Unplanned pregnancy
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अनचाहा गर्भधारण - अब क्या करें?

यदि आप अनचाहे गर्भवती हो जाती हैं तो आपको इस बात का फैसला करना होगा कि क्या करें। आपके सामने दो विकल्प मौजूद होते हैं: गर्भपात या बच्चे को जन्म देना।

आप जो भी फैसला करें, सोच-समझ कर करें। आपकी सहायता के लिए यहां कुछ सुझाव दिए जा रहे हैं।

सुझाव 1
अपने किसी विश्वासपात्र से इस बारे में बात करें। खासकर, किसी ऐसे वयस्क से, जो आपको सलाह और सहयोग दे सके, जैसे कि आपकी मां, मौसी, चाची या कोई मित्र।

सुझाव 2
’यदि आपको उचित और मुनासिब लगे तो अपने माता-पिता को बताएं कि आप गर्भवती हैं।

यदि आप घर में सबके साथ रहती हैं तो यह ज़रूरी है। यदि ज़रूरत पड़े तो उन्हें बताने के लिए किसी की मदद लें। वह परिवार का कोई दूसरा सदस्य या डाक्टर हो सकते हैं।

सुझाव 3
संभावनाओं के बारे में चर्चा करने के लिए डाक्टर के पास जाएं। यदि आप गर्भपात चाहें तो भी आप के पास अभी समय होगा।

आप क्या करना चाहती है?

ऽ क्या आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं?
यदि आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं तो अपने निवास स्थान के अनुसार आप गर्भपात के लिए क्लीनिक या चिकित्सालय जा सकती हैं। इस बारे में आपके डाक्टर सलाह दे सकते हैं।

ऽ क्या आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं?
हो सकता है कि आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहें। यदि आप की शादी नहीं हुई है या किसी स्थायी रिश्ते से नहीं बंधी हैं, तो क्या आप हालात का सामना कर पाएंगी?

आपके जीवन पर यह किस प्रकार असर डालेगा? आपकी शिक्षा पर? क्या आप को पर्याप्त सहयोग प्राप्त है- बच्चे के पिता की ओर से, या आपके परिवार से? क्या आपके पास गुज़ारे के लिए पर्याप्त धन है?

आप अपने बच्चे को किसी को गोद भी दे सकती हैं। फिर भी आपको काफी सोच-समझ कर फैसला करना होगा। आपको नहीं पता कि बच्चे को जन्म देने के बाद जब उसे किसी और को सौंपना होगा तब आपको कैसा लगेगा।

