Auntyji

Sex after pregnancy – how can I tell him I’m not ready?

Q: Dear Auntyji, I just delivered a baby boy last week and my husband already wants to have sex. I am not ready but how should I stop him? Sruthi, Nagpur

First time sex: what are your tips Auntyji?

Auntyji, I am 18 and all set to lose my virginity to my boyfriend very soon. Is there anything I should definitely take care of apart from condoms? Swati, Noida

Are my sex problems caused by masturbation?

Q: I don’t get proper erection when I begin making love to my girlfriend. And later I have trouble ejaculating inside the vagina. Is it because I used to masturbate too much? Pritam (22), Digboi.

Should I wash my penis after ejaculating?

Hello Aunty ji, do I need to wash my penis with soap every time I masturbate or have a wet dream? Badri, Chennai.

She has pain when we have sex – how can I help?

I got married a few days ago. My wife and I have tried having sex but she experiences a lot of pain. What can I do to help her? I don't want sex to be painful for her. What should I do? Amar, Varanasi

Should I worry about my small penis?

Q: I have a very small penis. I want to get married but I am worried that I won't be able to satisfy my future wife. I don't know what to do to make my penis thicker. I am very nervous. Please help me, Auntyji. – Sameer, Agra.

I need sex! Am I wrong to cheat on my wife?

Q: I am 47 years old and I always feel sex starved. I want to have sex all day long but my wife is not able to satisfy me. For this reason, I have sexual relationships with two other women. Am I wrong? Ajay, Meerut

I ejaculate too soon – help!

I suffer from premature ejaculation. I ejaculate too soon when I have sex. How can I make intercourse last longer? Bilal, Delhi.

How can I please my wife in bed?

Auntyji, I love my wife very much and find her very attractive, but she doesn’t respond when I try to arouse her. Mostly she puts off having sex and when we do, she doesn’t seem to enjoy it. What can I do? Nitin, Noida

Will I break her hymen if I finger her?

Q: My girlfriend wants me to finger her vagina – will it break her hymen? She also wants me to insert it deep inside. Is there any way I can prevent her hymen from breaking? Ravi, Ahmedabad.

Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Wedding night sex - what about contraception?

On our wedding night we want to have sex without using a condom. But at the same time she shouldn't get pregnant. What should we do Auntyji? Arun, Pune. Helloji Arun puttar! Good you want to take an informed decision on birth control from the start.