Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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I'm bored of sex – what should I do?

Auntyji, I’ve been sexually active with my bf and another girl since I was 19. I’ve had too much sex. Honestly, I am bored of it. Should I be worried? Gargi (26), Goa

Are my in-laws demanding dowry?

Auntyji, my boyfriend and I had a very simple wedding recently. Now my in-laws have started complaining about money. Are they expecting dowry? Seema (24), Haryana.

My ex behaves like we’re still dating

My bf and I broke up about eight months ago. We are still friends, but I get the feeling he wants to be together again. How can I ask him to step back without hurting him? Gia (24), Patna.

Can morning after pills make me infertile?

I am getting married soon. Earlier, I have used morning after pills regularly. Now I am worried about complications with conceiving. Please help! Ratna (24), Jaipur

I’m lesbian, how do I come out to my parents?

Auntyji, I am lesbian. I want to come out to my parents and friends but I am scared of their reaction. What if they are homophobic? Please help! Natasha (19), Mumbai

My gf makes me insecure about my body - help please!

Auntyji, my gf keeps on talking about fair and muscular guys. I am neither very fair nor muscular. I feel very insecure. Please help! Andrew (24), Dhanbad.

Huge penis, painful sex: What’s the way out?

Auntyji, my boyfriend has a huge penis and it hurts a lot during sex. I hate saying no to him every time. Is there a way out? Please help! Meeta (24), Delhi.

My vagina is so dark - is that a problem?

Auntyji, I am insecure about the skin colour of my vagina. It is a bit too dark and I think my boyfriend will not like it. Is there something I can do to improve it? Rashmi (23), Allahabad

Should we try sex toys to spice things up?

Auntyji, we want to make our boring sex life exciting. Should we try using a sex toy? We haven’t used any yet, please guide us! Vishnu and Tanya, (25), Kolkata.

Will avoiding sex make my sperm stronger?

Auntyji, my wife and I want to have a child soon. Should I avoid sex or masturbation to preserve my sperm? Will it increase my sperm count? Please advise. Atik (25), Agra.

My uncle sexually abused me when I was young!

When I was young, my uncle sexually abused me. I didn’t speak a word about it back then. He’s visiting us after a long time now and I want to scream at him. Help me! Mini (21), Manali.

I am not interested in having sex!

Auntyji, everyone around me keeps talking about sex but I am hardly interested in it. Is something wrong with me? Mangal (23), Indore.