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Should I have phone sex with my ex?

Breaking up
Auntyji, my boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago but he calls every now and then and has phone sex with me. He says he doesn't love me anymore but I still love him and want him back. I am wondering if he is confused or if he's just after sex. Please clarify this for me, I keep thinking about him all the time. Nisha (22), Pune

Should I have sex with my boyfriend?

Virginity
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Since a few days, we've been talking about having sex. We really want to do it, but I don't know how to have sex and I'm also scared of getting pregnant.

Am I turning lesbian?

Sexual Orientation
Q: Auntyji, I am a straight girl – or so I thought. But these days I really like the company of girls more than boys. I recently met a girl I really like. We talk all the time, even about other girls – about how sweet or sexy they are.

I'm attracted to older men – is that ok?

Love and relationships
Q: I'm attracted to men who are about 10 years older than me. Whenever I try to date someone my age I find them too eager or boring. My present boyfriend is 12 years older than me. Am I a pervert to be attracted to older men? Sabiha (21), Coimbatore

Why doesn't he kiss me anymore?

Marriage troubles
Q: My husband and I have been married three years – it was a love marriage. We still have sex regularly, but he doesn't kiss me or look at me during sex. What’s wrong? Does he still love me? What do I do? Suhani (27), Ranchi

Why is she so quiet when we have sex?

Making Love
Q: Auntyji, when I perform oral sex on my girlfriend, or when we have intercourse, she doesn't make any sounds at all. I can feel from the way she moves that she enjoys it, but it does worry me that she doesn't make a sound. Sidhant, Meerut

Dumped after one-night stand - help me get over it!

Making Love
Q: Dear Auntyji, last week I had a one-night stand and the boy doesn’t want to stay in touch. I now feel unattractive and worthless. I feel as though I am not wanted any more. It's terrible. How can I get over this depression? Sanjana, Pune

Sex: is it different for girls?

Making Love
Q: Dear Auntyji, I am confused about how women feel about sex. Do women think about sex differently from men? Gurtej (18), Patiala

So drunk I don’t know if I had sex – what now?

Making Love
I may have had drunk sex at a party but I don’t remember anything. If it’s true, this was my first-time sex ever. What should I do? -- Geetika

I was molested – should I tell?

Sexual Harassment
A friend’s relative molested me. I feel ashamed and guilty and don’t know what to do. Palak, Faridabad.

Should I go for arranged marriage or love marriage, please help!

Thinking about Marriage
Q: I am 22 and want to get married. I am ready for both love marriage and arranged marriage. What do you think is better of the two? Hemant, Pune.

My parents won't accept her caste - now what?

Thinking about Marriage
I am in love with a girl who belongs to a lower caste. We really love each other but my parents will never approve our marriage. I am even scared to bring up this topic with them. I need your help Auntyji. Dipesh, Ghaziabad