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Should we try sex toys to spice things up?

By Auntyji Tuesday, April 19, 2016 - 17:26
Auntyji, we want to make our boring sex life exciting. Should we try using a sex toy? We haven’t used any yet, please guide us! Vishnu and Tanya, (25), Kolkata.

Three is also a couple

Betaji, the third angle to your love triangle is a sex toy. Now let’s not confuse sex toys with sexy toys. Your sexy looking Barbie doll is not a sex toy! There are special products in the market specifically made to cater to your sexual needs. They can be called sex toys, love toys etc.

These toys are mainly used during sex or while masturbating. They help you to have better time, spice up your chemistry and aim to increase pleasure. These little items can do a lot for both of you, only if you are ready and willing to use them.

A buffet on display

So beta, if you have not read or seen or even heard of any of the sex toys before, be ready to be surprised. You will be amazed to check out the variety of products available in the market. Toh puttron, sab toh pehlaan, keep this in mind. Sex toys are for enhancing sexual pleasure. They are not meant to solve your sexual problems. Samjhe?!

Now let’s begin with all the sexy activities. First discuss with your partner what you like and what would you want to experiment with. Then both of you look at options, ki jee hai kyaa kyaa? Grab your asses to the interesting website mentioned above and check the wide range of products they offer.

From lubricants to sexy lingerie. From toys for him to toys for her, let your journey of exploration and pleasure begin. However, here is the only thing to keep in mind, like anything else for good sex. Please discuss with your partner if they are ready to use a sex toy.

Springing a surprise in bed may not essentially have happy endings. Negotiation is always necessary, you see.


For a wide range of sex toys or other intimate products, visit lovetreats, shipping all over India.

Perks of sides

Pata hai puttar, exploring sex toys has many other benefits on the side. You begin to share and talk with your partner more openly. You discuss what you like and what you want your partner to focus on. To buy something for the two of you, you will have to consider each other’s opinions. Have open discussions about how you think you can make sex more enjoyable. It’s just not about you but about your partner too, right?

I am sure that you two are going to have lots of fun, as if your foreplay begins at shopping itself. The feeling could be similar to that of buying a new car, but double the mazaa. Buying a Maruti, feeling like Mercedes! That’s completely okay, I think.

Legal and available?

Finally, let’s tackle some crucial and important questions. Are sex toys available in India and are they legal to use? So beta, we haven’t heard of a sex toy ki dukaan yet. Lekin you can shop till you drop online and in India it is completely legal to use them.

Now get on your feet, dust off your fear and find a good, reliable, safe and discreet website that will deliver you a special package of love at your doorstep.

Make sure that you use them properly. Wash your toy after you use it every time and try not to use them with multiple partners. Keep them away from children or other members of your family. Bas kahin asia na ho ki Bittu baba is seen running around the house with your new purple vibrator and yelling, “Dadaji, aapke shoulder massage ki machine aagayee.”

Chalo ji, welcome your third partner into your bedroom, put on those sexy candles, bring out the oil and the toy, lay out your sexy sheets, put on your sexy outfit and start playing your own pyaar ki dhunn, “Maine tujhe chunn liyaa, tu bhi mujhe chun chun chun…”

To protect the privacy of the author, the person in the picture is a model. 

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