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टूटे दिल का इलाज

टूटे रिश्तों से मिले ज़ख्मो से उबरना बहुत आसान काम नहीं है। लम्बे समय तक अपने साथी के साथ रहते हुए आपकी जीवन शैली में कई बदलाव आ चुके होते हैं। इसमें कोई आश्चर्य नहीं कि किसी को छोड़ देने कि अपेक्षा किसी के द्वारा छोड़ दिया जाना अधिक पीड़ादायक होता है। आपके सम्मान को गहरी ठेस पहुँचती है। वैसे टूटे हुई रिश्ते दोनों सूरत में मुश्किल ही होते हैं।

ब्रेक-अप से उभरने के लिए टिप्स

इस बारे में सोचना सामान्य है। लेकिन इस सोच में डूब जाना आपको इस मुश्किल से बाहर नहीं निकलने देगा। अपनी गलतियों और अपने अतीत से सीखना अच्छी बात है। इस सोच से बाहर निकलना मुश्किल है लेकिन पूरे मन से प्रयास कीजिये और अपने दिमाग को दूसरी और लगाइये। ध्यान रहे कि आपका असल उद्देश्य इस सब से बाहर निकल कर फिर से सामान्य होना ही है।

●          अपने दोस्तों से मिलकर अपने दिल के भाव उनसे बांटिये। ये सच है कि दुःख बांटनें से ही कम होता है। 

●          नकारात्मक भाव से बचिए। ये सामान्य है कि रिश्ता ख़त्म होने के बाद भी आपके मन में अपने पूरब साथी के प्रति गुस्सा होगा। उन् सभी चीज़ों को अपनी ज़िन्दगी से बाहर कर दीजिये जो आपको अपने अतीत कि याद दिलाती हैं। शायद इससे आपको मदद मिले।

●          अपने आप पर ध्यान दीजिये। अच्छी नींद, अच्छा भोजन और थोडा व्यायाम। वो करिये जो कारण आप को हमेशा से पसंद था। शाम को टहलने जाइये, या फिर व्यस्त रहने के लिए घर के काम में अपनी माँ का हाथ बांटिये।

●          कोई नया शौक विकसित करिये जैसे कि संगीत या कोई स्पोर्ट्स जैसे कि फुटबॉल इत्यादि। अपने दिमाग और शरीर को व्यस्त रखिये। व्यस्त रहना इस से बाहर निकल पाने का मूलमंत्र है।

 

 

● सकारत्मक सोच रखिये। सुनने में मुश्किल है, लेकिन सकारत्मक सोच आपकी मदद करेगी। प्यार फिर से मिलने कि कोई उम्र या समय नहीं होता।

● डिप्रेशन के संकेतों को ध्यान में रखें। और अगर आपको लगे कि आप में वो संकेत हैं तो बाहरी परामर्श लेने से बिलकुल न हिचकें। निचे लिखी हुई सूची से मदद लें:

● ड्रग्स या नशे कि और रुख बिलकुल न करें। इसने दूर रेह्कर ही आप अपनी मदद कर पाएंगे।

 और अंत में, यदि ज़रूरत महसूस हो तो निम्नलिखित में से किसी पेशेवर मनोवैज्ञानिक कि मदद लेना एक अच्छा उपाय होगा।

मदद के लिए संपर्क करें

Between Us: (044) - 32217731; Website: http://betweenus.bharatmatrimony.com/?page_id=16

NGO called ‘CONNECTING’ based out of Pune - Their helpline is open between 2 pm and 8 pm on 9922001122, and 18002094353 which is toll free. You can also email Connecting at connectingngo@gmail.com. They receive most calls on break-ups in their relationships, mental illness distress and even problems in marriage.

24-hour 14-state helpline, 022-25706000 run by St. Stephen’s Hospital and Emmanuel Hospital Association in Delhi – aimed at young people facing problems with their parents, relationships, career etc.

