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Sex after pregnancy – how can I tell him I’m not ready?

By Auntyji Tuesday, April 2, 2013 - 14:54
Q: Dear Auntyji, I just delivered a baby boy last week and my husband already wants to have sex. I am not ready but how should I stop him? Sruthi, Nagpur

Lubricant

Finally, bear in mind that many women experience vaginal dryness and discomfort even after they feel ready for intercourse. But I would say don’t worry too much about it, use a good lubricant and sex will feel more comfortable. Choose a water-based one (like K-Y Jelly, Astroglide or Jeance, available from pharmacies), not petroleum jelly or oil.

It might sound like a distant dream now, but with God’s grace you and your husband will be able to have a fun sex life very soon! 

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Lubricant

Finally, bear in mind that many women experience vaginal dryness and discomfort even after they feel ready for intercourse. But I would say don’t worry too much about it, use a good lubricant and sex will feel more comfortable. Choose a water-based one (like K-Y Jelly, Astroglide or Jeance, available from pharmacies), not petroleum jelly or oil.

It might sound like a distant dream now, but with God’s grace you and your husband will be able to have a fun sex life very soon! 

To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed. 

Have questions? Please ask Love Matters (LM) experts on our discussion forum. Don't forget to check out our Facebook  page.

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Sorry for delay bete! Ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hainn. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy http://www.fpaindia.org/
SAGUFIROZ
Sun, 11/01/2015 - 01:35
Hi,mam Meri biwi ko normally delivery huwa hai,3 months se usse period bhi nahi huyi hai aur baby ko dudh bhi pila rahi hai,aur mujhse ek galati ho gayi hai ki mene bina condom use kiya sex kiya aur sperm ko uske vegina ke andar hi gira diya.kya wo pregnant bhi ho sakti hai
Bete yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
namaste aunty ji meri ek problm hai ki my apni gf k sath sex karte vakt 2 ya 3mint me out hojata hun aur meri gf ko sexx ki iccha bi puri nahi hoti hai my apni gf k sath zyada der tak sexx karna chahta hun koi solution batayiye plz aur mera ling b chota hai aur my lamba karna chahta hun plz koi to solution batayiye plz plz plz aunty ji
deepmla vikas singh
Sat, 04/25/2015 - 16:55
docter meri samya yah kh mere pati baccha nahi chahate h or mai baccha chahati plz hamri problam solf kre mai ma bnna chahati hu docter
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