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I feel like beating my wife – what should I do?

Marriage troubles
My wife is really controlling and annoying. Sometimes I feel like hitting her because she gets on my nerves. This is so unlike me. What should I do? Satnaam (26), Ludhiana.

My husband is jealous of my job – what can I do?

Marriage troubles
I just got a promotion and now I am earning more than my husband. Since the time I've received this news, my husband has been aloof. Is he insecure? What can I do? I really want us to be like before. Rupam (24), Allahbad.

My BF won't kiss in public – is he right?

Love and relationships
I kissed my bf in public the other day. He’s really shy so he freaked out. Is it wrong to show affection openly? I think it’s cute! I’m in a dilemma – help! Ritika (24), Pune.

Is menstrual blood so harmful?

Female body
My whole family thinks menstruation is evil, especially my chaachi and my cousin. Please tell me whether there is any truth in these rumours at all! Ritupriya (23), Bhopal.

How can I get involved in gay activism?

Sexual Orientation
Auntyji, I really feel horrible about how LGBT people are treated. I’m gay myself and I always wanted to change things, but to be honest, I don’t have the guts. What should I do? – Pawan (22), Indore.

My BF is so possessive, what should I do?

Relationship problems
I am in a healthy relationship since two years. I really have a wonderful time with him – he is loving, caring and very soft-spoken. There is no problem except that he doesn’t like my being friends with any other guys.

He comes too soon, what can I do?

Sex Problems: how to overcome them
My boyfriend comes too soon. He feels apologetic and sheepish about it. I don’t say much, but well, the truth is I’m not so happy with the situation. Is there something I can do, or he can do? – Jasleen (27), Patiala.

How can I convince her to have sex?

Virginity
Q: Auntyji, my girlfriend is always saying no to sex. I bring it up, she gets upset and we have a fight. Please tell me how to convince my gf to start having sex. Raunaq (23), Ranchi

Auntyji, what if I'm pregnant?

Unsure about being pregnant?
Auntyji, I could be pregnant. I didn't even want to have sex that day, but he was so persistent. I don’t know how it happened. What if it's true? I feel I have some early signs of pregnancy too! My family will kill me and I'll kill myself. Babita (19), Faridabad.

She won't let me touch her – is she not a virgin?

Virginity
Auntyji, I love my girlfriend and she loves me too. But when I try to get close to her she doesn't let me touch her, especially near her vagina. Is that because she's not a virgin?

My younger brother is watching porn

Porn
Auntyji, I recently found out that my 11-year-old brother has been watching porn on the computer. We share the same laptop and I found porn sites in the browser history. Is it normal? How should I deal with the situation? – Aarti (19), Bangalore.

My cousin’s hugs feel weird – am I overreacting?

Sexual Harassment
Q: Auntyji I am in a real quandary, I just don’t know what to do and what is going to happen. When my cousin hugs me these days… it feels different. What should I do?