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किशोरावस्था में आप अक्सर उस व्यक्ति की कल्पना करने लगते हैं जिन्हें आप पसंद करते हैं। यह कोई भी हो सकते हैं,एक लड़का या लड़की, एक मित्र, कोई जिन्हें आप जानते हों, या यहाँ तक की आपके स्कूल के शिक्षकया कोई फिल्म अभिनेता या कोई पॉप स्टार। और आप स्वयं को किसी ऐसे व्यक्ति के बारे में कल्पना करते हुए भी पा सकते हैं जो आपके ही लिंग के हों।

यदि आप अपने आप को किसी ऐसे व्यक्ति के प्यार में पाते हैं जो आपके ही लिंग के हैं और आपको लगता है की आप उनके साथ सेक्स करना चाहते हैं तो सम्भवतः आप समलैंगिक पुरुष या महिला या द्वीलैंगिक हैं।

यदि आप समलैंगिक हैं तो आप अपने ही लिंग के व्यक्ति की आकर्षित ओर होते हैं। समलैंगिक पुरुष अक्सर गे कहलाते हैं और समलैंगिक महिलाएं लेस्बियन। यदि आप पुरुष एवं महिलाओं दोनों की ओर आकर्षित होते हैं तो आप द्वीलैंगिक हैं। और यदि आप विपरीत लिंग वाले लोगों की ओर आकर्षित होते हैं तो आप विषमलैंगिक हैं।

कुछ लोगों के लिए - विशेषकर लड़कियों के लिए - यौनिकता इन सभी पहचानों में से कोई एक या दूसरी नहीं होती है बल्कि वह एक किस्म के पैमाने (स्केल) पर सरकती रहती है। आप अपने आप को समलैंगिक पुरुष या समलैंगिक महिला नहीं मानते हैं फिर भी आप अपने लिंग के व्यक्ति के प्रति आकर्षित हो सकते हैं।

