Woman giving oral sex to a man
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Making love to him

There are many different ways to make love to a man -- you can masturbate him, give him oral sex or have intercourse with him.

Masturbating him

Masturbating a man is also known – among many other things – as giving a hand-job. It’s when you rub or stroke the penis with your hand, usually back and forth over the head. This can give a really arousing feeling and can bring a man to orgasm. It’s different for every boy and can be different from time to time.

How do you do it?

  •     You can use your whole hand, or just your finger and thumb.
  •     You can make short movements or long strokes – experiment together.
  •     You can do it quickly or slowly, holding the penis firmly or more gently.

Ask your partner what he likes. Let him show you, perhaps with your hand under his. You can then feel exactly where he’s putting the pressure.

Body language

Pay attention to his body language. How is he responding to your touch? Is his penis getting even harder? Is he sighing or moaning? Then you’re getting it right! Is his breathing getting faster? That’s also a sign that he’s getting aroused.

Apart from your fingers, you can also use your mouth. See oral sex on a man, below. Only do it if you’re ready for it yourself – not just because the other person takes the initiative and you don’t dare to say no!

If your partner is circumcised, the head of the penis is often less sensitive. You can use spit or lubricant to make your hand slide more easily.

Oral sex on him

Oral sex on a man means stimulating the penis with your mouth. People also call it giving a blow-job, giving head, or ‘going down on’ a man. Many men find this very arousing, and it can bring them to orgasm. Some people only do this if they are in a very close relationship with the person, and others simply don’t like it.

How do you do it?

There are lots of ways to give oral sex. It’s different for every man and can be different from time to time.

When you give oral sex you can hold the penis in one hand. Then you can guide the movement and determine how deeply you take the penis in your mouth. Use plenty of spit, it’s a natural lubricant.

Lick your lips before you start. You can move your mouth over the penis faster or slower, with long strokes or short ones, harder or more gently, only over the head of the penis, or also down over the shaft.

Ten tips

1. Ask your partner what he likes. Get to know him so you can really give him pleasure.

2. Pay attention to his body language. If he moans and his penis stiffens, you must be doing it right!

3. Don’t use your teeth! It hurts.

4. Be carful with the penis and testicles. Your mouth and lips are soft, but you’ll probably also use your hands. Pay attention to how he responds to see if you’re being too rough.

5. Don’t take the penis too deeply inside your mouth – it can make you gag.

6. Stop if your jaw starts aching, and switch to using your hand for a while.

7. Don’t get sperm in your mouth, as you could run the risk of HIV infection. Otherwise use a condom (you can get flavoured ones).

8. If he does come in your mouth, spit out the sperm.

9. A lot of men like to come in your mouth, but if you don’t want it, you can also think of something else, like having him come on your breasts or belly.

10. If you don’t like the idea of giving oral sex, you don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. Are you curious? Have a shower together first, so you feel nice and clean. And you can start making love under the shower!

Did you know...?

If a man drinks a lot of coffee and alcohol and he smokes, it makes his sperm taste bitter and sour. Sweet fruit and vegetables make the sperm sweeter.

Intercourse with him

Intercourse – to put it bluntly, fucking or screwing – is when you take a man's erect penis into your vagina. Most young people make love in other ways first. So don’t think you have to have intercourse straight away. Half of all 17-year-olds have never had intercourse.

How to have sex with a man

Don’t start lovemaking with intercourse right at the beginning. Build up slowly, make sure you both get really turned on. Slowly undress each other, kiss and stroke each other’s bodies, give each other compliments.

First stroke his belly, the inside of his thighs, his balls and his buttocks before you move to his penis. Try touching his penis briefly at first, as if by chance, to build up the excitement.

Tense your vagina during intercourse. You do this the same way you would if you were holding in urine. The vagina gets tighter and this can feel nice for the man.

You can touch his anus during intercourse. It’s easy to reach if he’s lying on top of you. You can gently stroke the anus, press on it more firmly with a finger, or put the tip of your finger inside. Build this up slowly.

Pain during intercourse

Some women experience pain during intercourse. What causes the pain?

The first time can hurt because the hymen is stretched.

It can hurt if the vagina isn’t moist enough. Only start having intercourse when you’re vagina is moist enough and if need be use lubricant.

If you often find intercourse painful, it could be because you’re tense. This means your pelvic floor muscles aren’t relaxing enough. Take time to relax and to get aroused. Talk to your partner about it.

If you have pain every time during intercourse, see a health professional, because sex shouldn’t hurt.

Will it go in?

Do you ever wonder if a penis would actually fit inside your vagina? You’re not the only one. As long as a woman is aroused – relaxed and wet – a penis will easily fit inside her vagina. After all, it’s stretchy enough for a baby to come out of!

What if it won’t go in easily?

