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Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 27, 2012 - 07:30
Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Good thing is that help is at hand. Most people tend to just worry a lot and try to fight it all by themselves. You don’t need to do that, your Auntyji is here, no?

So listen to me very carefully. Let’s clear up a little misunderstanding. A foreskin is not like a girl's hymen that tears or needs to stretch for first time sex.

Until they hit puberty it is normal for young boys to have a foreskin that can’t slide all the way back over the head of the penis. But by the time most boys are 10 years old, about half of them can pull back their foreskin. By the age of 18, about 99 percent of men can do this.

However, there are still some people who are unable to do it even after 18. And it sounds like you could be one of them. It could be that you have a condition called phimosis. But you should not panic because it’s not worth panicking.

Stretching

There are things you can try on your own to help your foreskin easily slide back over the head of your penis. Start with stretching exercises during your shower. You should pull the foreskin forward away from the body, then pull it back as so it feels tight without being painful and keep it stretched for a couple of minutes. Make it a routine for a couple of times a day. And do it gradually, one step at the time.

Another way that might help to stretch your foreskin I think you might enjoy. When you masturbate (like nearly all men do) hold your penis in your hand and rub up and down so your foreskin is pulled back and forth and gently stretches.

Doctor

Abhi betaji, if you don’t notice much improvement after stretching, then it is certainly time to consult the doctor. You might feel embarrassed at first, but once you have plucked up courage I’m sure you will feel very relieved.

The doctor will be able to say if your trouble is phimosis, or maybe something else. Maybe you have a very short frenulum – it’s the sensitive band of skin attaching your foreskin to the head of your penis underneath.

For phimosis, the doctor might prescribe you steroid ointment like betamethasone cream. This can be really effective. Do talk to medical practitioner before putting anything like this on your body though.

Plenty of solutions

If this isn’t enough, another possibility is a minor operation to widen the foreskin, called preputioplasty. Finally, circumcision is also a possible treatment, but that is absolutely the last resort. Hopefully you will not have to get that far. But it’s good to know that there are plenty of solutions available.

My dear puttarji, always remember every problem has a solution, it is just that one has to find it. So don’t think of yourself as abnormal. Just go meet the doctor and start the treatment. Within a relatively short time everything will be fine. I am sure very soon you will even forget that there was ever something like this in your life. Keep smiling.

