Auntyji

She has pain when we have sex – how can I help?

I got married a few days ago. My wife and I have tried having sex but she experiences a lot of pain. What can I do to help her? I don't want sex to be painful for her. What should I do? Amar, Varanasi

Should I worry about my small penis?

Q: I have a very small penis. I want to get married but I am worried that I won't be able to satisfy my future wife. I don't know what to do to make my penis thicker. I am very nervous. Please help me, Auntyji. – Sameer, Agra.

I need sex! Am I wrong to cheat on my wife?

Q: I am 47 years old and I always feel sex starved. I want to have sex all day long but my wife is not able to satisfy me. For this reason, I have sexual relationships with two other women. Am I wrong? Ajay, Meerut

How can I please my wife in bed?

Auntyji, I love my wife very much and find her very attractive, but she doesn’t respond when I try to arouse her. Mostly she puts off having sex and when we do, she doesn’t seem to enjoy it. What can I do? Nitin, Noida

Will I break her hymen if I finger her?

Q: My girlfriend wants me to finger her vagina – will it break her hymen? She also wants me to insert it deep inside. Is there any way I can prevent her hymen from breaking? Ravi, Ahmedabad.

Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

Wedding night sex - what about contraception?

On our wedding night we want to have sex without using a condom. But at the same time she shouldn't get pregnant. What should we do Auntyji? Arun, Pune. Helloji Arun puttar! Good you want to take an informed decision on birth control from the start.

He kisses with his eyes open – is that normal?

My boyfriend kisses with his eyes wide open – should I be worried Auntyji? They say you should never trust anyone who does that. Mehak, Ahmadabad.

Can masturbating make me sick?

I’m 18 and I masturbate at least once a day. I’ve been told this is an illness. One friend warned me that if I carry on I won’t be able to satisfy a woman. I feel worried and guilty but I can't help myself! Nishant, Hyderabad

Her breasts are different sizes – should I worry?

My partner-to-be told me yesterday that her breasts are of different sizes – what should I do? I want to continue the relationship, and actually it doesn’t matter. But she said, ‘they are really different sizes’. Please help me. Hanif, Ghaziabad

Will my boyfriend turn violent?

Q: Will my boyfriend turn violent like his father was? He tells me he saw his father beating his mother throughout his childhood. I’m scared that someday he might turn into the kind of abusive person his father was. Help me Auntyji. Radha, Pune

In love with my best friend – now what?

Q: I am in love with one of my very close friends. But he does not have the same feelings for me. What should I do Aunty? Shruti, Patna