Auntyji

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I like him, but he's of another caste

Love and relationships
I'm interested in someone since a few weeks, but he's not of my caste. I always thought I'd marry someone from my own caste – I was also taught so.

Is it weird to be bisexual?

Sexual Orientation
Auntyji, I've had relationships with girls all along. But lately I am attracted to a male classmate. We have even flirted a bit. What’s happening? I don’t think I'm gay because I like girls too. Am I bisexual? Is that weird? Help! Prasoon (21), Pune.

My best friend broke my heart - now what?

Relationship problems
I am in love with my best friend. I thought it was mutual so I told him. Last month, when he returned from a holiday, he said he was dating someone else. Now he is ignoring me completely. I am so hurt. What do I do? Sahiba (22), Udaipur.

Should I watch porn with my husband?

Porn
Auntyji, I caught my husband watching porn. He says all men do it, but I feel betrayed. What should I do? He even wants us to watch porn together but I don’t like the idea. Should I try it? Aarti (23), Patna.

Should I swap sex for promotion?

Sexual Harassment
My boss won’t promote me unless I have sex with him, so he has clearly indicated. Auntyji, what can I do?

Sex during my period – do I need contraception?

Birth Control
I have just started a sexual relationship. My boyfriend lives out of the city and comes over once or twice a month. During that time, I may be having my periods. Is it OK to have sex during periods – like I won’t get pregnant, I hope? And is it actually normal to have sex during periods? Reva, 24 years, Rajasthan

How should I masturbate my girlfriend?

Making Love
Q: Auntyji, my girlfriend wants me to masturbate her to orgasm. How do I do that? Shyam, Baroda. Auntyji says... Good to know that you care for your girlfriend's pleasure. I will be happy to be your guide – though she will be your best guide of all.

Should I try sex with an older woman?

Making Love
My friends have been asking me to try sex with an older woman. Should I take their advice? I am 22 and have always had partners my age or younger. I don't fancy older women, but my friends say I'd learn from the experience. Sanjay, Bangalore

She smells bad – should I dump her?

Relationship problems
My girlfriend hates to shower. She smells bad, really bad. Sometimes she doesn't shower for as many as three days. I don't like getting intimate because she's so messy. Now she's upset and says I'm avoiding her. I'm really confused, Auntyji. Please help me. Virat (24), DelhiThis is becoming a big problem in our relationship – I wonder if I should break up with her. Virat (24), Delhi

Should I keep comforting my ex?

Breaking up
Q: Auntyji, I broke up with my boyfriend about five months ago but we still spend a lot of time together, mainly helping him get over our relationship. He feels lonely if I exclude him from my plans.

Should I sleep with my neighbourhood bhaabhi?

Making Love
Auntyji, there is a bhabhi in my neighbourhood. She's about 40 or so. I'm really attracted to her. She asked me to come over to her place. I think she wants me to enter into some kind of relationship with her. She even asked if I had a girlfriend. She's very gorgeous and great company. Should I go ahead? Help! Vikram (24), Ludhiana

Should I send him nude pictures of me

Love and relationships
Q: My boyfriend is out of the country for work. He wants me to send him nude pictures of me. He says he misses me and wants to be with me in any way possible, so this request.