Aunty Ji
Love Matters India

Is masturbation unhealthy?

By Auntyji Thursday, November 2, 2017 - 14:10
Hi Auntyji, I masturbate and I get to hear of all kinds of side effects... Is masturbation really harmful to men's health? Cherian, 22 years, Mumbai.

Auntyji says…’Cherian puttar, it’s a question that a lot of puttars ask me very regularly. Aaj Auntyji will answer one and all!

List them out

Chalo, let’s begin by making a list of what all possible side effects masturbation is SUPPOSED to cause.  I can assure you it won’t be a complete list because every time we are ready to close the list one, few new myths get added  – ranging from blindness to skin problems to knee problems, to feet becoming flat. It also includes mental health problems, hair fall, loss of hearing and of course exhausting of your sperms. What else? There is tedha penis, chota penis, losing sex desire, too much desire, impotency, early discharge, no discharge too on the list! It is quite exhaustive, I tell you, but no – the list is not even a fraction of all the alleged side effects of this one activity.

It’s natural and normal

Cherian beta, today I solemnly swear, that masturbation can cause any of the above? Masturbation – be it for men or women – is a safe and simple method of fulfilling sexual desire. People engage in it for years – even when they have partners. In fact, mutual masturbation is very recommended to get to know your partner’s body better.  

Feeding on guilt

Actually betaji, all of us at some point have had some kind of guilt associated with sex  – that sex is bad and sexual pleasure is just terrible. So when you do something to get that pleasure you feel so bad and so guilty that you begin to imagine all kinds of 'bad' things are going to happen to you. Saath hee saath these myths have been propounded exactly to play on that very same emotion – fear and guilt –  to prevent us from indulging in the 'bad'. But the body has a mind of its own. It seeks l, desire, and pleasure satisfaction – and there is nothing wrong with. Nothing! If we look at this activity as a part of loving and knowing our body, enjoying and cherishing what we desire you will be much more relaxed, much more at ease with no anatardwandh going on in your head and heart – making you worry and perhaps that’s the cause of half the 'side effects' as you call them.

Eternal question

So Cherian, just relax and please no more confusion! Beta, do you know, I have been answering this question on our website Love Matters for six years and many years before that too. So if any of this were true, at least half the men in the country (I say men, because ek aur myth yeh hai ki girls cant masturbate) would be, at least – blind, impotent, mentally unstable, have skin problems, walk oddly, perhaps have a small and crooked penis and or lose total interest in sex! Ab bolo! Aayi na hansi? Keep laughing and trash these myths – starting now!

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Comments
There’s no one way that one can prescribe dude!! All I can say is just don’t fuss about it, keep yourself busy and calm and well do other things as well, such as going out, some sports etc… so chill dude. I hope you know, there is no big deal about masturbation, it’s not a sin or a crime, so take it easy. https://lovematters.in/en/news/masturbation-harmful https://lovematters.in/en/news/masturbation-bad-habit https://lovematters.in/en/resorce/men-masturbating If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Kya aap hastmaithun ki baat kar rahe hain, Upendra beta? Hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. Jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere ' Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sorry, Deeparam bete. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika maujood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Relax, Anuj! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness. But there are many other activities where you can spend or utilize your time such as sports, games or pursue your hobbies. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/masturbation-harmful https://lovematters.in/en/news/masturbation-bad-habit If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sbbier shik
Sun, 11/26/2017 - 11:22
Dear aanti Mira ling B-Day kerna hai Meridian visit journey Santos nhi milta Broda
Sorry, bete. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika maujood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz achchha karo unke saath time bithao. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. Jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Relax! Jaldi viryapaat hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. Toh sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer mein uttejna adhik ho, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheegra hi patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisi stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani bete ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaen karna , jinse dono ko anand mile, apne partner ki uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Namaste aunty g mai ik bhabhi se bina condom ke sex krna chahta hu..to koi problem ni hogi bhabhi sirf apne husband se hisex krti hai.mere sath bina condom ke krna chahti hai.mai karo ya na btao...
Namaste, Steven beta. Bina condom ke sex karna apne aap mein ek safe idea bilkul bhi nahi hai. Isse anchahe garbh ke saath kai youn rog hone kaa bhi khatra ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rajan shukla
Tue, 05/01/2018 - 12:42
Namesty Aunti ji Sperm kitne din me banta hai or aise kya cheez khaaye jo ghar me bhi uplabdh ho or bahut shukranu bhi bante rahen jaldi or hastmaithun bhi hota rahen
Namestey, Rajan beta! Aapko is vishay mein chinta karne ki zaroorat nahi. Shareer virya apne aap bana leta hain. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Yeh ek vyaktigat nirnay hain, beta. Jab tak aap apni zindagi ke baaki kaamo ko sahi samah de paa rahe hain, isme koi problem nahi hain. Hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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