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Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 27, 2012 - 07:30
Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Good thing is that help is at hand. Most people tend to just worry a lot and try to fight it all by themselves. You don’t need to do that, your Auntyji is here, no?

So listen to me very carefully. Let’s clear up a little misunderstanding. A foreskin is not like a girl's hymen that tears or needs to stretch for first time sex.

Until they hit puberty it is normal for young boys to have a foreskin that can’t slide all the way back over the head of the penis. But by the time most boys are 10 years old, about half of them can pull back their foreskin. By the age of 18, about 99 percent of men can do this.

However, there are still some people who are unable to do it even after 18. And it sounds like you could be one of them. It could be that you have a condition called phimosis. But you should not panic because it’s not worth panicking.

Stretching

There are things you can try on your own to help your foreskin easily slide back over the head of your penis. Start with stretching exercises during your shower. You should pull the foreskin forward away from the body, then pull it back as so it feels tight without being painful and keep it stretched for a couple of minutes. Make it a routine for a couple of times a day. And do it gradually, one step at the time.

Another way that might help to stretch your foreskin I think you might enjoy. When you masturbate (like nearly all men do) hold your penis in your hand and rub up and down so your foreskin is pulled back and forth and gently stretches.

Doctor

Abhi betaji, if you don’t notice much improvement after stretching, then it is certainly time to consult the doctor. You might feel embarrassed at first, but once you have plucked up courage I’m sure you will feel very relieved.

The doctor will be able to say if your trouble is phimosis, or maybe something else. Maybe you have a very short frenulum – it’s the sensitive band of skin attaching your foreskin to the head of your penis underneath.

For phimosis, the doctor might prescribe you steroid ointment like betamethasone cream. This can be really effective. Do talk to medical practitioner before putting anything like this on your body though.

Plenty of solutions

If this isn’t enough, another possibility is a minor operation to widen the foreskin, called preputioplasty. Finally, circumcision is also a possible treatment, but that is absolutely the last resort. Hopefully you will not have to get that far. But it’s good to know that there are plenty of solutions available.

My dear puttarji, always remember every problem has a solution, it is just that one has to find it. So don’t think of yourself as abnormal. Just go meet the doctor and start the treatment. Within a relatively short time everything will be fine. I am sure very soon you will even forget that there was ever something like this in your life. Keep smiling.

