Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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I love porn but can't get a real-life a girlfriend – help!

Auntyji, I’ve never had a girlfriend. I get excited after watching porn but I can’t approach or talk to any girl in real life. What’s wrong? Mayank (24), Mumbai.

Why am I so mean to my boyfriend?

Auntyji, I often hurt my boyfriend and later feel sorry. He is very understanding but I tend to lose my temper over silly things. Am I an awful person? Joy (21), Pune

Why can't I fall in love?

Auntyji, I cannot fall in love. My friends who are in love make me feel miserable. I feel very lonely all the time. Please help! Navraj (22), Cochin.

My breasts are too big!

Auntyji, my breasts are too huge. I can’t handle all the attention they get. I also can’t wear what I like. Is surgery the only option? Hadia (23), Secunderabad.

I'm bored of sex – what should I do?

Auntyji, I’ve been sexually active with my bf and another girl since I was 19. I’ve had too much sex. Honestly, I am bored of it. Should I be worried? Gargi (26), Goa

Are my in-laws demanding dowry?

Auntyji, my boyfriend and I had a very simple wedding recently. Now my in-laws have started complaining about money. Are they expecting dowry? Seema (24), Haryana.

My ex behaves like we’re still dating

My bf and I broke up about eight months ago. We are still friends, but I get the feeling he wants to be together again. How can I ask him to step back without hurting him? Gia (24), Patna.

Can morning after pills make me infertile?

I am getting married soon. Earlier, I have used morning after pills regularly. Now I am worried about complications with conceiving. Please help! Ratna (24), Jaipur

I’m lesbian, how do I come out to my parents?

Auntyji, I am lesbian. I want to come out to my parents and friends but I am scared of their reaction. What if they are homophobic? Please help! Natasha (19), Mumbai

My gf makes me insecure about my body - help please!

Auntyji, my gf keeps on talking about fair and muscular guys. I am neither very fair nor muscular. I feel very insecure. Please help! Andrew (24), Dhanbad.

Huge penis, painful sex: What’s the way out?

Auntyji, my boyfriend has a huge penis and it hurts a lot during sex. I hate saying no to him every time. Is there a way out? Please help! Meeta (24), Delhi.

My vagina is so dark - is that a problem?

Auntyji, I am insecure about the skin colour of my vagina. It is a bit too dark and I think my boyfriend will not like it. Is there something I can do to improve it? Rashmi (23), Allahabad