Auntyji

Why is she so quiet when we have sex?

Q: Auntyji, when I perform oral sex on my girlfriend, or when we have intercourse, she doesn't make any sounds at all. I can feel from the way she moves that she enjoys it, but it does worry me that she doesn't make a sound. Sidhant, Meerut

Dumped after one-night stand - help me get over it!

Q: Dear Auntyji, last week I had a one-night stand and the boy doesn’t want to stay in touch. I now feel unattractive and worthless. I feel as though I am not wanted any more. It's terrible. How can I get over this depression? Sanjana, Pune

Sex: is it different for girls?

Q: Dear Auntyji, I am confused about how women feel about sex. Do women think about sex differently from men? Gurtej (18), Patiala

So drunk I don’t know if I had sex – what now?

I may have had drunk sex at a party but I don’t remember anything. If it’s true, this was my first-time sex ever. What should I do? -- Geetika

I was molested – should I tell?

A friend’s relative molested me. I feel ashamed and guilty and don’t know what to do. Palak, Faridabad.

Should I go for arranged marriage or love marriage, please help!

Q: I am 22 and want to get married. I am ready for both love marriage and arranged marriage. What do you think is better of the two? Hemant, Pune.

My parents won't accept her caste - now what?

I am in love with a girl who belongs to a lower caste. We really love each other but my parents will never approve our marriage. I am even scared to bring up this topic with them. I need your help Auntyji. Dipesh, Ghaziabad

Sex after pregnancy – how can I tell him I’m not ready?

Q: Dear Auntyji, I just delivered a baby boy last week and my husband already wants to have sex. I am not ready but how should I stop him? Sruthi, Nagpur

First time sex: what are your tips Auntyji?

Auntyji, I am 18 and all set to lose my virginity to my boyfriend very soon. Is there anything I should definitely take care of apart from condoms? Swati, Noida

Are my sex problems caused by masturbation?

Q: I don’t get proper erection when I begin making love to my girlfriend. And later I have trouble ejaculating inside the vagina. Is it because I used to masturbate too much? Pritam (22), Digboi.

Should I wash my penis after ejaculating?

Hello Aunty ji, do I need to wash my penis with soap every time I masturbate or have a wet dream? Badri, Chennai.

She has pain when we have sex – how can I help?

I got married a few days ago. My wife and I have tried having sex but she experiences a lot of pain. What can I do to help her? I don't want sex to be painful for her. What should I do? Amar, Varanasi