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Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 27, 2012 - 07:30
Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Good thing is that help is at hand. Most people tend to just worry a lot and try to fight it all by themselves. You don’t need to do that, your Auntyji is here, no?

So listen to me very carefully. Let’s clear up a little misunderstanding. A foreskin is not like a girl's hymen that tears or needs to stretch for first time sex.

Until they hit puberty it is normal for young boys to have a foreskin that can’t slide all the way back over the head of the penis. But by the time most boys are 10 years old, about half of them can pull back their foreskin. By the age of 18, about 99 percent of men can do this.

However, there are still some people who are unable to do it even after 18. And it sounds like you could be one of them. It could be that you have a condition called phimosis. But you should not panic because it’s not worth panicking.

Stretching

There are things you can try on your own to help your foreskin easily slide back over the head of your penis. Start with stretching exercises during your shower. You should pull the foreskin forward away from the body, then pull it back as so it feels tight without being painful and keep it stretched for a couple of minutes. Make it a routine for a couple of times a day. And do it gradually, one step at the time.

Another way that might help to stretch your foreskin I think you might enjoy. When you masturbate (like nearly all men do) hold your penis in your hand and rub up and down so your foreskin is pulled back and forth and gently stretches.

Doctor

Abhi betaji, if you don’t notice much improvement after stretching, then it is certainly time to consult the doctor. You might feel embarrassed at first, but once you have plucked up courage I’m sure you will feel very relieved.

The doctor will be able to say if your trouble is phimosis, or maybe something else. Maybe you have a very short frenulum – it’s the sensitive band of skin attaching your foreskin to the head of your penis underneath.

For phimosis, the doctor might prescribe you steroid ointment like betamethasone cream. This can be really effective. Do talk to medical practitioner before putting anything like this on your body though.

Plenty of solutions

If this isn’t enough, another possibility is a minor operation to widen the foreskin, called preputioplasty. Finally, circumcision is also a possible treatment, but that is absolutely the last resort. Hopefully you will not have to get that far. But it’s good to know that there are plenty of solutions available.

My dear puttarji, always remember every problem has a solution, it is just that one has to find it. So don’t think of yourself as abnormal. Just go meet the doctor and start the treatment. Within a relatively short time everything will be fine. I am sure very soon you will even forget that there was ever something like this in your life. Keep smiling.

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Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding OR you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/mens-hygiene If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I opened my forskin first time and I get pain when the penis is in luxurious so what should I do for overcome pain on luxurious penis
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My penis is very small when that is flaccid. This is very shameful to me. But when erects that becomes 5" . How to increase my penis size when that is flaccid. And is the length of penis when erected is satisfies a girl.
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Aditya bete it may be because of foreskin, if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/mens-hygiene If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Aditya raj
Sun, 09/02/2018 - 08:49
I was going to do sex but before that i had seen blood in my penis nd the foreskin stetched it was cutted out nd was paining too much ? What was happening?
Hello sir /mam Mere foreskin was damage during hard sex first time with my gf it's skeen might be damaged and sudnlly blooding in my panis now 3-4 days gone when I am pulled up again than again blood come in panis so please suggest me what can I do it's really Hart me
Abhishek bete, the foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis
Do you mean it's paining, Priyan beta? If it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi, Sanjeev beta! Bete foreskin penis se judi hoti hain aur ise apne aap katna ek achchha idea nahi...Ek toh ye procedure galat ja sakta hain, upar se yeh ek kaafi painful procedure hain khud karne ke liye. Please aisa kuchh na karein aur agar circumcision karna hi hain toh please ek panjikrit doctor ya visheshagya se miliye. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Honey bete, the foreskin Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly before having sex otherwise it can lead to pain and bleeding due to friction. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hardeep bete, the foreskin Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly before having sex otherwise it can lead to pain and bleeding due to friction. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I guess you are talking about the foreskin, Ashok beta. Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
aunty ji, what is the differece between having sex with foreskin over the penis head and having sex without the foreskin over the penis head?
aunty ji, what is the differece between having sex with foreskin over the penis head and having sex without the foreskin over penis head?
Ummm! Please go through below links: http://lovematters.in/en/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts http://lovematters.in/en/resource/making-love http://lovematters.in/en/resource/ways-make-love If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
when I have sex with my girlfriend, my penis doesn't fully go into her vagina. It stretches, and i feel a bit pain. I want it to go full in. Please help.
Nobita bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichchhe karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood aa raha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul, Auntyji is happy you read the tips. You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the foreskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourself gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small, quick procedure If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Madam I m 26 years old yesterday I had sex with my gf, during sex my penis front skin pulled behind. After reviewing above tips I pulled it back during bath. Now my whole skin is back in it's place. What will happen if I again go for sex, i again have to follow the complete back procedure, because its very painful .
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Does the foreskin never go back... do you feel it is stuck or is it very tight? Having sex in this condition can cause pain. You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the forskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourself gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small , quick procedure. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Raaj bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichchhe karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Abdull Razakkh
Mon, 12/04/2017 - 20:07
I am 17 years old and my foreskin is too tight and what can I do to make it loose ?? Can I have sex with my partner with this condition of my penis??
The reason for this can be foreskin. If the foreskin doesn’t go back, it can cause pain. Please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then you have to see a doctor. In addition, dryness can also be the reason behind the oain. Read about this here: https://lovematters.in/en/news/will-my-foreskin-hurt-when-i-first-have-sex For pleasant sand pain-free sex: https://lovematters.in/en/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
The reason for this can be foreskin. If the foreskin doesn’t go back, it can cause pain. Please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then you have to see a doctor. In addition, dryness can also be the reason behind the oain. Read about this here: https://lovematters.in/en/news/will-my-foreskin-hurt-when-i-first-have-sex For pleasant sand pain-free sex: https://lovematters.in/en/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ling ke size mein ek apna teda pann hona is quite common bete. Don't worry, isse koi samsaya nahin hoti hai. Yeh padhiye zara: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Try this technique and see if it helps you. Emphasize on your partner's body, and focus on your partner. Involve yourself in foreplay. If you are highly aroused, there is an increase in chances of premature ejaculation. So, you could also masturbate before sex, giving enough time for your body to get an erection again. Condom also helps in prevents premature ejaculation. Read the link given. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi, beta. Ohhh, listen! Foreskin ought to be easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Alright yes this can be a concern. First tell me, does the foreskin never go back... do you feel it is stuck or is it very tight? You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the forskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small , quick procedure. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to be easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it bleeds and you face problem while pulling it back consult to doctor. Also this, could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi ma'am, My foreskin goes down below epididymis but it doesn't go a down and hell tight there causing me pain. Please suggest how to loosen it?
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