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Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

By Auntyji Tuesday, November 27, 2012 - 07:30
Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Good thing is that help is at hand. Most people tend to just worry a lot and try to fight it all by themselves. You don’t need to do that, your Auntyji is here, no?

So listen to me very carefully. Let’s clear up a little misunderstanding. A foreskin is not like a girl's hymen that tears or needs to stretch for first time sex.

Until they hit puberty it is normal for young boys to have a foreskin that can’t slide all the way back over the head of the penis. But by the time most boys are 10 years old, about half of them can pull back their foreskin. By the age of 18, about 99 percent of men can do this.

However, there are still some people who are unable to do it even after 18. And it sounds like you could be one of them. It could be that you have a condition called phimosis. But you should not panic because it’s not worth panicking.

Stretching

There are things you can try on your own to help your foreskin easily slide back over the head of your penis. Start with stretching exercises during your shower. You should pull the foreskin forward away from the body, then pull it back as so it feels tight without being painful and keep it stretched for a couple of minutes. Make it a routine for a couple of times a day. And do it gradually, one step at the time.

Another way that might help to stretch your foreskin I think you might enjoy. When you masturbate (like nearly all men do) hold your penis in your hand and rub up and down so your foreskin is pulled back and forth and gently stretches.

Doctor

Abhi betaji, if you don’t notice much improvement after stretching, then it is certainly time to consult the doctor. You might feel embarrassed at first, but once you have plucked up courage I’m sure you will feel very relieved.

The doctor will be able to say if your trouble is phimosis, or maybe something else. Maybe you have a very short frenulum – it’s the sensitive band of skin attaching your foreskin to the head of your penis underneath.

For phimosis, the doctor might prescribe you steroid ointment like betamethasone cream. This can be really effective. Do talk to medical practitioner before putting anything like this on your body though.

Plenty of solutions

If this isn’t enough, another possibility is a minor operation to widen the foreskin, called preputioplasty. Finally, circumcision is also a possible treatment, but that is absolutely the last resort. Hopefully you will not have to get that far. But it’s good to know that there are plenty of solutions available.

My dear puttarji, always remember every problem has a solution, it is just that one has to find it. So don’t think of yourself as abnormal. Just go meet the doctor and start the treatment. Within a relatively short time everything will be fine. I am sure very soon you will even forget that there was ever something like this in your life. Keep smiling.

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Bete Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
Madam I think that my foreskin is not going back and while having sex it is painful for mee to do it properly help mee to get rid of this problem mam if u think that I should consult to a doctor then suggest mee a doctor name that will help mee mam... I m from kolkatta mam... helpp mee
We can't tell you the doctor name bete! But listen Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
sir, my penis is small and my foreskin does not slide when it is harder/erect but when it is normal i can slide it. Do you feel i should not marry because my penis is small
Relax Pradeep bete! Definitely you should think about marriage ok listen Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
mam actually me apni foreskin ko upar to le jata hu lekin jb wo bda hone lgta hai to pian hona shuru ho jata hai bahut jyada so koi problem to nhi hai na isme
Suniye Rishabh is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
foreskin roll hi nh hti . Abhi tak maine sex to nh kiya hai bt ha isse prblm to bht hogi. Matlb thoda bh nh rol hota h . Kya krun
Bete Surya suniye is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
I m 17 n i does not pull back my forskin before the tip of head of penis when erected but when it is not erected i easily pull it back.Can it can become normal in future till age 18 or 19.Please give ans.
Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
Namaste auntyji my self vaibhav main 22 yrs ka hu or muje meri gf k sath sex karna h par meri ek prblm h ki mere penis ka aage ka hissa Means foreskin voo picche nhi hota or kabhii khicho toh pain krta h toh aap muje ye bataye ki espe koi upay h ki voo piche ho jaye or main sex kar saku plz auntyji help me...
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Hey ,auntyjii plz give me the answer this is really confusing for me ... Actually m 21+ i do sex many time but theres never been bleed in my penis why this never happned to me i heard many of times that when you go for your first time sexual intercourse your penis will be bleed but there nothing happned to me like that ..
Auntiji, mere penis ke neeche ek thread like kuch h jo juda hua hai. First time sex krte time vo apne aap break ho gya aur thoda sa blood b aaya. Plzzz btaye kya hai ye esse koi dikkat hai mujhe. Kya koi dawa leeni pdegi
my penis head is attached to foreskin it can rollback and front but it will pull the head back if i pull the foreskin but i have no pain previously foreskin was not coming back but due to regular pulls now it has come back but now pulling head of penis not yet married aged 29 n getting married so will this condition create any problems in intercourse please help.
Auntiji mein 18 cross kr chuka hu But meri penis ki foreskin abhi tak nhi hati h aur mera penis bahut chota h leakage bhi thoda thoda hota h kya mein sex kar sakta hu my gf wants blowjob should I allow her aur I also want to marry her kya vo shaadi k baad pregnant hogi
Relax bete aur is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
mam i am 23 old. my forskin cover my penis . i need ur help. what can i do . should i consult doctor. and my penis size to small .
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Anonymous
Sat, 06/27/2015 - 12:48
i pulled my foreskin back manually and now i hav a bulged skin below the forehead in 2 days.. and it pains.. suggest any help..
Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Antyji maine frist sex karne ke bad mere ling ki uper wali chamdi piche aa gayi hai aur ab 3 deen ho gaye pr o puche nahi ja rahi red wala bhag bahar hi hai ....plz batao kya hua hai
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
aunty ji pls rply, bcs its my life problem. am jst 18.my penis is not backward. when I do sex, is that any problem? ? when my wife get pregnant? ? I think its painful for me.but I dnt go for operations. what should I do.plssss aunty ji ...
Bete relax! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care!
meri skin head pe atak jati hai jb mai ise piche krta hu tb.so plz give me suggetion,kya sex karne me muze koi problem hogi kya?ya meri gf satishfy hogi na?
Hmmm! Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Aunty g maine abhi kuch dino phle first time sex kiya lekin pura ni kr paya kyuki mujhe bhut dard ho rha tha meri froskin bhi cut gyi blood bhi nikla ab m kya kru 4 days ho gye lekin mere jaln ho rhi h toilet krne prr..plz aunty ji solution btao...plz
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
My forehead skin is not coming out of the penis i have to slide it down but it is not paining at all is it ohk and skin is attached to forehead skin and my penis is it normal i am a virgin
Ohhh listen bête! Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
my penis is covered by foreskin and I can't move it backwards I can when it is calm and can't when in action next month I have marriage can I have sex with my wife will it cause pain but if I mastrubate semen comes out pls reply auntiji pls pls
Bete Harry! Relax and listen Foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
rahul roy
Sun, 08/02/2015 - 23:30
Iam just 22 when I do sex my penis for skin not going to back again i think some natural defect i consider a docter his told me its an natural thing there is no problem now your the not a kid you become a power full man he says me and I take there some treatment small thrid cutting and using one guard for 2 3 days it will be normal friends don't be feel its big issue k
am 35 yrs old for last one year there is a problem am facing to roll back forskin of my penis before that it was normal pse tell me what i should do
Jatinder kc
Wed, 08/05/2015 - 00:15
aunty ji mai 23 years ka hu and my penis not growing properly it is to short and mere head k saath forskin judi huii hai isko kaisee alag karu mai bht uncomfortable feel karta hu iska kya ilaazz mai size badhana chahta hu plzz help
Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis saath hi Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes
skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karne se kya extra attached skin tutt jayega plz reply mamm plzz
Bilkul bete! is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
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