Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Morning-after pills instead of condoms – is that OK?

Hi Auntyji. My boyfriend has stopped using condoms – says sex is more fun without them. But he ensures that I use emergency contraceptive pills (ECP) for protection. But it is now impacting my periods. What should I do? Mona, 24, Jalandhar.

My bf tracks everything I do

Auntyji, my bf is so nice and supportive, but he calls me so much. He always asks me so many questions – though he never stops me from doing anything I want. So I am a bit confused actually. Kaveri, 21, Chandigarh

How can I tell my bf his love is too much?

My boyfriend is really a great guy but these days he has taken to 'surprising’ me – like showing up at office with an auto full of flowers, popping up when I am out with friends, landing at my dance class. Everyone envies me, but I don’t like it. What do I do? Kaveri, 25, Bangalore.

We can’t have a baby – help!

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby since long but we haven’t succeeded. Do you think we should do some tests? What if I get blamed? Shoma (26), Kolkata.

In love with my Bhabhi – what should I do?

Auntyji, my brother got married two years ago and now I am totally mad about my sister-in-law. I think she likes me too. What should I do? I am so nervous. Sam (23), Ajmer.

How can I persuade my boyfriend to have a threesome?

Auntyji, I really want to try a threesome but my partner is totally against it. How can I convince him? It’s becoming a big issue between us. Kehkashan (23), Gurgaon.

How can I change my gender?

Auntyji, I was born with male body parts but I am attracted to boys. I don't feel like a boy or a man. I want to be and live like other girls. What should I do? Ajit (22), Gurgaon.

I'm so lonely, how can I stay faithful?

Auntyji, my husband is in the army. He is posted at the border. I live alone and it is killing me. I don’t want to cheat on him. Please help! Smita (26), New Delhi.

How can my friend forget about her Khatna?

Auntyji, my best friend informed me that she was cut when she was young. She feels hurt now and wants to forget about her Khatna. Please help us! Sara (26), Bhuj.

Will my friends judge me for talking about sex?

I find sex really pleasurable and have sexual fantasies. But I cannot discuss it openly with my friends. I think they'll judge me for being too sexual. Prachi (24) Indore

My wife’s period is late, but I’m not ready for kids – help!

Auntyji, my wife’s periods are delayed. I don’t want a child yet. I am just not ready for many reasons. Please help as soon as you read this. Senthil, (25), Panjim.

How can I quit being a sex worker?

Auntyji, I am a sex worker. I do it to support my family but I’ve begun feeling terrible. I want to quit this and find a proper job. Please help! Sheela (19), Orissa.