovey” feelings for me.

I’m certain our liaison will end soon. But in the meantime this is what I want. And with all the practice I’m getting, it’s likely my future sex partners will be extremely satisfied and impressed with my love making skills, to say the least!

First published on 10-03-2014.Additional photo credit: Gamut Stockimages

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