Sumaitri: (011) 23710763

SNEHI: (011) 65978181

Swaasthya: (011) 26274690

Depression Helpline: (011) 55258383

IFSHA – Interventions For Support Healing & Awareness: (011) 26253289

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Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mein ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta hoon lekin boh mujhse nahi karti do saal pehale ham bahut acche dost the mein daily uske ghar jataa tha uska ghar mere ghar ke samnae hai par mujhe usse pyaar ho gayaa meine usey ek letter par DO YOU LOVE ME likh kar diya aur kahaa apnne ghar ke andar jaa kar padana boh andar gayi phi boh baahar nahi aayi aur phir mujhse baat karnaa bannd kar diya ek din meine usey pucha YES/NO boh NO kehakar andar chali gayi aur usne baat karna bannd kar diya phir mein uske piche bajar jakar puchta tha ki tum mujhse pyaar kyon nahi karti boh baar-baar keha deti mujhe tumse baat nahi karni tum chale jaao aur ek din usney kahaa mera koi aur hai ye keha kar chali gayi aur aaj 2 SAAL ho gayi boh merh tarf dekhti tak nahi hai lekin mein ussey bahut pyaar kartaa hoon ussey bahut baar kaha par boh nahi maani aur apne aur mere ghar par sabko bata diya aap please meri help kijiye mein 2 saal se bahut paresaan hoon
Harsh bête yani ki unki marji nahi hai, unki marji ka samman kijiye. Aur yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nhain na?!! dekhiye bete Yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki kewal aap unhe pasand karte hain. Thoda shaant rahiye aur apna chintan swasth kijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Khushi bete aisa kyun ho raha hai? Aur is baat ko toh aap dono hee sudhaar saktey hain.. baat cheet kar ke, charcha kar ke. Lekin bete Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
मैं एक लड़की से बहुत प्यार करता हु वो भी मुझसे बहुत प्यार करती थी लेकिन उसकी शादी होने से दो महीने पहले अपने होने वाले पति से एक बार बात की तो रोज रोज़ कई कई घंटे बातें करने लगी और कहती है मैं मजबूर हु फिर मुझे फ़ोन करना एकदम से बन्द कर दिया उसने मुझे धोखा दिया इसके लिए मेरा दिल उसे बद्दुआ भी नही देना चाहता क्योंकि मैंने उससे प्यार किया है उसने ही तो मुझे धोका दिया ..... एक अकेला लड़का .......Amit Astar *
सुन कर बहुत बुरा लगा बेटे. लेकिन बेटे जब एक रिश्ता एक मुक्काम तक आकर रुक जाता है तो उसे फिर शुरू करना या उसी पर टिके रहना इसमें इतनी समझदारी नहीं. आगे बढ़ो,नए कदम उठाओ.नए पुराने दोस्तों से मिलो , films, music, कोई hobbies. जेसा की उन्होंने किया. अपनी जिंदगी में उतर आओ. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Annu bete bête yani ki unki marji nahi hai, unki marji ka samman kijiye. Aur yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nhain na?!! Dekhiye bete yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakti kyunki kewal aap unhe pasand karti hain. Thoda shaant rahiye aur apna chintan swasth kijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mai ek ladki ke saath 8 saal se relation mein hu.....maine apni family se bhi milwaya hai usko or meri family ready hai usse shadi karwane ke kiye.....par ab ladki apni family ki ijjat ke liye shadi nhi kar rhi.....khud bhi roti hai or mai bhi bht pareshan hu......wo mujhse 100 km dur rehti hai.....phir bhi hum dono milte the or bahut pyar hai hum dono mein......bolti hai uske mind mein baith gya hai ki agar wo love marriage kar legi to uski family ki ijjat chali jayegi......wo caste se pandit hai or mai thakur......ab samajh nhi aa rha ki mai kya karu.....wo chah ke bhi khud ko ready nhi kar pa rhi hai mujhse shadi karne ke liye.......usko har tarah se samjha chuka hu call se bhi or mil ke bhi......phir bhi wo nhi maan rahi......plzzzz sahi suggestion de......mai nhi ji paunga uske bina
Sonu beta yani ki unki marji nahi hai, unki marji ka samman kijiye. Aur yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nahin na?!! Dekhiye bete yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki kewal aap unhe pasand karte hain. Thoda shaant rahiye aur apna chintan swasth kijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Yeh toh keval wo ladki hee bata sakti hai bête. Yeh sabke liye alag alag ho sakta hai. Haan agar unhone purane rishte ko khatm karne ka aur shadi karne ka nirnay liya hai toh kuchh soch samajh kar hee liya hoga. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Raj bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mai ek ladki se bhute pyar karta tha par usne hi mughe dokha diya kyo ki o ladki bewfha thi mai use bachpan se pyar kartha tha par ho aaj kisi ladke se mohabat karti thi life mai kabi kisi se pyar nahi kare to apni wife se jo apne pati kha kyal rake Ajay boy bansal I love you M
Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Main Ek Ladki se bahut pyar karta hoon woh bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai Hum Dono Mein cast problem hai Hum Dono Ki Family time nahi honge Kya Kare Hum Dono Ek Doosre Ke Bina nahi jee Sakte please Koi upaye Bataye kya....She is my life i can not live without her..