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Pihu beta, bina condom ke sex karna apne aap mein ek safe idea bilkul bhi nahi hai. Isse anchahe garbh ke saath kai youn rog hone kaa bhi khatra ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Yadi unme se kisi bhi viykati ko HIV hai toh HIV hone ki sambhavna hai.. Aur yadi unmein se kisi ko bhi HIV nhai hai toh yeh nahi ho SAKTA! lekin phir bhi kisi bhi doubt mein se rehne se achha hai ki ek HIV test zarrur kar lein. Saath hi sex mein Jo bhi karein, SAFE karein. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/hiv Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rohan beta, hum aapka dard samajh sakte hain. Par yeh baat samjahiye ki gay hona koi galat baat nahi hain. Aap pehle mard thodi na hai jo aisa mehsoos karte hain. Bas beta be careful Humesha – HUMESHAA condom use karna hoga aur rishta- yaani ki roohani, ya romantic wahan hee banao jahan aapko confidence ho ki isko galat nahin samjha mana jayega. Aap akele nahin, apne jaise aur bhi log ya sansthan dhoondo- aapke sheher mei zaroor hongee!! Relax !! There's still hope, beta. Stay strong. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Abhshek beta, yeh keh paana sambhav nahi. Pregnancy ek baar main bhi ho sakti hain, aur ho sakta hain 10 baar main bhi na ho. Actually yeh poori tarah se na, ladki ki mahavari pe depend hota hai. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ab iske liye toh aapko khud hi koshish karni hogi. Hum toh yahi keh sakte hain ki doosre kaaryon main dhyaan lagao,aisi bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Nikhil beta, jaldi viryapaat hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. Toh sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anti ji meri shadi 7 saal phle hui thi aur ak saal baad mera tlaaq ho gya , ab m ak ladki s bhut pyar krta hu aur WO bhi mujhe s bhut pyar krti h aur hm shadi b krna chahte h,,aur hmare Gharwalo ki b marzi h ,, PR anti ji mene abhi tak us ladki ko apni pichli life k baare m nhi btaya h , m darta hu khi WO mujhe chodh na de ....anti ji m kya kru plz..ans.
Atif beta, jab pyaar kiya toh dar kaisa? Bete yeh toh hum nahi bata saktye na ki unhye is baat se dikkat hogi ya nahi lekin haan kyun naa aap pure pyaar aur vishwaash ke saath untak yeh baat rakhein. All the best. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai isse karne mein toh kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiske liye koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan lijiye ki Har koi hark kism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai, NAHIN. Samajh Gaye? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Madam mai Sex ke doran gf ki c**t chatata hoo. esase mujhe or use bhi bahot maza aata hai. O bhi mera l**d chusati hai Kabhi kabhi mera virya uske muh me jad jata hai. Esase bimari ka koi khatara hai kya. Or ye karana safty hai kya. Pls ans jarur dena madam
Amit beta, Oral sex karnay mein koi samsya nahi maslan saaf-safai ka poora dhyan rakha gaya ho aur ismay dono partners ki barabar marzi shamil ho toh! aur behtar hoga yadi condom ka isteml kiya jaey aur yaha padh lijiey https://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Nasim beta, Periods ke dauran sex mein koi dikatt nahi jab tak dono partners ki isse karne mein barabar ki marzi shamil ho Lekin yaad rakhiye is duran condom ka istemal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi sankarman se bachha ja sake. Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete isse Anal sex ya guda methun kehte hain.Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme donoki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex
Hmm bete, Hastmaithun ka asar ling ke size par nahi hota. Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Ling ke size mein ek apna teda pann hona is quite common bete don't worry isse koi samsya hoti nahin hai.Yeh padhiye zara: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Samir beta, apne ghar waalon ko kaise samjhana hai yeh to aap hamse behtar jaante hai. Apne parents ko kisi LGBTQ counsellor se milwaana sensible hoga. Jaise bhi shaadi taalo, agar yeh baat baad main saamne aayi to aapki wife aapko court tak ghaseet sakti hain. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bête iske liye ling se joodi hui skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Karishma beti, pyaar kyun hota hai iska jawaab na toh koi abhi tak de saka hai, aur shaayad hi koi kabhi de paayega. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/what-love Relax, beta! Agar aap ladkiyon ki taraf aakarshit hain toh isme bura hee kya hai? Aap pehli aurat thodi na hai jo aisa mehsoos karti hain. Bas beta be careful Humesha – HUMESHAA condom use karna hoga aur rishta- yaani ki roohani, ya romantic wahan hee banao jahan aapko confidence ho ki isko galat nahin samjha mana jayega. Aap akeli nahin, apne jaise aur bhi log ya sansthan dhoondo- aapke sheher mei zaroor hongee!! Relax !!
Hmm bete! Pehli baar sex karne par yoni se khoon nikalna common mana ja sakta hai lekin aisa baar baar hona bilkul bhi swastha nahi mana jata hai. Bina samay gavaye, ap ek panjikrit doctor se milein. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Aur bete, ye yaad rakhein ki porn ka maksad manoranjan tak hi simit hai. Ise asal zindagi mai laagu karne ki koshish na karein. https://lovematters.in/en/news/porn-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete ye bohot common hai yeh koi bimaari nahi jiska ilaaz mojjud , isye aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga, baaki aap yaha padh lo : https://lovematters.in/en/news/wet-dreams-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul bete ise Anal sex ya guda methun kehte hain. Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai isse karne mein toh kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiske liye koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan lijiye ki Har koi hark kism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai, NAHIN. Samajh Gaye? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex Sankramad se bachne ke liye condom ka uplog anivarya hain. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beta, yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee.Aur bete, ling ko apnea am stithi pe bhi to waapis aana hai na? Isme lagbhag 45 mins se1 hour lag sakta hai, ya zyada ya kum. Yeh bohot common hain, so don't worry! Aur bete, aisi sthiti mai time badhane ke liye partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. Iske alava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kam karne mai mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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