Auntyji

Unable to adjust in my new home post marriage. What should I do?

Hi Auntyji, I got married six months ago but am not happy. I am not able to adjust or co-operate in my new home. I am quite depressed. I don’t know what to do. Gurpreet, 24, Amritsar.

What is a couple swap?

Hi Auntyji, what is a couple swap? I am wondering if I should suggest it to my wife to spice up things? Vishal, 32, Muradabad

What the hell is feminism?

Auntyji, what is this ‘feminism’? Does it mean that men have to be under women’s thumbs from now on? Sankalp, 23, Roorke.

If he loves me why does he hit me?

My partner hits me sometimes when he is angry but otherwise says he loves me a lot and can’t live without me. I am very confused. Nisha, 29, Mathura.

How to have a good breakup?

Hi Auntyji, I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years as this relationship is not going anywhere. But I do not want to break his heart. How can I go about it? Sanah, 22, Chennai.

My smart gf makes me insecure - what's your advice?

Auntyji, my partner is good at everything she does. I feel worthless in front of her. What should I do? I don’t want to break-up. Satinder (26), Ambala.

Can gay couples have kids?

I am a gay man. I can’t get married but I love kids. Can I adopt? Kadam, 26, Darjeeling

I only have clitoral orgasms – is that OK?

Auntyji, I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. It’s fun but is getting dull. My partner and I miss the excitement. What’s wrong with me? Can you make sense of it? Anju (24), Baroda.

Is it ok to have a sexual fling before marriage?

I will soon be marrying a man my parents have chosen. Before I get married, I want to have sex with another man, who I like but do not want to get married to. Is this dangerous? B, 24, Kanpur.

Can homosexuality be cured by medicines?

Can homosexuality be cured by medical treatment? If, yes, how and where can I find the treatment. Anmol, 21, Sikkim.

How do people become hijras?

Hi Auntyji, a hijra came to my place the other day. How do people turn into hijras? Akshara, 18, Amritsar.

I am a boy but feel like girl. Do I need surgery?

I have a male body but I believe I am a girl. Do I opt for a sex change surgery? *Sagar, 18, Mumbai.