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What is the right age to have children?

Unsure about being pregnant?
Auntyji, I am not sure if I am ready for a child. My husband, in-laws, parents and all relatives are pressuring me. Is there something like the right age to have a child? Karishma (24), Nagpur

Is there a right age to fall in love?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, I have been thinking about this woman day and night. I think I am in love with her. But I don’t know if I am old enough to fall in love. Anshul, New Delhi.

I have no orgasms with him – what should I do?

Orgasms
Q: I have amazing orgasms from masturbation but hardly ever with my boyfriend. We often have sex but I have had an orgasm only three times with him. He is very nice but I am not sexually satisfied. What should I do? Neha (22), Dehradun

My boyfriend blackmails me – what should I do?

Relationship problems
My boyfriend is a bit controlling towards me. He tends to emotionally blackmail me if I don't do what he wants me to do. I think it's not a big problem. But I thought I'll ask you anyway. Deepika (24), Bangalore.

How can I get rid of wet dreams?

Male body
I am very ashamed of myself. I think I am a sex maniac. I keep having nightfalls. Seems like I am thinking of sex even while I am asleep. I am so embarrassed by these wet dreams. Can you help me? Anonymous (19), Meerut.

How can I make my wife interested in sex?

Marriage troubles
Auntyji, my wife is not really interested in sex. In fact, she is very distant with me. How can I convince her to have sex with me and be interested in me? Rahul (25), Baroda.

Is masturbation making my semen watery?

Male body
I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. Now I notice that my semen has become very watery and less in volume. Is it because of my old habit? What now? Will I be able to become a father or not? IK (28), New Delhi.

I’m homophobic – so what’s wrong with that?

Sexual Orientation
Q: I know I'm homophobic, but what can I do about it? It's a phobia, just like being scared of spiders. Gay people are just so disgusting, why do I need to like them? Vivek (27), Guwahati

We had sex without condoms, help!

Birth Control
Auntyji, my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. Now she missed her period. Are these early signs of pregnancy? It freaks me out. What will we do if she is...? Help me, and please take my query asap. Anil (21), Jabalpur.

My boss hits on me. What to do?

Sexual Harassment
My boss is hitting on me. He is a bit too attentive and compliments me way too much. I don’t like it but I’m afraid I’ll lose my job if I say something. My colleagues are beginning to notice but no one has said anything to me yet. Adiba (24), Gurgaon.

My BF wants to copy porn sex – what should I do?

Porn
These days my boyfriend has a new bug – he wants us to try stuff from porn films he watches. I am not sure I want to “copy” blue films, is it even possible?! Help me, I don’t want to lose my love over sex! Sonu (24), Secunderabad.

My ex now says he has HIV – am I infected?

STDs/STIs
My ex-boyfriend just told me that he may be HIV+. He said he was at risk before he met me. Now he wants to take a test. I should too, right? I am so worried, angry, confused and frankly a little afraid as well. SG (27), Delhi.