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टूटे दिल का इलाज

टूटे रिश्तों से मिले ज़ख्मो से उबरना बहुत आसान काम नहीं है। लम्बे समय तक अपने साथी के साथ रहते हुए आपकी जीवन शैली में कई बदलाव आ चुके होते हैं। इसमें कोई आश्चर्य नहीं कि किसी को छोड़ देने कि अपेक्षा किसी के द्वारा छोड़ दिया जाना अधिक पीड़ादायक होता है। आपके सम्मान को गहरी ठेस पहुँचती है। वैसे टूटे हुई रिश्ते दोनों सूरत में मुश्किल ही होते हैं।

ब्रेक-अप से उभरने के लिए टिप्स

इस बारे में सोचना सामान्य है। लेकिन इस सोच में डूब जाना आपको इस मुश्किल से बाहर नहीं निकलने देगा। अपनी गलतियों और अपने अतीत से सीखना अच्छी बात है। इस सोच से बाहर निकलना मुश्किल है लेकिन पूरे मन से प्रयास कीजिये और अपने दिमाग को दूसरी और लगाइये। ध्यान रहे कि आपका असल उद्देश्य इस सब से बाहर निकल कर फिर से सामान्य होना ही है।

●          अपने दोस्तों से मिलकर अपने दिल के भाव उनसे बांटिये। ये सच है कि दुःख बांटनें से ही कम होता है। 

●          नकारात्मक भाव से बचिए। ये सामान्य है कि रिश्ता ख़त्म होने के बाद भी आपके मन में अपने पूरब साथी के प्रति गुस्सा होगा। उन् सभी चीज़ों को अपनी ज़िन्दगी से बाहर कर दीजिये जो आपको अपने अतीत कि याद दिलाती हैं। शायद इससे आपको मदद मिले।

●          अपने आप पर ध्यान दीजिये। अच्छी नींद, अच्छा भोजन और थोडा व्यायाम। वो करिये जो कारण आप को हमेशा से पसंद था। शाम को टहलने जाइये, या फिर व्यस्त रहने के लिए घर के काम में अपनी माँ का हाथ बांटिये।

●          कोई नया शौक विकसित करिये जैसे कि संगीत या कोई स्पोर्ट्स जैसे कि फुटबॉल इत्यादि। अपने दिमाग और शरीर को व्यस्त रखिये। व्यस्त रहना इस से बाहर निकल पाने का मूलमंत्र है।

 

 

● सकारत्मक सोच रखिये। सुनने में मुश्किल है, लेकिन सकारत्मक सोच आपकी मदद करेगी। प्यार फिर से मिलने कि कोई उम्र या समय नहीं होता।

● डिप्रेशन के संकेतों को ध्यान में रखें। और अगर आपको लगे कि आप में वो संकेत हैं तो बाहरी परामर्श लेने से बिलकुल न हिचकें। निचे लिखी हुई सूची से मदद लें:

● ड्रग्स या नशे कि और रुख बिलकुल न करें। इसने दूर रेह्कर ही आप अपनी मदद कर पाएंगे।

 और अंत में, यदि ज़रूरत महसूस हो तो निम्नलिखित में से किसी पेशेवर मनोवैज्ञानिक कि मदद लेना एक अच्छा उपाय होगा।

मदद के लिए संपर्क करें

Between Us: (044) - 32217731; Website: http://betweenus.bharatmatrimony.com/?page_id=16

NGO called ‘CONNECTING’ based out of Pune - Their helpline is open between 2 pm and 8 pm on 9922001122, and 18002094353 which is toll free. You can also email Connecting at connectingngo@gmail.com. They receive most calls on break-ups in their relationships, mental illness distress and even problems in marriage.

24-hour 14-state helpline, 022-25706000 run by St. Stephen’s Hospital and Emmanuel Hospital Association in Delhi – aimed at young people facing problems with their parents, relationships, career etc.

