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योनी का छेद: यह क्या है?

पूरी दुनिया में महिलाओं की कुंआरीपन को उनकी योनी के छेद से जोड़कर देखा जैता है। अलग-अलग देश, संस्कृति या धर्म में इस बारे में लोगों के अलग-अलग विचार और राय हैं।

कभी-कभी यह तय करना मुश्किल हो सकता है कि हम क्या सोंचे। पीढ़ियों से इस बारे में कहानियां पारित होती रही हैं – कुछ सही तो कुछ गलत। यहाँ आपको कुंआरीपन पर कुछ सामान्य प्रश्न और मिथक मिलेंगे।

लेकिन सबसे पहले, कुंआरीपन और हाइमेन, यानी योनी के छेद के बारे में एक छोटा, रोचक वीडियो देखें:

I really want to know if she's a virgin!

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Beta! Bina condom ke ya unsafe sex karne se anchahe garbh ke saath kai youn rog hone kaa bhi khatra ho sakta hai. Yahan padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/safe-sex/sti-prevention/safe-or-unsafe Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Urmi bête aisa bilkul zaruri nahi hai ki first time sex karne mein bleeding ho hee kyunki seal ya hymen, kisi bhi cheez se toot sakta hai… tez khel, daudna, poncha karna vigerah ya kai baar janm se hee hymen nahi hota hai toh bleeding ki chinta mat kijiye. Bilkul relaxed rahiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hmm! Dekhiye bete yeh janne ka koi bhi tarika moujjud nahi hai siwaye iske ki woh swayem apko yeh batayein. Lekin pyar ka sabse eham pehlu hai vishwas aap woh rakhiye apne mann mein, Aur apne rishte ko mazboot banaiye. Apnay mann se doubt clear kijiye aur yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete, ek achhe sex ke liye zaruri hai ki sex mein woh activities ki jayein jisse dono hee partners ko ananad mile. Isliye apni partner ki body ko samjh lijiye- usko time dijiye. partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Yeh links bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms Lekin yadi app HAR mahila ya ladki ko dekh kar uttejit ho jaaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahiloun ke prati bahut ek tarfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hee chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi! Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aisa bahut se log sochtey hain. Lekin apki is soch ke karan kahin aap kisi badi musibat mein na padd jaye isliye zara aap swayum chintan kar leejiye aur soch leejiye. Jara yeh writup bhi padh lijiye : https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/turned-on-by-older-women-is-that-normal https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/should-i-sleep-with-my-neighbourhood-bhaabhi Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi. So Jald baazi mat keejiye, phele finger se try keejiye, koi lubrication use keejye… Lekin apki partner ko bahut hee relaxed rehana hai aur apko bhi is dauran bahut hee support karna hai. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh bilkul zaroori nahin, aur na hee iski rai dee jaati hai. Iske barre mein yeh padhiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts Yadi sex dono pyaar ke saathiyoun ke beech ho, surakshit yaani bina koi zore zabardasti ke ho, so bahut hee achcha. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
पूजा बेटे ऐसा बिलकुल ज़रूरी नहीं है की पहली बार सेक्स करने में bleeding हो ही क्यूंकि सील या hymen, किसी भी चीज़ से टूट सकता है...तेज़ खेलना, दौड़ना, पोछा करना वगैरह या कई बार जन्म से ही hymenनहीं होता है तो bleeding की चिन्ता मत कीजिये. बिलकुल; रिलैक्स रहिये. ये पढ़िए और ज़रूरत पड़ने पर उन्हें भी पढने दीजिये: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Beta Shiv yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-top-five-facts-part-1 Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beta bina condom ke sex karna apne aap mein ek safe idea bilkul bhee nahi hai. Isse anchahe garbh ke saath kai youn rog hone kaa bhi khatra ho sakta hai. Aur sex kartaye samaye kya karna hai kya nahi karna hai, aur sex ko kese theek tarah se kiya jaye is bare mein aap yaha detail mein padh lijieye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/first-time-sex Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh shighrpatan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mahila ke shareer pe jaankari ke liye yahan padhe… https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-body https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/female-body/vulva Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dekhiye bete! kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Yeh Jaaiz demand nahin. