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My GF is seeing someone else. What should I do?

Relationship problems
Hello Auntyji, I found mushy messages from another guy on my girlfriend's phone. She says he is just a good colleague. But she talks to him quite a lot. I know something is going on. I am heartbroken, but I can't leave her. What should I do? Saurabh, 25, Bareilly.

Morning-after pills instead of condoms – is that OK?

Choosing the right birth control
Hi Auntyji. My boyfriend has stopped using condoms – says sex is more fun without them. But he ensures that I use emergency contraceptive pills (ECP) for protection. But it is now impacting my periods. What should I do? Mona, 24, Jalandhar.

My bf tracks everything I do

Relationship problems
Auntyji, my bf is so nice and supportive, but he calls me so much. He always asks me so many questions – though he never stops me from doing anything I want. So I am a bit confused actually. Kaveri, 21, Chandigarh

How can I tell my bf his love is too much?

Relationship problems
My boyfriend is really a great guy but these days he has taken to 'surprising’ me – like showing up at office with an auto full of flowers, popping up when I am out with friends, landing at my dance class. Everyone envies me, but I don’t like it. What do I do? Kaveri, 25, Bangalore.

My friend says he's gay – does it change things?

Sexual Orientation
Auntyji, one of my friends in college recently confessed that he is gay. Ever since then, everyone has been ignoring him. I am also a bit awkward and shocked. How does it change anything? Ajay (25), Mumbai.

We can’t have a baby – help!

Before Pregnancy
My husband and I have been trying to have a baby since long but we haven’t succeeded. Do you think we should do some tests? What if I get blamed? Shoma (26), Kolkata.

In love with my Bhabhi – what should I do?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, my brother got married two years ago and now I am totally mad about my sister-in-law. I think she likes me too. What should I do? I am so nervous. Sam (23), Ajmer.

How can I persuade my boyfriend to have a threesome?

Making Love
Auntyji, I really want to try a threesome but my partner is totally against it. How can I convince him? It’s becoming a big issue between us. Kehkashan (23), Gurgaon.

How can I change my gender?

Gender Diversity
Auntyji, I was born with male body parts but I am attracted to boys. I don't feel like a boy or a man. I want to be and live like other girls. What should I do? Ajit (22), Gurgaon.

I'm so lonely, how can I stay faithful?

Marriage troubles
Auntyji, my husband is in the army. He is posted at the border. I live alone and it is killing me. I don’t want to cheat on him. Please help! Smita (26), New Delhi.

How can my friend forget about her Khatna?

Female body
Auntyji, my best friend informed me that she was cut when she was young. She feels hurt now and wants to forget about her Khatna. Please help us! Sara (26), Bhuj.

Will my friends judge me for talking about sex?

Making Love
I find sex really pleasurable and have sexual fantasies. But I cannot discuss it openly with my friends. I think they'll judge me for being too sexual. Prachi (24) Indore