Sumaitri: (011) 23710763

SNEHI: (011) 65978181

Swaasthya: (011) 26274690

Depression Helpline: (011) 55258383

IFSHA – Interventions For Support Healing & Awareness: (011) 26253289

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Mai kisi sai pyar krti hu or vo bi mujh sai bhut pyar krta hai but uskai ghr walai shadi kai liyai ready hai or merai ghr walai nhii maan rhai hai usnai mujai ghr sai bhagnai kai leyai kha laikin ghr walo ki badnami kai daar sai mai esa nhii kr skti please help me mai kya kru mai family or us ladke sai bhut pyar krti hu please mujai btaye mai kya kru
Bete ismein samasya ho sakti hai, isliye Please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. Ise padhen: https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Main ek ladki se pyar karta tha 2014 se hum 2016 tak sath rahe uske baad use ek dost mila jiske liye usne mujhe avoid karna suru kiya ek mahina avoid hone ke baad maine gusse mein bola wo breakup karke chali gyi.phir wo kbhi teen mahine kabhi 6 mahine mein jhagra hota wo chali jati wo apne dost ke sath hi move on kar gyi phir chor diya.4 saal tak main uska sirf intezar karta rha.wo kbhi dost ko lekr kbhi pariwar ko lekar mujhe block karti ya jhagra kar leti.2020 mein 20 jan ko phir wo aayi 10 din baat kiya umeed diya aur phir uske baad mann bhar gya to boli ki mujhe prblm ho rhi hain humlog baat ni kar sakte.phir wo kisi bahane se alg hogyi hain.msg mein dost se baat kar skti hain lekin mere case mein use prblm hoti hain.suru se wo jhuth hi bolte aa rhi hain.main nikal ni paa rha hu.har baar alg hota hu ek mahina tak use matlb ni hota aur phir rote huye aa jati hain kuch din baat karti hain phir mujhe bejjait karke chor ke chali jati hain aur main nafrat bhi ni kar pata.main kya karu pls thodi help kijiye mere.
Ek minit Ritesh puttar, wo aati hain aur phir aapko chhod kar chali jati hain, aur baar baar yahi kar rahi hain, hai na? Ye kya baat hui? Yeh kaun sa pyaar hai beta? Kya aapko ye thik lagata hai? Please har tarah se vichaar kijiye aur ek sahi nirnay lijiye. Theek hai bête! Ise bhee pdhiye: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/love-and-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mere husband pahle mujhse bahut pyar krte the pr ab nhi krte, hmari love marriage ko 2.5years ho gye hain,ab unhe bs paise ki hi pdi rhti h,baby k liye bhi wo ready nhi hote, hmesha jhgda hi hota h hm dono me.mere hone na hone Ka unhe koi frk nhi pdta,mai bhi aise hi rhna chahti hu.ki mujhe koi frk na pde.or Mai bhi Khush rh sku.pr Mai rh nhi pati unke Bina.
Oh bête hum samajh sakte hain aapka dil bahut bhari ho raha hoga, aur aap pareshan hongi, lekin bête ek sachchayi yeh bhi hai ki jab hum love marriage karte hain toh hamen lagta hai ki ek dusre ki aankhon mein poori duniya dekh lenge- jabki baahar ek poori duniya chal rahi hai, jiska hum hissa hain, hai na? Aur yadi aapke husband samay de rahe hain paise kamane ke liye ya career banana ke liye aur abhi wo bachche ke liye taiyaar nahi hai toh shayad aapko bhi iske bare mein sochna chahiye- bachcha lana is duniya mein itna aasan bhi nahi hai- bahut kharch uthana padta hai- pahle aapdono thoda settle toh ho jaeeiye. Aap koshish kar ke unki baton ko bhi samajhne ki koshish kijiye – aur apni baat bhi unhe samjahane ki koshish kijiye. Wo apne kaam mein busy hai- ya apni life banana ki koshish kar rahe hain- iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki wo aapko pyar ya pasand nahi karte. Apni apekshayen match karne ki koshish kijiye- ek dusre par dosharopan mat kijiye aur thoda cool rahiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/sexual-harassment/8-signs-youre-in-an-abusive-relationship Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mai ek ladki se bepanah pyar karta hun uske ghar wale man nhi rhe hain wo mere se bhut dur hai mai uske bina mar jaunga kya karu mai use bhul nhi sakta uske sath meri bhut yadein hai jaha dekhta hun use hi pata hun 3 din ho gyaa mujhe bukh pyas need kuvhh nhi aati
Shivam beta relax, apne aap ko thoda shant kijiye. Aur marna kisi bhi samasya ka hal nahi ho sakta hai, isliye sabse pahle khane, pine, nind ka dhyan rakhiye aur swasth rahiye. Agar unke gharwale nahi maan rahe hain toh ismein samasya ho sakti hai, jis rishte mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho - apni gf, apni family se baat kijiye - unki rai lijiye aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lijiye. Madad ke liye ise bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
