Auntyji

My wife is a survivor of child sex abuse. How can I help her?

Hi Auntyji, my partner has been a survivor of child sex abuse. It makes our sex life difficult and uncomfortable. How can I get her to come out of it and have a meaningful, pleasurable and healthy relationship with me? Sagar, 26, Lucknow

Does it smell bad during sex?

Hi Auntyji, I am about to have sex for the first time but I am worried about the 'yucky' smells down there. Please help. Gurpreet, 21, Delhi.

Should I have sex with my cousin?

Hi Auntyji, I am in love with my cousin and want to have sex with him. I’m an unmarried girl aged 26. What should I do? Sukanya, Bhopal.

I'm attracted to children – what should I do?

I am attracted to children and want to have sex with them. I know it is wrong but I don't know what to do. ABC, 28 years.

Boyfriend paise maangta hai, what to do?

Hi Auntyji, my boyfriend keeps asking for money, what to do? Shweta, 21, Cuttack.

I saw my younger sister touching herself, should I stop her?

Hi Auntyji, I saw my 12-year-old sister touching her private parts while sleeping. Should I have a talk with her? Amol, 21, Chandigarh.

Why aren’t we free to choose who we love?

Hi Aunty ji, Why can’t we freely love people from other religion, caste or same gender? Pragati, 23, Jhansi.

How to delay periods?

Hi Auntyji, I am going on a beach holiday but the dates clash with my periods. How can I postpone my periods and is it safe? Samina, 24, Shillong.

Can I have sex with her on Valentine’s Day?

Auntyji, I take very good care of my girlfriend, so is it wrong to expect a physical relationship on Valentine’s Day? Won’t it make this day extra special? Ankit, 24, Bareilly.

Can I lose my virginity if he goes down on me?

Hi Auntyji, my partner and I want to have oral sex but I am scared. I wonder if I will lose my virginity through oral sex. Can you please advise? Sneha, 18, Kanpur.

Unmarried and scared to go to the gynae, help!

Hi Aunty ji, I recently went to a gynecologist (female doctor) for exploring contraceptive options and the first question she asked me was – are you married? I felt really embarrassed. How should I deal with such a situation in the future? Shristi, 21, Gurgaon.

Should I marry a girl with disability?

Hi Auntyji, a proposal has come for my marriage with a girl in my neighborhood. I like her but she walks with crutches. I am not sure if I should go ahead. Please help. Rajesh 24, Jaipur.