Aunty Ji
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My vagina is so dark - is that a problem?

By Auntyji Tuesday, April 26, 2016 - 19:24
Auntyji, I am insecure about the skin colour of my vagina. It is a bit too dark and I think my boyfriend will not like it. Is there something I can do to improve it? Rashmi (23), Allahabad

Auntyji says Oye Rashmi, who is planting these ideas in your head? Beta, do you know who is making you feel this way? 

Fair and square 

Sabse pehlaan betayou are very  pretty and lovely and every part of you is equally pretty and lovely. It does not have to be fair and lovely, samjhe puttar? So here is your first job of the day and that is to love everything about yourself, to accept everything about yourself, the good, the bad and the really not so uglysamjhee? You are just fine as you are. Now time for some facts, roughly told. 

Manufactures’ note 

Rashmi, ethnically we have darker pigmentation. Basically the dye in our skin is darker than other ethnicities and some ethnicities are darker than us. Your skin colour may be very fair and light but the dye is dark and it will emerge somewhere or the other.  

Some of this is due to increased pigmentation, which is more obvious around the genitals, nipples, lips, underarms, elbows and thighs. Some of it can be the result of increased blood flow to the blood vessels in that area.  

There is not much you can do about it, my dear, it is in our manufacturing. For most of us, the skin colour around our genital area is darker than the rest of the body. For example if white looks pinkhai toh woh dark hee na?  

Not really a partner-pact 

Ab yeh baat ki where do  girls get these ideas from? What makes you feel so bad about your own skin colour? What makes you feel that if you have a fair vagina, you will have a better relationship? Or a better sex life? Do you think life in general will look much better? 

Let me tell you dear, none of the above is true! All these ideas of beauty and sexiness are gimmicks. They are filled into your head to make you buy products and conform to standards set by erotic appeal. They are nothing but silly comparisons with what is generally considered sexy and hotYou are made to feel bad about yourself, you lose self confidence and bas, there goes your negotiation and your power. Very chaluno 

Unfair demands 

I have a question for all these boyfriends and lovers. Bhai yeh bata can an orange give tomato juice? Can a cola be an orange? Nahin na? So please manage your expectations, kindly! And more than that, you gentlemen should not be making demands based on what you see in porn films. Imagine what will happen if women begin to do the same?  
You know, there can be pressing demands for say bigger sizes, longer durations and fairer tools of the trade – also known as penis. Ready to match up to the “Aao saamnetera bhi size hai dus mahiyaa?” You know which size we are talking about here? Phir na kehna, it’s a totally najiayzz demand. 

Package deal 

Ladies, last advice, don’t get talked into anything. Do you know what kind of crazy demands and deals people can come up withMy vagina smells, so lets get a vaginal deodorant! My vagina is too loose, so let me get vaginal rejuvenation! My vagina tastes bad, so lets get vaginal mints! Are we ever going to stop this kind of pressure on ourselves? Love me, love my 'cat'!

To protect the privacy of the author, the person in the picture is a model.

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Kamal Tiwari
Wed, 04/27/2016 - 22:00
Aunty ji , I m just 19 years old and my sperm count is very very less and my penis is little bent and is thin . In sab problem se kaise bchu..
Dear Kamal, who told you your sperm count is less? If assuming on the basis of semen, let me assure you that thickness or wateriness of semen is not something to worry about... For curvature of penis, worry not, its very common, just read this: Sorry to say there's no way to increase the girth or length of a penis. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask”
Dear Prince, you can't decide on your own if your penis is small or not. It won't be right if to do so, either. Sorry to say there's a no existing way to enlarge the size of a penis. Read these for more information: If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask”
Bete Jab hastmethun se koi nuksaan hee nahi hai toh isse chodna kyun? Hastmaithun rokne ka koi jadui nuskha toh hamare paas nhi h. Main toh yahi keh sakti hu ki doosre kaaryon main dhyaan lagao,aisi bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Zyaada chinta mat kijiye, hastmaithun ek surakshit tareeka h khud ko santusht karne ka, aur isse koi nuksaan nhi hota.. Yaha padhiye: Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon!
aunty ji! sabse pahle aap girls ki har probs me boys ko blame mat dijiye. is ques me bhi puchne wale ne apna opinion rakha hai na ki usse aisa kiso ne kaha hai jaisa ki ques me likha hai ... agar aapko lagta hai ki aisi things kisi boy k kahne par hi kisi girl k mind me aati hai to aapko boys k apni tarh k ques me girls ko bhi mention krna chahiye... kyunki as per u aisa bhi ho sakta h ki agar kisi boy ko apne size ko lekar tension hai to ho sakta hai uske mann me ye thnking uski gf ya koi bji girls ki wajh se aaya ho. main aapko itna hi kahna chahta hun ki aap one sided attached ho kar ans na karein... baaki aapki advise best hai har ques k liye. thankx n srry for over spoken.
Puttar - bilkul sahi!! Bilkul sahi kaha tumne ki hume dono tarf ki baat rakhni chhaiye - aur yeh baat bhi sahi hai ki hum yeh kartey chale aa rahe hain - hum kabhi bhi mardon ya ladko ke Khilaaf baat nahin rakhtey - humare liye dono gender ek hain. Yahan samasya yeh hai ki kyunki yeh dharna ki ladki ki yoni saaf-safed honi chhaiye - bahut baar ladkon ki tarf se ""demand"" ke taur pe aati hai - is liye , is jawab ka jhkaav is tarf hai. aap poochenege ki yeh kyun? Kyunki isme ladko ki bhi galti nahin - unhe apni jaankari porn aur blue filmon se miltee hain - jahan yeh hee darshaya jaata hai. Definately - ladikiya mardon ke man mein size ko le kar comment kar saktee hain - aur kartee bhi hain. phark yeh hai - ki ladkon ko yeh lagta hai - ki yadi size bada hoga to sex bhi badhiya hoga - aap keh saktey hain yeh bhi ek dhaarna hai - aur dhaarnayein to jageh jageh se ban saktee hain - ha na?! Likhne ke liye , Dhanyawad
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