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सेक्स के बारे में बातचीत: लड़कियों के लिए सुझाव

क्या आप सोच रहे हैं कि अपने साथी के साथ किस तरह सेक्स के बारे में बातचीत करें? पेश हैं कुछ ख़ास टिप्स जो शायद आपके लिए मददगार साबित हो।

साहसी बनें

आप जो चाहती हैं, उसे कहने का साहस रखें, चाहे ऐसा करने में आपको शर्मिंदगी या कठिनाई ही महसूस क्यों न हो। खुद पहल करें और कह दें। इससे आप दोनों के बीच विश्वास पैदा होगा और एक-दूसरे से नज़दीकी बढ़ेगी।

 

 

सही समय का चयन करें

यह सुनिश्चित करें कि आप बात करने में बहुत अधिक देर न हो जाए। अच्छा रहेगा कि संभोग करने से पहले ही बता दें।

अपनी इच्छा को समझें

अपनी सीमाओं को जानें और सोचें कि आपको वास्तव में क्या चाहिए।

स्पष्ट रूप से कहें, लेकिन शालीनता बनाए रखें

स्पष्ट रूप से कहें और आगे के बारे में सोचें। माना कि यदि कोई लड़का आपके सामने फिल्म देखने का प्रस्ताव रखते है, तो आगे के बारे में सोच लें और उनसे बता दें कि आप केवल फिल्म देखना चाहती हैं उनके कमरे में नहीं जाना चाहतीं। हालांकि इसे शालीनता से ही कहें, वरना हो सकता है उनकी भावनाओं को ठेस पहुंचे।

अपनी सीमाओं एवं इच्छा के बारे में उन्हें बता दें

उन्हें बता दें कि जो कुछ हो रहा है, वह वास्तव में आपको पसंद है। यदि यह सब आपको वास्तव में पसंद नहीं है तो ऐसा कह दें।

अपने द्वारा भेजे जाने वाले संकेतों को समझें

अपने हाव-भाव पर नज़र रखना बहुत ज़रूरी होता है- इससे उनको क्या संकेत मिलता है? आप किसी को दूर हटाने के लिए अपने हाथ का प्रयोग कर सकती हैं, लेकिन इससे आप किसी को यह भी बता सकती हैं कि आपकी इच्छा क्या है। अपने साथी के संकेतों का किस प्रकार उत्तर देना है, इस बारे में सावधानी से फैसला करें।

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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