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Ohhh listen Rakesh bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
Bete is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Yeh janne ka koi bhee tarika mojjud nahi hai. Aur jab tak mahila khud nahi batyegi ki woh pehli baar hi sex kar rahi hain aap is baat ka pata nahi laga saktay. Waise bhi isse koi phark nahin padta, yadi pyaar karte hain toh vishwaas bhi keejiye.. Apnay mann se doubt clear kijiye aur yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity
sunny7607
Fri, 12/04/2015 - 16:11
Aunty ji yesterday i did sex for first time and even my girlfriend did for the first time.and we had vigorous sex . The penis was not going inside we had to do it harder way so was bit pain involved during insertion of penis.i am 22 even my skin didnt fully strecthed but after sex i had pain but it got full stretched but since morning my penis head is not going inside and the penis glans are swollen.And i slept while wearing a condom too.please help me out, its paining whenever i touch it and my foreskin is not going upwards.
-Relax Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Hmmm! Bete Sunny Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Anonymous
Fri, 12/28/2012 - 13:14
Hello, My Foreskin is tight and it does not roll back properly when the penis is fully erect. I can roll it back when the penis is in unexcited state.But if i roll back when the penis is unexcited and try to excite the penis to increase it size...i feel little pain...i can not make out where the pain is coming from..I tried masterbating in such situation so that my penis get adjusted to rolled back skin during full erection.But it still is the same. Kindly advise
Hey, my first time, my foreskin tore, this lady talking nonsense, a lot off guys tear during their forsy times
Bete Raghav yes you can have sex with it but it could be pain painful. So bete Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
My age is 17 and my foreskin is still attached to the head of my skin .....can i have sex in this condition? And how can i dettach it? Please help
i m 22 my foreskin moves back half whn my penis is in excited motion,,i would like to know does it goes fully backward or not.. i m very much tensed .because many of my firends says that it goes fully backward but mine doesnt go tell me some solution please
anonymous
Fri, 03/07/2014 - 00:29
Same here very tight when its fully erect but can be pulled back when not..scared of operation mastubating since 6th std now m 22yrs ashamed...please advice..
anonymous
Fri, 03/07/2014 - 00:30
Same here very tight when its fully erect but can be pulled back when not..scared of operation mastubating since 6th std now m 22yrs ashamed...please advice..
I am 18. My fore skin is attached to tip of penis. I masterbate once or twice a week very softly. How can i detach this covering of my cock.
I was married recently..and my fore skin is not going back...but i can see the head and hole of it..and i can participate in sex also..will my wife get pregnant..
My foreskin connection with the head of my penis got brocked while I masturbating..and srarted bleeding..,I met my Dr. nd he stitched it..is there any other problem with this..?
Plz help me my foreskin wil not go back n am 22 years old. Wat to do Am not understanding n am worried about that plzz plzzz help me.
antiji m apni gf k sath 1st time sexkr rha tha ...antiji jese mne andr dalne ki kosis ki to mere ang ke uper ke hisse se blod niklne lga ...mujhe bahut dr lg rha h.kahi kuchh gdbd na ho jaye
aunty ji mera gf ke saath sex karne ke tm me meraa forskin niche aagaya lekin oooper nahi jaaaraaa. it was so much paining is der any prblm wth dat plz tl meee
ankur mittal
Sat, 06/14/2014 - 01:15
Hi , antiji, myself ankur, actually i m facing this foreskin problem on my penis head, I worried about than concern so tell me some sugestion to solve this problem...
aunty ji I cn pull my foreskin bt whn I touch my penis head it pains like sum1 is poking pins wat to do plz help me
Aunty ji main aab 17 sall ka hun par kuch 1sal se mera ang jada samay tik nahin rahahe tell me some sugestion to solve this problem....
hlw auntiji ,my penis is not errect it is tilted towards the left side ! will it cauz any problem ?? or it is normal ?? plz tell me the ways to solve it thank you :-)
my foreskin is attached to the penis head. Do it will remains as it is or it should torn at the time of sex.. I had sex with my wife with no such problem but the skin is attached.. Is it normal..
Suraj Mahapatra
Sun, 06/22/2014 - 18:01
Auntiji After sex a fluid comes out and it is paining what should i do
the same problem of skin not coming back is with me also... wont it prove my tobe wife that i m still a virgin....and she will appreciate it?
Anonymous
Thu, 06/26/2014 - 05:03
I m age of 18 my foreskin has been removed easily the head is opened do I need to scroll my skin more down very worried while my penis go normal us it necessary that it's has to go inside the foreskin plz answer these tow questions
if there is pain then be careful and try to keep yourself very clean. Wash under the forskin during a bath and see if its any better. If not- see a doctor.read this : http://lovematters.in/en/term/smegma
Hi,auntyji,is it necessary to roll back foreskin during sex?can't we directly insert our penis?i don't know why people bothered of rolling it back?Does it affect in making pregnancy?
anonymous
Sun, 06/29/2014 - 22:55
Hi, I just had penetration for the first time and now my penis foreskin is permanently pulled back with inner part containing cut for pee at the top .. Is it normal?
Anonymous
Mon, 06/30/2014 - 14:29
i am 19 years old...i m doing my first time sex with my girlfrend...my fore skin getting back or pain nhi hoti but kuj disturb sa feel hota ha jab koi cheez mere penis k head pr touch hoti ha to aap plz btayenge ye kyu hota ha or mera penis jata ha ander thoda to prblm hoti...ye first time sex k wajah se hota ha...ap mujhe btayiye k ye thoda disturbing sa kyo lgta ha penis pe jb kuj touch hota plz reply..
Aaunty ji jabh mai sex karta hu na tabh mera skin niche aata hai aur mera shaft wo pura red colour ka hai aur wo pain hota hai jabh wo suck karti hai tabhi bhi bohatpain hota hai plz mujhe thoda info do na
auntiji I'm of 23 years old but till my fore skin is intact mene bahot streach kia fir v it does not open either my penis is in erect position or in normal . mene kafi time sex v kia condom use kar k koi problem nahi hua I get afraid ki me bina condom se karunga to koi problem aayga kya ??
antiji mere penis ki forskin piche to ho jati h but jo uper hole se attach hota h wo abhi tk nHi hata tell me what to do whenever m doing sex thik se nahi hota coz forskin attaCh h
When i did sex with my wife for the first time,my foreskin stretched and it is not going back to the original position.I can see the head under he foreskin.The area under is very sensitive as we all know and due to that I am feeling a little uncomfortable ,its that normal?Will this become comfortable in coupe of days?
I have a small penis with phimosis, I don't have any problem while urinating or masturburating. I'd never done a sex before, will I get any problem or prain during sex after marrige
ji my penis have some different problem.. my fore skin is enrolled but there is a hook type ..that only make pain when i try 2 sex. it is natural?
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