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Unplanned pregnancy

Pregnancy can come as a surprise. It’s easy to forget about the condom in the heat of the moment. Even if you use contraception perfectly, sometimes it fails.
If you get pregnant by accident, you’ll need to decide what to do. There are three options: you go ahead with the pregnancy, you have the baby but give it up for adoption, or you have the pregnancy terminated (an abortion). Whatever you decide, you need to think carefully. Talk to someone you trust. Someone who can give you advice and support, preferably an adult – your mother, an aunt, a friend, your partner or your doctor. Someone who won’t judge you for your choices. In the end, you’re the one who has to make the final decision. 

 

What are you going to do?

  1. Keep the Baby
    You could decide to carry on with the pregnancy and raise the child. This means thinking about the future: if you’re not married or in a stable relationship, will you be able to cope? How will it affect your life? Your education? Will you have enough support – from the baby’s father, or your family? Will you have enough money to live on? If you have a partner, what does he think? Does he want to keep the child? How many children do you have already? Is it safe to have another? Is the foetus healthy?
    And the most important question: do you want this pregnancy?
     
  2. Give the baby up for adoption
    You could also have the baby adopted. Again, you need to think carefully. You don’t know how you will feel after you’ve given birth when the time comes to hand over your baby to someone else. And how will you find someone to adopt your child? You could contact an official adoption agency and have your child safely and legally adopted through the state. Or maybe you know someone who would love to raise a child. It could be someone in your family. Whatever you decide, it’s important to be clear about what you want from the adoption. For example, would you like to be able to see the child in the future?
    If you’re still very young and you live with your family, it helps if you can be honest with your parents. They may want to raise the child themselves. If not, perhaps they can help you decide what to do. If it’s difficult to tell them, perhaps another family member could help you break the news. 
     
  3. End the pregnancy (abortion)
    The third option is to have an abortion. This is not an easy decision to make, and you may need some time to think it over. But don’t let anyone choose for you. This is about your body and your future, so in the end you have to decide for yourself.
    First, ask yourself the question: do I want this baby? If the answer is a resounding yes or no, then maybe you already know what your decision should be. If you are not sure, think about a few more questions: can I support a child right now? Would I feel comfortable ending the pregnancy? Would it feel right or wrong? Does ending a pregnancy fit with my religious beliefs? Should those beliefs inform my decision? Does the father want the child? Can I have a safe abortion in my country?
    There are no right or wrong answers to these questions. You should decide what feels right for you. If you’re really struggling, try talking through your options with someone you trust. 
Comments

Yadi aapne condom ka sitemal kiya hai tab toh pregnancy ke chances na ke barabt hai. Kyunki pregnancy ke risk se bachne ke liye kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Ohhh hmmm! To aap safe sex karnye ka idea use kar rahye hain par bête yeh bilkul bhi safe tarika nahi hai kyunki pregnant honey ke liey ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai. Isliye yadi safe sex ki soch rahe hain toh condom ka isteamal anivrya hai bête

Ummm! yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy http://www.fpaindia.org/

Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Toh unhoney protection ka use nahi kiya tha? Ab kitna time hua hai is baat ko? Suno jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar saktey hain. Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?

Kya protection? Shiv aap yeh toh jante honge na ki Yadi aap pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility Aur yadi aap chahein toh After 10 days aap ek home test kar saktey hain. Morning urine sample is much better for this. Ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility
Auntyji
Tue, 12/29/2015 - 16:19

In reply to by shankar sinde

Jee haan ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain, Aur yeh ek bohot badi mithya hai ki sperm bahar nikalne se garbhdharn nahi hota hai kyunk pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/10-most-common-contraception-myths http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Sir / maddam,. I had married aready 1 years. I just want to plant-B after 2years. And now my wife got 20days pregnant. So what shall i do.... please ....

Yadi yeh safe sex tha toh problem ki koi baat nahi hai. Kyunki Yadi aap pregnancy ya youn sankraman ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Bete, hum asha karte hain ki apko apki samasya ka samadhan mil gaya hoga. Yadi nahin to phoren ek panjikrit doctor se milo. Koi neem hakeem nahi. Sirf ek doctor. Yadi aap chahein to sath main ek bharosemand vyakti ko le ja sakte hain. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Nisha Mandar
Mon, 01/09/2017 - 14:47

We had unprotected sex on 16th day of my period. I am sure i was ovulating and we are not ready for a baby yet. I am not on any contraceptive measures. Can taking a pill now help?

