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How can I get rid of wet dreams?

Male body
I am very ashamed of myself. I think I am a sex maniac. I keep having nightfalls. Seems like I am thinking of sex even while I am asleep. I am so embarrassed by these wet dreams. Can you help me? Anonymous (19), Meerut.

How can I make my wife interested in sex?

Marriage troubles
Auntyji, my wife is not really interested in sex. In fact, she is very distant with me. How can I convince her to have sex with me and be interested in me? Rahul (25), Baroda.

Is masturbation making my semen watery?

Male body
I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. Now I notice that my semen has become very watery and less in volume. Is it because of my old habit? What now? Will I be able to become a father or not? IK (28), New Delhi.

I’m homophobic – so what’s wrong with that?

Sexual Orientation
Q: I know I'm homophobic, but what can I do about it? It's a phobia, just like being scared of spiders. Gay people are just so disgusting, why do I need to like them? Vivek (27), Guwahati

We had sex without condoms, help!

Birth Control
Auntyji, my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. Now she missed her period. Are these early signs of pregnancy? It freaks me out. What will we do if she is...? Help me, and please take my query asap. Anil (21), Jabalpur.

My boss hits on me. What to do?

Sexual Harassment
My boss is hitting on me. He is a bit too attentive and compliments me way too much. I don’t like it but I’m afraid I’ll lose my job if I say something. My colleagues are beginning to notice but no one has said anything to me yet. Adiba (24), Gurgaon.

My BF wants to copy porn sex – what should I do?

Porn
These days my boyfriend has a new bug – he wants us to try stuff from porn films he watches. I am not sure I want to “copy” blue films, is it even possible?! Help me, I don’t want to lose my love over sex! Sonu (24), Secunderabad.

My ex now says he has HIV – am I infected?

STDs/STIs
My ex-boyfriend just told me that he may be HIV+. He said he was at risk before he met me. Now he wants to take a test. I should too, right? I am so worried, angry, confused and frankly a little afraid as well. SG (27), Delhi.

Should I use Tinder?

Meeting someone
I want to use this dating app called Tinder, but everyone has different points of view on it. Is there something wrong with online dating? What is your opinion? Uday (22), Alwar.

Is masturbation a bad habit?

Making Love
I have a bad habit – masturbation. My friends make fun of me. In fact, I think of sex all day and I feel like having sex with any girl I meet. Do I have a mental sickness? Dhruv (19), Jabalpur.

How do I get a girlfriend?

Meeting someone
I’m very sad. I don’t have a gf, I never had one. All my friends have girlfriends. I’ve begun wondering if something’s wrong with me. Help me find a gf. Bala (22), Chennai.

Is it OK to marry my cousin?

Thinking about Marriage
I am in love with my cousin, and he too loves me. We want to marry – is that OK? What about kids, will it affect them too? Please guide us Auntyji. Ginny (23) Raipur