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain. Is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete kisi ko bhee dhokhe se koi bhee dawa ya padarth khila kar sex karna gairkanuni hai aur ismein aapko punishment bhee ho sakta hai. Aur sabse badi baat, shayad aap jaante nahin, ki Viagra keval purushon ke liye hai asal mein. Saath hee yadi koi ladki aap mein itni dilchaspi rakhtee hee nahin toh koi bhi dawa na daaru use “pata” sakti hai. Zara apna chintan aur jaankari swasth kijiye aur sabhi ladkiyon ko utna hee samman dijiye jitna aap apne ghar ki mahilaon ko dete hain, apne liye ummid karte hain. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul bete yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh shighrpatan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Robin beta sex ya hastmaithun na karne se koi problem nahi hota hai. Aur sex ki ichchha hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahayata nahi kar saktay! Lekin aap hastmethun try kar saktay hain kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dekhiye Hari bete! kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Yeh Jaaiz demand nahin. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain. Is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hmm! Jo bhee tark aap laga rahe hai bête unka koi bhee aadhar nahi hai. Na hee yeh koi baat siddh karta hai ki is rishte mein vishwas ki kami hai. Isliye yeh baat mann se nikaliye kyunki pyar ka sabse eham pehlu hai vishwas aap woh rakhiye apne mann mein, Aur apne rishte ko mazboot banaiye. Mahila ke shareer pe aur jaankari ke liye yahan padhe… https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-body https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/female-body/vulva Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera long distance relation hai aunty parso jab mai usse video calling kr rha tha to maine dekha uski yoni ka ched bada hua h aisa tabhi hota h jab mai uske sath sex krta hu maine usse pucha to usne mana kr diya ki usne sex nhi kiya h apne se hua h wo kya aisa possible hai ki bina sex kiye kiski yoni ka ched bada ho jaye ya fail jaye
बेटे कही आप किसी tension, pressure में तो नहीं है ना? ये समझ लिजिए कि sex करने के लिए बिल्कुल तनाव मुक्त होना ज़रूरी है. जिस बारे में और यहा पढ़ लो: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction https://lovematters.in/hi/news/erection-trouble-where-turn https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-have-erection-problems-what-are-your-tips-auntyji यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete jab wo iske liye taiyaar hongi ya unki marzi hogi toh wo aapse kah dengi. Kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Yeh Jaaiz demand nahin. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Vivek bete hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bitah sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Relax bete! Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dekhiye bete! Kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi aap abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh mana kar dijiye aur unhe bhee aapki marzi ka samman karna chahiye. Aur bhi activities hai jo try kar sakte hain. Is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete jo sthiti aap bata rahe hain usmein pregnacy ke chances bohot kam hain ya na ke barabar hain aur unsafe sex ke 10 din poore hote hee aap prega news ya chemist se liya gaya ek Home pregnancy test kit se test kar leejiye aur sthiti nischit kar leejiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts Lekin bete kam umra se aapka kya matlab hai? Suniye bête! Agar unki umra 18 saal se kam hai toh 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye. samjhe? https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/im-21-in-love-with-a-teenager Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dekhiye bete ek achhe sex ke liye zaruri hai ki sex mein woh activities ki jayein jisse dono hee partners ko ananad mile. Isliye apni partner ki body ko samjh lijiye- usko time dijiye. partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. Yeh links bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-orgasms Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aakash bete jalan ki wazah lubrication ki kami ya koi infection ho sakta hai. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/secret-happy-sex-right-lubricant Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete kya aapne ye pills kisi panjikrit doctor ke salah se liya tha? Yadi nahi toh is tarah kisi bhee dawa ka istemaal swasth nahi hota hai. Aap iske baare mein phoran panjikrit doctor se mill lijiye. Aur bete jab tak aap nahi batayengi yeh pata nahi chal sakta. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/birth-control/top-10-facts-about-emergency-contraceptive-pills Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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