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When to have sex to get pregnant

If you are trying to conceive, you might be aware about the term ovulation. It is THAT time of the month when the females are most fertile. Having sex at this time of the female’s mentrual cycle can lead to pregnancy. Let’s find out what is the best way to check if you are ovulating.

What is ovulation?

Let’s start at the start. When females are born, they have about one to two million eggs in their bodies. After they attain puberty -- that usually happens between the ages of 10 and 15 years – the monthly menstrual cycles begin and continue until menopause around the age of 45-50 years. 

The first day of the menstrual cycle is the first day of the period, and the last day of the menstrual cycle is the day before the next period begins. This span of a menstrual cycle is usually 28 days (but cycles that are regular but shorter or longer than 28 days, say 21 days or 40 days, are also normal). 

Ovulation occurs each month around the mid-point of this menstrual cycle. Ovulation is part of a woman’s menstrual cycle when her body ovulates, meaning the ovaries release an egg (or more than one egg) that’s ready to be let out into the fallopian tubes. It is THAT time of the month when the females are most fertile. Having sex at this time of the female’s mentrual cycle can lead to pregnancy. Let’s find out what is the best way to check if you are ovulating. 

How to know when I’ll ovulate/Symptoms 

  1. Body Temperature: The body undergoes some changes during ovulation. There's a small rise in body temperature after ovulation takes place. This is caused by the increase in the hormone progesterone. 

Mapping the body temperature with a basal thermometer (bought from a medical store) each morning before getting out of bed can help tell if ovulation is around. This method is not too accurate though. For the release of eggs from the ovary, luteinizing hormone or LH hormone is responsible and its levels in the body surge about three days before ovulation happens. 

  1. Cervical mucus method: Cervical mucus is that part of the vaginal discharge that deposits on the crotch of underwear. The main purpose of cervical mucus is to either to prevent things from entering the uterus through the cervix or to provide nourishment and help move the sperm through the cervix into the uterus. It is secreted by glands found in and around the cervix. 

The consistency of the cervical mucus (part of the vaginal discharge) changes consistency through all phases of the menstrual cycle. Cervical mucus  becomes clear, watery, stretchy, and slippery; and is often compared to the texture of raw egg whites, which helps the sperm to move up towards the ovum (female eggs). 

Tracking the texture of this discharge helps knowing when ovulation is happening, and is known as the cervical mucus method.

  1. Ovulation Kits: Just like home pregnancy kits, home testing ovulation kits are available at the pharmacies. These kits check the LH levels in urine and tell the time of ovulation. This is a convenient and highly accurate method, possible by getting an ovulation kit from a medical store. 

However, if you have a condition called polycystic ovarian syndrome or disease (PCOS/PCOD), you may get multiple positive results, even if you aren’t ovulating, making the kits useless.

  1. Apps and Websites: There are also apps and websites that track your ovulation by asking for some personal details and dates about the body and its menstrual cycles. Through this, they predict when ovulation is likely to happen for a certain person. Through tracking of the ovulation cycle for a while, one can know around which day of the menstrual cycle their ovulation usually happens, or know their ovulation calendar.

Other symptoms of ovulation: 

Some young women experience changes when they are ovulating like:

  • a brief pain or dull ache felt on one side of the abdomen
  • slight cramping or pain on the left side of pelvis/abdomen
  • an increased desire for sex
  • a bloated abdomen
  • a keener sense of vision, smell, or taste
  • light spotting 
  • breast tenderness 

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Angeli dear please consult a specialist or a registered doctor about it and follow his/ her instructions. For pregnancy tips read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bashir bete read here about it: https://www.babycentre.co.uk/ovulation-calculator https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/ovulation-calendar-how-to-calculate-ovulation If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I became pregnant in February 2021 and I miscarried in June 2021,ever since ive been trying to get pregnant but nothing I've been tracking my cycle and all that, few weeks I just found out that I have fibroids but the doctor told me not to worry because they small and they outside my uterus,what can i do i want a baby so bad.
Dear don't worry! You already met with a registered doctor, please follow the instructions of his/her. You can try with the instructions of registered doctor and as well as when you feel ready for it and of course not sufferings from any kind of problem or pain. Read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/en/pregnancy/being-pregnant/if-you-have-a-miscarriage If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Farida bete please consult a specialist or a registered doctor about it and follow his/ her instructions. For pregnancy tips read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear periods are irregular when they start, but if it is irregular every month, please consult a specialist or a registered doctor soon. Read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/menstrual-cycle https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/my-periods-are-irregular-what-should-i-do And share also about your pregnancy problem to registered doctor. For Pregnancy tips read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mummy twins
Tue, 09/20/2022 - 01:15
Am answering mummy twins cos am wishing myself good wish.my 1st son is 6 and i hv nt gotten another one,i hv gone for test nd scan,am afraid if i can still take in.
Don't be afraid dear!! Please consult a specialist or a registered doctor about it and follow his/ her instructions. All the best!! For pregnancy tips read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear Zinny to get the more "fertile" dates - you can use a Ovulation Calculator to measure the dates, read here: https://www.babycentre.co.uk/ovulation-calculator  https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/ovulation-calendar-how-to-calculate-ovulation If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear that is a very sad situation, but don’t worry. The thing is perhaps you need to ask her about what she likes and enjoys in sex… what she is missing and what she wants in sex. The other thing is you may want to check how comfortable she is how relaxed and is she has any fears around having sex. Also ensure she has no infection or discomfort in and around her vagina, which could also be the problem. Get to know her body better, talk to her and find out what she is looking for. I hope this helps. https://lovematters.in/en/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear if the sex was unsafe take a home pregnancy test, ten days after unprotected sex. Morning urine is best for samples for it. If the result becomes positive, then consult a registered doctor and see what can be done. Also, you can contact FPAI clinic information about which you can get at their website. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts https://www.fpaindia.org/ If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I saw my period last month and finish it earlier this month but am expecting to see it ending of this month but nothing show up it's that mean and pregnant or not because am not seeing in signs here
Dear Mercy generally period happens between 28 to 34 days in a month. Read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/menstrual-cycle But if there has been any unsafe sex before, and you want to check - do a home pregnancy test - after 10 days of this act... and then NEVER have sex without a condom. Ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/unsafe-sex-missed-period-am-i-pregnant If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear did you feel any kind of problem in conceiving? And did you consulted a doctor yet? Consult a specialist or a registered doctor about it. For Pregnancy tips read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear Laura did you consulted a doctor yet? Consult a specialist or a registered doctor about it. For Pregnancy tips read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear Eliz these are not conclusive signs of any sort for pregnancy. Symptoms don’t come so soon anyway. It’s perhaps fear and nervousness more than anything else, consult a registered doctor about it. But, if the sex was unsafe and you want to be sure - do a home pregnancy test - after 10 days of this act... and then NEVER have sex without a condom. Ok?  https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear Sasie Periods are too late, because of hormonal changes, stress, tension etc. also, but, if there has been any unsafe sex before, it would be wise for her to take a home pregnancy test. Do this, soon. Also consult a specialist or registered doctor at the earliest. Read here also: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/menstrual-cycle https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/my-periods-are-irregular-what-should-i-do https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear we can understand your feelings! Did you consulted a doctor yet? Hope you are in the regular consult with a specialist or a registered doctor about it, please follow his/her instructions. Our best wishes to you! For Pregnancy tips read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/pregnancy If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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