Try lubrication

  • Natural lubricants: saliva (spit), clean water
  • Store-bought lubricants: water-based, silicone, or glycerine based ones.
  • Examples of water-based lubricant: Astroglide or KY jelly
  • Examples of silicone-based lubricant: Wet Platinum, Eros Bodyglide
  • Examples of glycerine-based lubricant: any flavoured lubricants

If you get a lot of yeast infections, avoid glycerine-based lubricants. Glycerine contains sugars that yeast feed on, and can cause more yeast infections.

Avoid lubricants made out of petroleum jelly (Vaseline), lotions, cold creams, butter or margarine, because they can damage latex and cause condoms to tear.

Try different positions

Sometimes a vagina is on a slight angle or sometimes a penis is curved or bends, which makes it hard for the penis to enter the vagina.

It can help to try different positions. See some examples below, but don’t forget to use lubricant.

  •     ‘Missionary’: the man lies on top and the woman lies on her back
  •     Woman on top: the other way round
  •     From behind: the woman kneels on all fours and the man enters from behind

If none of these suggestions work, see your doctor or another health care professional – he or she can advise you of other options.

Masturbating him

Masturbating a man is also known – among many other things – as giving a hand-job. It’s when you rub or stroke the penis with your hand, usually back and forth over the head. This can give a really arousing feeling and can bring a man to orgasm. It’s different for every boy and can be different from time to time.

How do you do it?

  •     You can use your whole hand, or just your finger and thumb.
  •     You can make short movements or long strokes – experiment together.
  •     You can do it quickly or slowly, holding the penis firmly or more gently.

Ask your partner what he likes. Let him show you, perhaps with your hand under his. You can then feel exactly where he’s putting the pressure.

Body language

Pay attention to his body language. How is he responding to your touch? Is his penis getting even harder? Is he sighing or moaning? Then you’re getting it right! Is his breathing getting faster? That’s also a sign that he’s getting aroused.

Apart from your fingers, you can also use your mouth. See oral sex on a man, below. Only do it if you’re ready for it yourself – not just because the other person takes the initiative and you don’t dare to say no!

If your partner is circumcised, the head of the penis is often less sensitive. You can use spit or lubricant to make your hand slide more easily.

Oral sex on him

Oral sex on a man means stimulating the penis with your mouth. People also call it giving a blow-job, giving head, or ‘going down on’ a man. Many men find this very arousing, and it can bring them to orgasm. Some people only do this if they are in a very close relationship with the person, and others simply don’t like it.

How do you do it?

There are lots of ways to give oral sex. It’s different for every man and can be different from time to time.

When you give oral sex you can hold the penis in one hand. Then you can guide the movement and determine how deeply you take the penis in your mouth. Use plenty of spit, it’s a natural lubricant.

Lick your lips before you start. You can move your mouth over the penis faster or slower, with long strokes or short ones, harder or more gently, only over the head of the penis, or also down over the shaft.

Ten tips

1. Ask your partner what he likes. Get to know him so you can really give him pleasure.

2. Pay attention to his body language. If he moans and his penis stiffens, you must be doing it right!

3. Don’t use your teeth! It hurts.

4. Be carful with the penis and testicles. Your mouth and lips are soft, but you’ll probably also use your hands. Pay attention to how he responds to see if you’re being too rough.

5. Don’t take the penis too deeply inside your mouth – it can make you gag.

6. Stop if your jaw starts aching, and switch to using your hand for a while.

7. Don’t get sperm in your mouth, as you could run the risk of HIV infection. Otherwise use a condom (you can get flavoured ones).

8. If he does come in your mouth, spit out the sperm.

9. A lot of men like to come in your mouth, but if you don’t want it, you can also think of something else, like having him come on your breasts or belly.

10. If you don’t like the idea of giving oral sex, you don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. Are you curious? Have a shower together first, so you feel nice and clean. And you can start making love under the shower!

Did you know...?

If a man drinks a lot of coffee and alcohol and he smokes, it makes his sperm taste bitter and sour. Sweet fruit and vegetables make the sperm sweeter.

Intercourse with him

Intercourse – to put it bluntly, fucking or screwing – is when you take a man's erect penis into your vagina. Most young people make love in other ways first. So don’t think you have to have intercourse straight away. Half of all 17-year-olds have never had intercourse.

How to have sex with a man

Don’t start lovemaking with intercourse right at the beginning. Build up slowly, make sure you both get really turned on. Slowly undress each other, kiss and stroke each other’s bodies, give each other compliments.

First stroke his belly, the inside of his thighs, his balls and his buttocks before you move to his penis. Try touching his penis briefly at first, as if by chance, to build up the excitement.

Tense your vagina during intercourse. You do this the same way you would if you were holding in urine. The vagina gets tighter and this can feel nice for the man.

