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Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 27, 2012 - 07:30
Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Good thing is that help is at hand. Most people tend to just worry a lot and try to fight it all by themselves. You don’t need to do that, your Auntyji is here, no?

So listen to me very carefully. Let’s clear up a little misunderstanding. A foreskin is not like a girl's hymen that tears or needs to stretch for first time sex.

Until they hit puberty it is normal for young boys to have a foreskin that can’t slide all the way back over the head of the penis. But by the time most boys are 10 years old, about half of them can pull back their foreskin. By the age of 18, about 99 percent of men can do this.

However, there are still some people who are unable to do it even after 18. And it sounds like you could be one of them. It could be that you have a condition called phimosis. But you should not panic because it’s not worth panicking.

StretchingThere are things you can try on your own to help your foreskin easily slide back over the head of your penis. Start with stretching exercises during your shower. You should pull the foreskin forward away from the body, then pull it back as so it feels tight without being painful and keep it stretched for a couple of minutes. Make it a routine for a couple of times a day. And do it gradually, one step at the time.

Another way that might help to stretch your foreskin I think you might enjoy. When you masturbate (like nearly all men do) hold your penis in your hand and rub up and down so your foreskin is pulled back and forth and gently stretches.

DoctorAbhi betaji, if you don’t notice much improvement after stretching, then it is certainly time to consult the doctor. You might feel embarrassed at first, but once you have plucked up courage I’m sure you will feel very relieved.

The doctor will be able to say if your trouble is phimosis, or maybe something else. Maybe you have a very short frenulum – it’s the sensitive band of skin attaching your foreskin to the head of your penis underneath.

For phimosis, the doctor might prescribe you steroid ointment like betamethasone cream. This can be really effective. Do talk to medical practitioner before putting anything like this on your body though.

Plenty of solutionsIf this isn’t enough, another possibility is a minor operation to widen the foreskin, called preputioplasty. Finally, circumcision is also a possible treatment, but that is absolutely the last resort. Hopefully you will not have to get that far. But it’s good to know that there are plenty of solutions available.

My dear puttarji, always remember every problem has a solution, it is just that one has to find it. So don’t think of yourself as abnormal. Just go meet the doctor and start the treatment. Within a relatively short time everything will be fine. I am sure very soon you will even forget that there was ever something like this in your life. Keep smiling.

