Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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How can I quit being a sex worker?

Auntyji, I am a sex worker. I do it to support my family but I’ve begun feeling terrible. I want to quit this and find a proper job. Please help! Sheela (19), Orissa.

Is it okay for girls to masturbate?

Auntyji, I have heard from many people that girls who masturbate are dirty. But I like to masturbate, it makes me feel good. What should I do? Jeju (20), Allahabad.

Why can't I have intercourse with my girlfriend?

Auntyji, I enjoy foreplay a lot but cannot have intercourse with my girl. When the right time comes, I simply back out. What’s wrong with me? Natraj (23), Jaipur.

My fiancé wants me tested for HIV – should I agree?

Auntyji, I am getting married. My fiancé has asked me to get tested for HIV. He says everyone should get it done before marriage. I am too shocked. Riya (23), Orrisa.

In love with my married friend - should I tell him?

Auntyji, I began chatting with my ex-classmate recently and have developed feelings for him. He is married and belongs to Muslim religion. Should I confess my love to him? Alice (26), Aligarh.

Is it OK to have sex without being in love?

Is it wrong to have sex without being in love? I like a girl and we’ve had sex a couple of times but I feel guilty and judged. Please help! Tushar (23), Kolkata

I look ugly, please help me!

Auntyji, I just hate my body. I am neither fat nor skinny but I look ugly. I have stopped going out or talking to anyone. Please help! Raman (22), Ludhiana.

Are all women insensitive and selfish?

Auntyji, my gf dumped me recently. She has no remorse about it. Do women like to use boys and throw them away when they are bored? It's hurtful. Ravi (24), Kanpur.

I love porn but can't get a real-life a girlfriend – help!

Auntyji, I’ve never had a girlfriend. I get excited after watching porn but I can’t approach or talk to any girl in real life. What’s wrong? Mayank (24), Mumbai.

Why am I so mean to my boyfriend?

Auntyji, I often hurt my boyfriend and later feel sorry. He is very understanding but I tend to lose my temper over silly things. Am I an awful person? Joy (21), Pune

Why can't I fall in love?

Auntyji, I cannot fall in love. My friends who are in love make me feel miserable. I feel very lonely all the time. Please help! Navraj (22), Cochin.

My breasts are too big!

Auntyji, my breasts are too huge. I can’t handle all the attention they get. I also can’t wear what I like. Is surgery the only option? Hadia (23), Secunderabad.