Bete please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane,aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ek ladki hai jisase Mai bahut pyar karta hu din rat usi ke bare me sochta hu wo bhi mujhse pyar Karti Lekin problem ye hai ki wo kahi jati hai to mujhe taklif Hoti hai ya kisi se has ke bat Karti hai chahe ho ghar ko ho ya bahar ka mujhe dikkat Hoti hai aur wo wahi Karti jo Mai mna krta hu Mai kya kru jisase meri bat mane
Sunil bete pyar ka sabse eham pehlu hai vishwas aap woh rakhiye apne mann mein, Aur apne rishte ko mazboot banaiye. Thoda shaant rahiye aur apna chintan swasth kijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Help me main apni gf ko bahut pyaar krta hu aur meri gf bhi humko bahut pyaar karti h hum dono ek dusre ko gf nhi husband wife waala rishta banake rakkha per hum logo ki cast alag h to shaadi nhi karenge humari family waale aur hum uske bina nhi rah sakte h aur usse juda nhi ho paayenge aur shaadi bhi nhi ho paayegi to main kya karu ki meri usse shadi ho jaaye warna hum her nhi paayenge uske plz help me koi solution bataiye ki meri usse shaadi ho jaaye
Bete is baare mein aap dono apne pariwarwalon se baat kijiye, unhe samjhane ki koshish kijiye aur please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane,aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Pihu bete is baat ko toh aap dono hee sudhaar sakte hain- baat chit kar ke- charcha kar ke… https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hlo mem me ritika meri sadhi ko srif 8 month huye h but mere pati meri cear nhi krte or vo srif apni mom ded ki baat mante h me usko chordna chahti hu but usse pyar bhi bhot krti hu or me pregnant bhi hu to mere mom ded bhi muje accept nhi krenge kiuki mene bhag kr sadhi ki h . Me akeli apni life jina chahti hu but me 11th tk pedi hu
Bete uske baad aap shayed unse madad bhi maang saktee hain. Kya aap is rishte mein reh nahin paayengee? Ya bachche ke baad kuch maahoul behatar ho jayega? Aapko kya lag raha hai? Aap zaroor apni life je sakteen hai lekin sahyed is waqt thoda mushkil bhi ho sakta hai... so pehle apne pairon pe khade ho jaaiye - uske baad aap yeh kadam bhi utha leejiye - hai na? Aapko humaara pyaar beta, aur darna nahin. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bête yani ki unki marji nahi hai, unki marji ka samman kijiye. Aur yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nhain na?!! dekhiye bete Yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakti kyunki kewal aap unhe pasand karti hain. Thoda shaant rahiye aur apna chintan swasth kijiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera ek best frnd h... Jisko m pasand krti hu aur use bhi ye bt pta h ki m use pasand krti hu uske bd see uska behavior mere liye change ho gya mtlb baut achhe se bt krne lga... Vo relationship me aane abhi chahta tha pr m hmari frndship ke karn mna kr deti thi ki agr brekup hua to hmari frndship pahle jaisi Ni rahegi aur use bhi koi problem Ni tha... Fir achank se ek din hmlog thoda close aa gye the bs aysi hi nrml sa fir usne meko be me msg krke sry bola jo kuch bhi hua uske liye..... Uske bd se uska behavior baut jada change ho gya h... Ignore krne lga h pahle jaise bt bhi Ni krta.... Maine use puchha bhi kya hua h teko to kuch Ni krke bt taal deta h... Mujhe uska ye behavior baut presan kr ra h.... Kisi bhi chiz me MN Ni lg ra h mujhe vo pahle jaise vala mera frnd vaps chahiye Jo hmesa meri care krta tha... Ab to use mese milne me bhi prblm hoti... Pls btaiye na mbkya kru... Mujhe vo vaps chahiye... M usko bhul Ni sakti....
Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin aapki baton se toh yahi lagta hai na ki unki taraf se is rishte mein jhukav kam hai. Aur jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
मैं एक लड़की से प्यार करता हूँ। कुछ दिन पहले की बात है उसने मुझे मिलाने के लिए बुलाया पर मुझे बहुत जादा काम था तो में नहीं गया और वो नाराज हो गई और मुझसे रिश्ता खत्म कर लिया मैंने उससे sorry भी बोला पर वो नही मानी अब आप ही बताइये मै क्या करू और क्या समझूं।।
हम्म! इससे तो यही बात साबित होती है न बेटे की उनकी तरफ से इस रिश्ते में झुकाव बहुत कम है. और बेटे जब एक रिश्ता एक मुक्काम तक आकर रुक जाता है तो उसे फिर शुरू करना या उसी पर टिके रहना इसमें इतनी समझदारी नहीं. आगे बढ़ो,नए कदम उठाओ.नए पुराने दोस्तों से मिलो , films, music, कोई hobbies. जेसा की उन्होंने किया. अपनी जिंदगी में उतर आओ. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
में एक लड़की को बहुत प्यार करता हु वो मेरे घर के सामने रहती है उसे कल लड़के वाले देखने आए उसने हा कर दिया है और मुझे कही तुम मुझे भूल जाओ भूलना इतना आसान होता तो भूल जाता आप मुझे ये बताइये में कैसे भूलू उसको जिससे प्यार करता हु plzzz help my सीने में बहुत दर्द हो रहा है
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