You can touch his anus during intercourse. It’s easy to reach if he’s lying on top of you. You can gently stroke the anus, press on it more firmly with a finger, or put the tip of your finger inside. Build this up slowly.

Pain during intercourse

Some women experience pain during intercourse. What causes the pain?

The first time can hurt because the hymen is stretched.

It can hurt if the vagina isn’t moist enough. Only start having intercourse when you’re vagina is moist enough and if need be use lubricant.

If you often find intercourse painful, it could be because you’re tense. This means your pelvic floor muscles aren’t relaxing enough. Take time to relax and to get aroused. Talk to your partner about it.

If you have pain every time during intercourse, see a health professional, because sex shouldn’t hurt.

Will it go in?

Do you ever wonder if a penis would actually fit inside your vagina? You’re not the only one. As long as a woman is aroused – relaxed and wet – a penis will easily fit inside her vagina. After all, it’s stretchy enough for a baby to come out of!

What if it won’t go in easily?

Try lubrication

  • Natural lubricants: saliva (spit), clean water
  • Store-bought lubricants: water-based, silicone, or glycerine based ones.
  • Examples of water-based lubricant: Astroglide or KY jelly
  • Examples of silicone-based lubricant: Wet Platinum, Eros Bodyglide
  • Examples of glycerine-based lubricant: any flavoured lubricants

If you get a lot of yeast infections, avoid glycerine-based lubricants. Glycerine contains sugars that yeast feed on, and can cause more yeast infections.

Avoid lubricants made out of petroleum jelly (Vaseline), lotions, cold creams, butter or margarine, because they can damage latex and cause condoms to tear.

Try different positions

Sometimes a vagina is on a slight angle or sometimes a penis is curved or bends, which makes it hard for the penis to enter the vagina.

It can help to try different positions. See some examples below, but don’t forget to use lubricant.

  •     ‘Missionary’: the man lies on top and the woman lies on her back
  •     Woman on top: the other way round
  •     From behind: the woman kneels on all fours and the man enters from behind

If none of these suggestions work, see your doctor or another health care professional – he or she can advise you of other options.

Comments

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Aisa hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahayata nahi kar saktay! Lekin aap hastmethun try kar saktay hain kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

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Mahesh bete! yadd rakhiye pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafihota hai. Isliye pregnant honye ke liye kewal purush shukranu ka mahila ke dimb me nishechit hona chahiye jo ek baar ke sex se bhi ho sakta hai. Aur jyada yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

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Jawab ke liye toh apko yaha hi ana padega: . So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur bête Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Ohhh hmmm! To aap log safe sex karnye ka idea use kar rahye hain par bête yeh bilkulbhi safe tarika nahi hai kyunki pregnant honey ke liey ek shuranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai so safe sex ke liey condom ka isteaml anivrya hai bête. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

Pehli baar sex kartaye samaye kya karna hai kya nahi karna hai, aur first sex ko kese theek tarah se kiya jaye is bare mein aap yaha detail mein padh lijieye : https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts

Pehli bar mein aisa hona bohot common hai! Pehli baar sex kartaye samaye kya karna hai kya nahi karna hai, aur first sex ko kese theek tarah se kiya jaye is bare mein aap yaha detail mein padh lijieye : https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts

Aap Kuch mat kijiey aur sahi sammaey aaney ka intzaar kijiey jab wo khud sehmati dikhaey sex ke liey.Kyunki kisi bhi rishtey mey jabardasti acceptable nahi hai . in baton se dhyan hatiey aur apney rishtey ko aur majbut banaiey. https://lovematters.in/en/news/how-can-i-convince-her-have-sex

Suno bete! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Dekho bete! Aap kewal sahi sammaey aaney ka intzaar kijiey jab wo khud sehmati dikhaey sex ke liey.Kyunki kisi bhi rishtey mey jabardasti acceptable nahi hai . in baton se dhyan hatiey aur apney rishtey ko aur majbut banaiey. https://lovematters.in/en/news/how-can-i-convince-her-have-sex

Yeh changes hotay kitnay time ho gaya hai? kya aap is baarein mein kisi doctor se milin hain? Ek achhay doctor se sampak kijiey is baaray mein. Aur dhyan rakho safe sex ke liey condom ka istemal kiya jaata hai naa ki emergency pills ka bête, yaha padho zara: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex yeh emergency goli hai aur yeh mahila ke masik dharm par asar kar saktee hai.. PLEASE in goliyoun ko laparvahi se istemaal mat keejiye. Aur haan Yadd rakhiye chahye ling kitni der ke liye bhi andar gaya bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai, iska masturbation se koi sambandh nahi. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo

Hmm! Beta jitni jyada utejna hogi ejaculation bhi utnajaldi hoga.aur yahi isthithi shyad kissing ke duran bhi aapke saath ho rahi hai hai.is bare mein yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/i-come-when-we-kiss-what-should-i-do

Beta isse karnay mein koi samsya nahi maslan saaf-safai ka poora dhyan rakha gaya ho aur ismay dono partners ki barab marzi shamil! aur behtar hoga yadi condom ka isteml kiya jaey.Mukh maithun ka sabse ehem pehlu hai atyant saaf safai – dono partners keliye, iska dhyaan rakhiye. All the best beta. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0

Beta , aap galat kiss nazar se keh rahee hain? Ki kya yeh koi beemari karta hai, so nahin. Lekin kya yeh aapko sahi lagta hai, sawaal yeh hai, Saath hee saath yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki yadi mooh mei choot bhi jaye toh aap turant use baahr thook dein, andear lene ki koi zaroorat nahin. Mukh maithun ka eke hen pehlu hai atyant saaf safai – dono partners keliye, iska dhyaan rakhiye. All the best beta. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0

Suniye - Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Dekho bete! Sahi - Galat ka nirnay, sirf hum khud hee le saktey hain.,Aur koi nahin kar sakta humare liye. Isliye apki is soch ke karan kahin aap kisi badi musibat mein na padd jaye isliye zara aap svyum chintan kar leejiye, aur soch leejiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lo: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/should-i-try-sex-older- woman

Bete aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Bete kya aap shighrpatn ki baat kar rahe hain? Toh Bete aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Bete first time sex ke duran halka durd hona is quite common lekin yaad rakhein yeh yeh boho tez nahi hona chahiye kyunki bete sex mein durd ke liye koi sthan nahi hai. So bête aap please bilkul relaxed raho. Koi jaldi nahin hai bilkul… just relax and take it slow. Apne partner ko bhi yeh salaah deejiye, Slow down. Yeh link padh leejiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love

Bilkul nahi bête koi haani nahi, it’s quite common, Bus swasth raho aur yaad rakho ki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Hmm! toh bete aap philhal Kuch mat kijiey aur sahi sammaey aaney ka intzaar kijiey jab wo khud sehmati dikhaey sex ke liey.Kyunki kisi bhi rishtey mey jabardasti acceptable nahi hai . in baton se dhyan hatiey aur apney rishtey ko aur majbut banaiey. https://lovematters.in/en/news/how-can-i-convince-her-have-sex

Yadi app HAR mahila ya ladki se koi bhi baat karety waqt uttejit ho jaaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahiloun ke prti bahut ek arfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hee chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi!Apne aas paas ki mahilaon ko respect dijiye jese aap apne ghar ki mahilaon ko dete hain. Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti.https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Bete yeh ek mithya hai ki hastmethun se kisi bhee tarah ki samsya aati hai kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/watery-semen-dont-blame-masturbation

Hmmm! Bete Ram durd ki wajah penis ki skin Yadi woh theek tarah se peeche nahi hui hogi toh yeh durd ka karan ban sakti hai. Isliye is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye. Iske alawa sex mein dryness bhi durd ki wajh ban sakti hai.Jis bare mein poori jaankari aapyeh link padh kar hasil kar sakte hain. For happy sex https://lovematters.in/hi/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Hmm! aisa kyun ho raha hai? kya aap koi aisi activity kar rahe hain jo ki unhe pasand nahi aa rahi hai? Sabse zaroori hoga ki aap unse pyar aur vishawas ke saath iski vajeh poochein, bina jhagda, bina aalochna. Tab hee aap anumaan laga saktey hain, hain na? Yeh bhi yaad rakhiye, ki sex mein HAAN karna ya NAA, yeh bhi unka haq hai, unka nirnay… so yadi who Na kartee hain, so ek baat to tay hi ki koi bhi zor ya zabardasti bilkul allow nahin ha, samjhe beta jee?! https://lovematters.in/en/news/my-wife-not-interested-sex zara yeh bhi padhiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Hmmm! Suniye yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Hmmm! Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

ऐसा क्यूँ हो रहा है? क्या आप कोई ऐसी activity कर रहे हैं जो की उन्हे पसंद नही आ रही है? सबसे ज़रूरी होगा की आप उनसे प्यार और विश्वास के साथ इसकी वजह पूछें, बिना झगड़ा, बिना आलोचना. तब ही आप अनुमान लगा सकते हैं, हैं ना? यह भी याद रखिए, की सेक्स में हाँ करना या ना, यह भी उनका हक़ है, उनका निर्णय… यदि वह ना करती हैं, सो एक बात तो तय ही की कोई भी ज़ोर या ज़बरदस्ती बिल्कुल भी नहीं होनी चाहिए , समझे बेटा जी?! Zara yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed
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