M ek ldke se pyar krti hu halaki pehle ni krti thi pr usne bola hojayega fir ek ladke ne mera fayda uthana chaha hotel m m baha se b bach gyi or Ye bat mene khud us ldke ko btayi to us ldke ne mujhe samjha and physical hogye ham pr ab bo ldka ab mujhse shaaadi krne k liye mna kr ra h m Bhot pareshan hu kya kru
Oh bête! Hum aapki pareshani samajh sakte hain ki aap kis paristhiti se gujar rahin hain, aur is pristhiti mein pareshan hona lazmi hai, lekin ab jo hai so hai bête - ab ye sochiye ki iske aage aapko kaise badhna hai. Aapne poori safayi aur sachayi dikhate huye apni sachayi batayi aurunhone aapka fayda uthaya aur ab is tarah ka behave kar rahe hain – kya aise insaan ke saath apni poori zindgi bitana chahte hain? Jo aapko ain mauke par dhoka de de? aur agar sex ho bhi gaya toh kon si badi baat hai? Aur ek baat bête yadi unhone shadi karne ka wada kane ke baad aapse physical relation banaya aur shadi se inkaar kar rahe hai toh ye gairkanuni hai aur yadi aap chahen toh kisi achchhe wakeel se mil kar iske bare mein kanuni madad bhi le sakti hain. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/sexual-harassment/abusive-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear Aunty Jii meri AK ldki se bhot achhi Dosti thi aur kuch mhino tk hum khoob achhe se rhe puri rat rat bat krte the btt kya hua uske kuch mhine k bad se vo achank km bat krne lgi aur mhine m bus 1 bar bat ho pati hai lekin problem y hai ki Mai usase Dil LGA betha aur uske Bina kuch achha nhi lgta na Mai so pa. Rha hu na padhai kar pa rha hu na so pa rha hu zindgi rote rote beet rhi hai btt jab Mai usase y SB bola to bol rhi hai Nishant pdhai kro apni life p Dhyan do we are just good frnd,Mene tumhe phle hi btaya kbhi mere s Dil mat khana please (halaki usne mujhe usse pyar karne s mna Kiya tha)btt ab Mai kya bus rote rote zindgi bit rhi hai mam pls koi upay btao 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nishant bête yani ki unki marji nahi hai, unki marji ka samman kijiye. Aur yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nahin na?!! Dekhiye bete yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki kewal aap unhe pasand karte hain. Aage badhiye, career par focus kijiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mam..., m boht pareshan hu mujhe ek ladke s boht pyar h or use bhi mujh se h ya tha pta nhi pr hum dono ne ek dusre ko bs dekha h or ab 4-5 saal ho gay h aj tak bat nhi hui or ab na me unhe dekh skti hu unka na koi phon num h mere pas hmre bich aaj tak koi hii hello bhi nhi hui me unka ata pta bhi nhi janti ab wo kaha h pta nhi pr ab dil unke liye rota h unko dekhne ke liye bechen hota h bs ek bar unko dekh pao dil m yhi tamna h 24 ghante mere dil or dimag m bs whi gumte rehte h or aankho s aansu girte h m kya kru ab aisa lagta h jaise me mar janungi plz help me...!
Komal Bete ? yeh aap kya bole rahee hain? 4 - 5 saal pehele - DEKHA tha - Bas? aage koi baat nahin kuch nahin? To pyaar kasie ho gaay - ki aap apni life bhi lee ki soch rahee hain? aapko to yeh bhi nahin pata ki unheone aapko dekha hai bhi ya nahi aur kiss nazar se - ki aap apne khud ke sapne sajaa ke baitee hain - woh person jaane kaahn hai . Pyaar to door shayed woh aapke baare mein jaantey bhi nahin . Sambhalo apne aap ko - yeh bilkul aapki maan ghadant baat hai bian koi buniyaaad ke. Ab aap unke liye pareshan ho rahi hain- toh bête kya ye samjhdari hai? Apne aap ko thoda shant kijiye aur khud sochiye – vichar kijiye. Yeh koi rishta nahin aapke mann ki upaj hai. Aur to aur, marna marana kisi bhi samasya ka hal nahi ho sakta aur sochiye ki ismein nukshan kiska hai? Aap kisi aisa person ke liye marne ko tayyar hain jo ki aapke bare mein jaanati hee nahin? yeh to wohi baat ho gayee - ki " maine koi filmstar ko pyara keeya hai - ab woh mujhe mill nahin raha to mein suicide kar letye hon"" Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunti ji mene us insane ka dil dukhaya jis ne surf mujhe chaha pyar hum dono hi ek dusare se krte hai ye humara secret relation tha .Kuch glatfame ki wajah se mene humesha us ka dil dukhaya such Jan k us k parti proud feel krti hu Lenin aaj hum alag ho gye me us k bina nahii rah saktii kya krna chahiye mujhe
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