Auntyji

Our horoscopes don't match, can we still marry?

My boyfriend and I love each other. But our parents aren’t agreeing to us getting married because our horoscopes don’t match. What should we do now? Minal (24), Agra.

Do pickles really go bad if touched during periods?

Hi Auntyji, we live in a modern world but every now and then I find myself battling over myths and taboos – periods mein achaar nahi choona and all that. Especially for girls, the list seems to be unending. It’s exhausting. Should I just give up? Gunjan, 21, Noida

As a girl, is it ok for me to seek information on sex?

Hi Auntyji, being a girl I feel very shy and uncomfortable to ask information on sex, body and things like that. I feel these things are not meant for girls. But I have many questions. What should I do? Poonam, 20 years, Indore.

I am too shy, will I ever get a girlfriend?

Hi Auntyji.. I am quite chatty in general but get tongue-tied in front of girls. I am clueless about how to start a conversation. Can you please help? Raghav, New Delhi, 22 years

How do I tell my partner I find all the love-dovey acts exhausting?

Hi Auntyji, my partner demands a lot of gestures of care and love and says it is important for our sexual intimacy. But I find them exhausting. Are they really that necessary?

My gf is not a virgin. Help!

Hello Auntyji, I can’t get it out of my mind that my girlfriend is not a virgin. What should I do? Raghav, 24 years, Indore.

My gf is getting married. What should I do?

Hi Auntyji, my girlfriend is getting married. I am devastated and can’t believe it is actually happening. What can I do? Ashutosh, 23, Allahabad.

How can I ask my bf to give me orgasms?

Hi Auntyji, my boyfriend seems disinterested in working towards my orgasms. He says it's too time consuming! I feel a little let down... what can I do? Divya, 23 years, Kolkata.

Should I allow my GF to access sexual health info online?

'Hi Auntyji, I often post questions on sexual health forums on my girlfriend's behalf. I feel these websites, though useful, are not really appropriate or safe for girls. But she now insists on accessing information herself. What should I do?’ Prateek, 25, Indore.

My GF is seeing someone else. What should I do?

Hello Auntyji, I found mushy messages from another guy on my girlfriend's phone. She says he is just a good colleague. But she talks to him quite a lot. I know something is going on. I am heartbroken, but I can't leave her. What should I do? Saurabh, 25, Bareilly.

Morning-after pills instead of condoms – is that OK?

Hi Auntyji. My boyfriend has stopped using condoms – says sex is more fun without them. But he ensures that I use emergency contraceptive pills (ECP) for protection. But it is now impacting my periods. What should I do? Mona, 24, Jalandhar.

My bf tracks everything I do

Auntyji, my bf is so nice and supportive, but he calls me so much. He always asks me so many questions – though he never stops me from doing anything I want. So I am a bit confused actually. Kaveri, 21, Chandigarh