Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Daily harassment on the bus: What should I do?

Hi Aunty ji, I go to college in a bus and every now and then I get pinched, touched inappropriately or ogled at. I am fed up but don't know what to do. Please help! Neha, 19, Delhi.

Is moving in with my BF a good idea?

Hi Auntyji, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we are considering moving in together. Do you think it’s a good idea? Avani, 24, Lucknow.

Friend vs boyfriend. How do I get the balance right?

Hi Auntyji, I have just started dating and I really like this guy. But it leaves me with no time for my friends. How do I get the right balance? Pallavi,18, Managalore.

My gf wants to have sex, I don’t!

Hi Auntyji, my girlfriend wants us to have sex but I don’t feel ready – emotionally and physically. What should I do? Keshav, 23, Noida.

I have made out a bit with my bf, can we go the full way now?

Hi Auntyji, I am in Class X and my boyfriend is in class XI. We have made out a bit. Can we go the full way? Vinu, XYZ.

How can I make my crush fall in love with me?

Hi Auntyji, I have a huge crush on a guy in my class. How can I make him fall for me? Can you give me some tips! Pari, 18, Bhavnagar.

I love girls but how do I find the one who loves me?

Hi Auntyji, I am attracted to women. But I don't know how to approach other women because I don’t know who may be interested in me and who not? I don’t want to embarrass myself. Akriti, 19, Jaipur.

My husband wants a baby, I don’t: what should we do?

Hi Auntyji, I have recently had two miscarriages. After being through much pain, I really do not want to have a child anymore. But my husband really wants one. I feel bad for not wanting to fulfill his desire. Gunjeet, 24, Jalandhar.

Can I date an HIV+ person?

Auntyji, I’ve been dating a girl. We get on really well and it’s almost reached that next level. But I have just found out that her ex was HIV+. I am terrified now. What if she is too? Can I really continue in this relationship? Samarth, 24 , Mumbai.

My husband is a sex addict. Help!

My husband is a sex addict and asks me to do acts that also hurt me physically. I am unable to talk to anyone about this. What should I do? ABC from XYZ.

My bf wants us to have sex but I am not ready!

Hi Auntyji. My boyfriend has been trying to convince me to get physical. But I don’t feel quite ready yet. I can see he is beginning to get irritable. What should I do? Meena, 19, Jaipur.

Is masturbation unhealthy?

Hi Auntyji, I masturbate and I get to hear of all kinds of side effects... Is masturbation really harmful to men's health? Cherian, 22 years, Mumbai.