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Namaste aunty g Aunty g meri age 22 year old hai mera penis attached h ek taraf se par me usse nahatey samay roj saf bhi karta hu to muje koi dard ya khoon nahi hota kya mera penis thik h. Aur ek baat aur aunty g me musturbate jyada kiya karta hu isse koi problem to nahi h..
Bete Sohan is skin ko roz nahate samya paani se saaf karna is a good habit, so relax. Aur Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
Aunty ji, I can retract my foreskin when he is asleep. But during erection it is painful also unable to pull back and also I have sensitivity there. Please tell me a solution.
Bete Manmadan, Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Kumar chennai
Sun, 03/06/2016 - 05:44
Hi I'm Kumar, my age is 28 I'm too facing a tight foreskin problem. I can able to pull it back wen it is small in size but I can't able to do that wen it is erected and it's bit painful. Please help me I'm going to get married in August month.
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
djmohitsounds
Wed, 03/23/2016 - 05:46
Hello ma'am I am facing very trouble in my foreskin while sex it getd very red n paining. should I use oil while sex ??
- Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Please do read this link as well: https://lovematters.in/en/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
edward001
Mon, 07/18/2016 - 09:00
Aunty ji main roj subah jab uthta hu mera penis ka foreskin pura sikuda ek dusre se chipka rahta hai n jab main jab use kholne ka try karta hu mujhe chuban jaise lagta hai kya karu
- Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Bete yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Siddharth bete, relax! Jaldi viryapaat hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. Toh sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Ling ko apne aam stithi pe bhi toh waapis aana me lagbhag 45 mins se 1 hour lag sakta hai, ya zyada ya kum. Yeh bohot common hain, so don't worry! Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
बेटे इस चमड़ी को नहाते समय हलके से पीछे करके साफ़ करना होता है जिससे वहाँ सफाई बनी रहे , यदि ऐसा करते समय ज़्यादा तकलीफ या खून आ रहा हैं तो एक डॉक्टर से मिल लीजिये इसके बारे में. अधिक जानकारी के लिए : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Yeh ek myh hain beta. Masturbation ya hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rohitkohli
Fri, 02/03/2017 - 18:41
mam help me .... actually mere penis ki uppr ki skin puri niche Ni hoti bs aadhi hoti h aadhe k baad niche krne ki koshish krta hu to thoda pain aur penis uppr se thoda bend hone lgta h ... aap mujhe bataiye ki me apne penis ki uppr ki skin ko alag kese Kru .. and agar skin nhi hatti to mujhe sex krne me koi problem to nhi hogi na .. plz help me
Rohit bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se piche karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
My foreskin came to head down and there it got stiff and stretching like a rubber rounded.then not supposing to pull .. More. Please suggest me what I have to do now. I am planning to do sex for my girlfriend to insert full of my penis.
Does the foreskin never go back... do you feel it is stuck or is it very tight? You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the forskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small , quick procedure. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
hi auntyji my name is sahil
Wed, 02/08/2017 - 19:23
m apni foreskin ko picche karta hu cleaning k liye wo hoti hai lekin pink top ki aadhi or mujhe dar h ki y puri nhi hoti to kya y sahi ho jygi sa koi sex m prblm to nhi hogi
Yadi aise karte samay koi zyaada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
kuldeep pahwa
Tue, 04/04/2017 - 14:28
Mam Maine pehli baar ek lady se sex kiya .to thode din baad meri foreskin me white and red colour kaa thick substance rehne lgaa..
Kya aapne condom ka istemaal kiya tha? Yeh infection ke kaaran ho sakta hain...ya fir saaf-safaai na rakhna bhi kaaran ho sakta hain. Behtar hoga ki aap jald hi iske baare main kisi panjikrit doctor se milein. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Shivanshu
Wed, 05/10/2017 - 15:25
Mere penic ke upr ke skin nahi open hote hai or mai bhot problem me hu operation ke alava or dusra rasta hai kya koi madim plzz bra dejeye
Shivanshu bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se piche karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sachin Shah
Wed, 05/10/2017 - 18:31
Hie auntiji Me jab bhi sex karta hu mera skin piche nahi hota aur skin piche karne jata hu toh pain hota hai pls suggest
Sachin bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se piche karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to be easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
My name is Rahul and iam 21 years old I can't remove the skin of my pennies so what to do iam scared it affects my future life so what's the solution plz
Alright yes this can be a concern. First tell me, does the foreskin never go back... do you feel it is stuck or is it very tight? You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the forskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small , quick procedure. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Try this technique and see if it helps you. Emphasize on your partner's body, and focus on your partner. Involve yourself in foreplay. If you are highly aroused, there is an increase in chances of premature ejaculation. So, you could also masturbate before sex, giving enough time for your body to get an erection again. Condom also helps in prevents premature ejaculation. Read the link given. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi ma'am, My foreskin goes down below epididymis but it doesn't go a down and hell tight there causing me pain. Please suggest how to loosen it?
Hi, beta. Ohhh, listen! Foreskin ought to be easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ling ke size mein ek apna teda pann hona is quite common bete. Don't worry, isse koi samsaya nahin hoti hai. Yeh padhiye zara: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
The reason for this can be foreskin. If the foreskin doesn’t go back, it can cause pain. Please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then you have to see a doctor. In addition, dryness can also be the reason behind the oain. Read about this here: https://lovematters.in/en/news/will-my-foreskin-hurt-when-i-first-have-sex For pleasant sand pain-free sex: https://lovematters.in/en/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bête is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichhe kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha safaai bani rahe, yadi aisa karne mein koi jyda takleef ya blood aa raha ho toh ek doctor se mill lo iske bare mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
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