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Bilkul bete! is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Aunty ji meri umrr 23 saal hai and meri penis ka size bohat chota hai kya mai iske saath bhi achaa sex kar sakta hu and koi problem too nahi atii shadi k badd plzz reply
Hlo mam.....I'm 25 yrs and my penis detached today and it comes backward bt it can't up and down..it stable at a place...so I want to know that is it necessary to up and down the skin...pls.mam suggest me something about it..I'm soo tense.
auntiji mera forskin bilkul tight chipk ke hai mere penis se. Abhe my 20 Ka hu fr bhi nh nikla.plz gv me sm sggesion .my kya kru. Kya bina forskin nikle sex ho payega
Bete Dhruv is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Bete Siddarth Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Mera foreskin to neche a jata h par ek patli se strip penis hole se abhi bhi attached h jiske wajah se foreskin beech me hi atak jati h .how to remove this part of foreskin .im 18 plz help ne auntyji
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Hello auntyji I m just married 2 months ago..when I m having sex with my partner the forehead skin of my penis is getting stretch back...and its pain during evacuation..so is it normal if skin goes back and penis comes complete ly out of forskin
Listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
My foreskin is attached to the penis,. I have herd tht during sex thers a big pain,. So can i knw is it true cause i mastrubute 3 4 times a wwee, the forskin is strechd bt thn whil sex its start pain im still virgin ;-(
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
kunal singh*
Wed, 08/26/2015 - 18:19
meri skin penis ke upri red hisse tak khulti hai magar jaise hi top red hissa katam hota hai wha puri skin dher ho jati hai jisse jb me masterbate karta hu to upar hi taraf haath krte hi foreskin band ho jati hai isse sex krne me koi problem to nahi.
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
aunti ji mere penish k top k niche skin judi h. jiski wajah se mane sex karne k liye jaise hi usko andard dalne ki kosis ki to wo niche ki taraf jhukane laga. aesa kyon hua. niche jo skin top se judi h uski wajah se. plz iska kuch upay bataiye.thanks
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
aman pandey
Fri, 08/28/2015 - 12:24
what can i do when my forskin is attach in my penis head my foreskin back only over the head and it could not roll over my penis solution to break my foreskin to penis head i regularly wash forskin .
Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
my penis was bleeding during sex from front of my penis where that foreskin is connected that was my first time..is it any thing serious? how to solve this prblem?
Hmm! It might happen bete! please use any antiseptic cream on that area or see a doctor! Also foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mene 1-2 baar up down muth mari he ab mere foreskin nikal rhi he us par white se dane se dikh rhe the or me sperm kese nikalu sperm not getting im 14
Suno is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Isse Anal sex ya guda methun kehte hain.Yadi dono partners ki poori sehmati hai issey karney may to kar saktay hai lekin wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. LEKIN, yeh jaan leejiye ki Har koi hark ism ke sex ke liye tayyar nahin ho jaate – isme unki marzee honi chhaiye. Yadi unhe yeh pasand nahin toh iska matlab hai ,NAHIN. Samjh Gaye? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex
aunty ji mera prob kuch alag hay .. may pehele sex kiya without condom no prob ...bt akdin sex karne ki time pe mere penish ko chot laga .... sayed jaldbaji me lag gaya bt bleeding ho raha tha ... uske bad bohotdin sex nehi kiya ...par aab jab vi sex karne ja raha hu tab penis ke foreskin ka joint me dard hota hay oor thoda bleding vi ho raha hay ... may dar ke mare kisiko nehi kaha ...plzz aap help kijiye ..... aur konsa doctor ki pas jana hoga ye vi bata dijiye plzz ...cz ye prob may kisise share vi nehi kar pa raha hu ...plzz help plzz...
Ohhh! Bete suno zara is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Bete Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Hi , I am 25 years old. But still I am not able to retract my foreskin beneath my penis head,when erect. I tried doing stretching for dew days with warm water. I don't want to go for circumcism. Is there a way , using some lubricant or cream by which I can make my skin loose? I am tensed whether it will affect my sex life? Please give me some advice. I am a bit shy to share this with anyone, so if i can resolve this out myself, that would be great. Thanks
Hello my name is manav and i am 19 yr old. I can stretch my fore skin of pennis anytime but i want to know when Will my fore skin completely gies back plz help
Bete Manav! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Bete Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty I am 16 years old. A few days back I pulled my foreskin back and it came too..but I get a weird sensation wenever I touch the penis..its seems to be kinda sensitive..is this normal?? And will the foreskin ever stay back permanently?? Pls tell me asap
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
medam meri girl fred ko sex karne mein bahut pain hota hai wo sex karne se darti hai plz koi upaay bataye ki wo asani se sex kar sake.aur madam mere panis ka topa pura nahi kulta hai koi gharelu upaye bataye dosto ne salah diya hai ki tope ke niche desi gii lagaya karo kya yah sahi hoga plz mem reply jarur kare.plz.help me. Mein 17 sal ka ho gaya hu aur 19 sal ki meri girlfrend hai medam ji plz bataye.
Yeh ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki who pregnancy se darti hon ya society se? Jo bhi ho shayed who abhi tayyar nahin, pehele yeh sab baatein clear karo aur phir sex ki planning. Sirf ek person ready hai aur doosre nahin, so phir toh koi maza nahin na? Aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? isliye make sure ki apki partner in sab cheezon ke liye tayyar hui hain. zara yeh padhiye: http://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed Aur is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
medam meri girl fred ko sex karne mein bahut pain hota hai wo sex karne se darti hai plz koi upaay bataye ki wo asani se sex kar sake.aur madam mere panis ka topa pura nahi kulta hai koi gharelu upaye bataye dosto ne salah diya hai ki tope ke niche desi gii lagaya karo kya yah sahi hoga plz mem reply jarur kare.plz.help me. Mein 17 sal ka ho gaya hu aur 19 sal ki meri girlfrend hai medam ji plz bataye.
Suno bete dekho 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye.samjhe? Aur Rahi baat penis ki skin ki toh is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
anty g m 17 years old mene kabhi sex nhi kiya mera penis ka foreskin attached ha agar m foreskin ko piche bhi karta hu to mere penis ka jo inner red part ha us ko chune se dard hota jese current lag rha ho..... plzz reply I am very trouble about this problem ....
Ohhh! Acha bete suno is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
anty g m 17 years old mene kabhi sex nhi kiya mera penis ka foreskin attached ha agar m foreskin ko piche bhi karta hu to mere penis ka jo inner red part ha us ko chune se dard hota jese current lag rha ho..... plzz reply I am very trouble about this problem ....
Hmmm! So bete Remo is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Hello aunty ji .. Plz suggest me .. mere forskin attach mai penis se . Toilet mai bhi koi problm nhi hai .. kya mai easily sex kr skta hu apni partner k sath wid attached foreskin .. thnks in advance ..
hemant007
Thu, 12/03/2015 - 15:22
I had normal foreskin before. I could pull back and forth now its troubling me from past 3 weeks suddenly! Can u help me out what to do. I am 25 year old.
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