Dear Nisha, we hope you found a way to handle the situation. If not, take a pregnancy test as soon as possible. Also see a registered doctor to find out about your options.You can also contact a FPAI information about which you can gather from their website. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Prem kashyp
Mon, 03/27/2017 - 23:36

Mam maine condom k sth sex kiya but meri gf ka periods ka time aa gya h but ab tk 5 days ho gye h periods nhi aaya main bhut tention me hu.kahi wo pregnant to nhi h ..aur agar h to main kyaa kru...plzz help me

Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Bete period late bhi ho jaatye hain.. so sabse better yeh hoga ki aap kuch roz dekh leejiye aur phir phoren ek doctor ko mill leejiye. Theek hai beta jee? Now relax. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Periods ke duran sex mein koi dikatt nahi jab tak dono partners ki isse karne mein barabar ki marzi shamil ho Lekin yaad rakhiye is duran condom ka istemal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi sankarman se bachha ja sake. Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period

Bete kya zarurat thi aapko unprotected sex karney ki jab mein aap logo se baar- baar kehti hun ki condom ka isltemal ANIVARYA hai phir bhi? Aur uppar se yeh emergency pills? pata kya aapko apne partner ki body se pyar nahi hai kya? Chalo ab jaldi ek home pregnancy test lo aur yadi result positive hai toh turant kisi achhay doctore se milo Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Jo sawal aap kar rahy hain na, for safe sex bête wo actually yeh poori tareh se na, ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap sex pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Ab kitna time hua hai is baat ko? Suno jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar saktey hain. Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Hmmm …. Actually yeh kehna zara mushkil hog, kyunki yeh unke mahavari pe nirbahr hai. yadi aapne protection ka use nahi kiya tha toh yeh sambhav ho sakta hai! Ravi Ab kitna time hua hai is baat ko? Sabse zaroori aap ek home test karo, who aapko chemist pe mill jayega, apnii aankhon se dekh lo uska parinaam kyahai aur phir ek nirnay lo.. Ab is me aapki gf kya kehte ehain kya mehsoos kartee hain, yeh bhi badi baat hogi. Kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar saktey hain. Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Ravi bete Actually yeh poori tareh se , ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap sex pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Hmmm! Kya us periods ke baad aapnye koi UNSAFE SEX kiya tha kya? beta yadd rakhiye chahye ling kitni der ke liye bhi andar gaya bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Yeh bhi padh lo: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Rahul bete! Yadi unhye ek baar periods theek tarah se aa chuke hain toh pregnancy ke chances nahi hai phir bhi yaad rakiye aapyad pregnancy se bachna hai toh safe sex yani condom ya uchit garbhnirodhan ke uchit upaye apnana ANIVRYA hai. Yeh link bhi padh lijiye: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex

Bete yeh safe sex nahi hai! Aap ko yeh pata hona chahiye ki pregnant hone ke liye ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai aur yadi kisi bhi tarah se unki yoni mein ek shukranu ka pravesh ho gaya hoga toh pregnancy ke chances hai! Isliye jaldi ek home pregnancy test lo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Aur agye se jo karein puri tarah safe hi karein yani CONDOM ka istemal kar ke. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex

Dekho bete pregnant hone ke liye ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai.isliye yadi bina condom ke sex karne ka soch rahi hain toh ismein chances 99% ho sakte hain.aur rahi baat periods kareeb ane ke toh yeh poori tareh se na, ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap sex pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Hmm! toh aapne safe sex karne ka idea use kiya tha? par suniye yeh poori tareh se na, ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yes woh pregnancy ho sakti hain jaldi ek pregnancy test lo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. aur age se yaad rakhe sex mein jo karein safe karein. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex

Ohh! Toh aapne safe sex ka idea use kiya tha par bete yeh bilkul bhi safe nahi hai! Yaad rakhiye pregnant hone ke liye kewal ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafi hai. Isliye bina samye gawaye doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhe ?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Ji bilkul pregnancy ho sakti hai. Kyunki yeh jo aap safe sex ka idea use kar rahe hain, who bilkul bhi safe nahi hai. Kyunki bete pregnant hone ke liye kewal ek shurnau bhi bohot kaafi hai. Isliye yadi aap pregnancy se bachna chahte hain toh kewal safe sex hi karein. Yaha padhiye zara. : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex

Bete! Yeh pregnancy se sambandhit bhi ho sakta hai, lekin yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki kuch aur stithi ho. Jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta. Kisi neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Avi bete Actually yeh poori tareh se na, ladki kee mahavari pe depend hota hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahin jiski vajeh se bahut hee risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. yadi aap sex pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Bete pehle toh aap yeh samjhiye ki ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. aur rahi baat semen ki toh bete toh iska patla mote hone se koi smabnadh nahi .Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes

Ohhh! kya aapko nahi pata ki 18 saal se kam ki mahila le saath kiya gaya sex chhahe woh uski marzi se hi kyun na ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai? ab jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar saktey hain. Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Suno jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai, agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar saktey hain. Kisis neem hakeem ya chemist ke paas mat pahuch jaana, DOCTOR ONLY!! Jaldi karo samjhay?http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy

Madhuri bete yeh ek emergency goli hai aur yeh apke masik dharm par asar kar saktee hai.. PLEASE in goliyoun ko laparvahi se istemaal mat keejiye. aur bete phir bhi aap jaldi jaldi kisi achhay doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. take care
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