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Beta, unchahe garb aur yon rog se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jata hai, periods aagaye hai toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta, unchahe garb aur yon rog se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jata hai, periods aagaye hai toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aur agar ye test negative hai toh ek panjikrit doctor se mil lijiye kyuki periods ka itna late hona sahi nahi hai. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta, unchahe garb aur yon rog se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jata hai, periods aagaye hai toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
we had sex on 20 April and her period date is 23 April . she has not had their period . she checked on 24 showing negative result but not period if she is pregnant what to do aunty g please tell me...
Ashish as we always say to avoid unplanned pregnancy and any kind of infection one should use protection. Ans yes it is very much possible to get pregnant. To be sure please take a home pregnancy test after 10 days of unsafe sex. And also you can meet a certified doctor for any assistance. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/en/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/en/resource/safe-sex If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask". https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mam maine apni gf ke period khatm hone ke 10 din baad usse sex kiya lekin uski usse ku6 white white sa nikalta rehta hai aur pet mai dard hota rehta hai mam koi problem to nahi hai ya pregnent to nahi huyi plz mam give me answer
Jaise ki hum humesha kehte hai ki safe sex ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jata hai. Aur isse saafed pani kehte hai, essa hona common baat hai, yeh kai mahilao ko hota hai so don't worry.Peth mein dard kai vajao se ho sakta hai jaise ki pressure ya daar. Aur ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta Unchahe pregnancy aur yon rog se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jata hai. Yaad rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua ho, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shuraanu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya foran kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta safe sex ke liye condom se aasaan tareeka aur nahi hai. Bina condom ke sex karna apne aap mein ek safe idea bilkul bhee nahi hai. Isse anchahe garbh ke saath kai youn rog hone kaa bhi khatra ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Mam meri girl friend 22 saal ki h uski mc date 02-05-2016 thi Maine 5-5-2016 ko apna Lund kewal uski chuht par touch kiya tha kya WO pregnant ho sakti h ?????
Ji nahi bete! Pregnant hone ke liye purush ke shukranu ka mahila ki yoni mein jaakar dimb ko nishchit karna bohot zaruri hai. jo ki sirf Yoni Maitun ke dwara ho sakta hai. Zara yeh padho. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Maine 15 march ko oral sex kiya jime maine sperm drink kiya tha uske baad mujhe periods 5 din late aaye.meri date bhi 28 april ki Thi aur ab 5 may ho gyi hai abhi tak periods nhi aaye mujhe kya krna chahiye plzzz tell me
Oral sex karne mein koi samsya nahi, agar saaf-safai ka poora dhyan rakha gaya ho aur isme dono partners ki barabar marzi shaamil ho! Aur behtar hoga yadi condom ka istemaal kiya jaye. Ab baat aati hai ki kya isse pregnancy ho sakti hai? Toh nahi isse pregnancy nahi hoti. Aur periods itna late hona theek nahi hai aap ek doctor se mil lijiye. All the best beta. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0 Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Mujhe mc march me 30-03-16 ko aaya hua tha.fir april mahine me apne bf k saath 09-04-16 ko sex ki thi to I pill kha li thi . Mgr fir jb 27-04-16 ko sex kr rhi thi to krte waqt hi mujhe mc aa gya . Mc 5 days gya. Mgr mai ush raat koi dawa nhi li aur na hi koi condom use krwai thi. To kya mai pregnant ho jaungi ya nhi?
Safe sex ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jaata hai naa ki emergency pills ka bete, Yeh mahila ke masik dharam par asar kar sakti hai. Period ke DAURAAN? Tab toh pregnant hone ka chance naa ke barabar hota hai beta. Phir bhi kisi bhi risk ya sankraman se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal anivaarya hai.Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Mam....mai kuch hi din pahle apni girl fraind se sex kiya or condome bhi use kiya or bad me sak hone ke wjh se hmne unwanted 72 turat 1 ghnte ke bad hi khila di thi or fir 4 days ke bad hmlogon ne sex kiya tb bhi condome use kiya ous time bhi dr hone ke karan ousne unwanted 72 1 ghnte ke bad hi Le li lekin ab jab ki time pe periods aa rhi but blood bhut hi kam aa rha or hm log dono presan hai ki aisa q ho rha hai kiyonki meri girl fraind ko jb phle kv periods aati thi to suru ke do din bhut hi blood aata tha but is bar bhut kam aa rha ..aisa q aise me kya o pregnant ho sakti hi....Plzzzz reply jitni jldi ho ske ...dijiye
Beta agar aap condom ka istemaal kar rahe hai toh baar baar emergency pill kyu dete hai? ECP pill ke bohot se side effects aur mashik dharam par asar bhi ho sakta hai. Pata nahi abhi tak aap yeh goli kitni baar de chuke hai, unke shareer mein kitni maatra mein dawa jaa chuki hai , jabki nirdharit maatra hai saal mein 2 baar maximum. Ab jo hua so hua, please ab aur koi dawa mat dijiye aur unke periods ko normal cycle mein aane dijiye. Aur safe sex ke liye condom ka istemaal kijiye aur ECP ka NAHI. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
plz main muje btaye muje sex k 25 din baad period aa gaye lekin abb 2 months aur 10din ho gaye abb nhi.aye kiya main pregnant hoo plz btao ho sakti hoo? Plz.jaldi reply de plzzz
Beta humme aapki puri stithi samajhme nahi aai. Magar phir bhi Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
mam maine apani gf ke sath 28-04-16 ko umsafe sex kiya tha aur usaki mc 17-04-16ko thi .maine uako unwanted 72 sex ke dusare din diya tha.to kya vo pregnent ho sakati hai..
Safe sex ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jaata hai naa ki emergency pills ka bete, Yeh mahila ke masik dharam par asar kar sakti hai. In goliyoun ka laparvaahi se istemaal nahin hona chahiye.yaha padho zara: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex ECP ka istemaal sirf emergencys mein hona chaiye. Iske kai side effects ho sakte hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Meri shadi ho chuki h mem but me abhi koi bhi baby nhi chati aur mera bf life suru krna chata h vo mere sath sex krna chata h but me abhi baby nhi chati plz mem help mew
Beta yeh nirnay aap chahe toh aapko apne partner ke saath milkar le sakte hai. Aur unplanned pregnancy se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal kiya jaa sakta hai. Iske baare mein aap yaha padhe: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/birth-control https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
meine first tym sex kiya but complete ni kiya dard ki vjh se or us din blooding bi hui or next day bi but sex complete ni kiya or ab bar bar washroom Jana pad rha h toilet ke liye to mam plz bta skte aisa kyu ho rha hai or ab period bi ni aya is bar
Ji haan bilkul! Yeh ek bohot badi mithya hai ki sperm bahar nikalne se garbhdharan nahi hota hai kyunk pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Isse bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal karna chahiye. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/10-most-common-contraception-myths Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Isiliye safe sex ke liye condom ka istemaal karne ki salha di jaati hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta kya yeh sex unprotected tha? Toh isme pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hai. Kya koi emergency pill li thi toh isse mahila ke maashik dharam par bhi asar padh sakta hai. Aur agar protected tha toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai.... Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta kya yeh sex unprotected tha? Toh isme pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hai. Kya koi emergency pill li thi toh isse mahila ke maashik dharam par bhi asar padh sakta hai. Aur agar protected tha toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai.... Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Beta kya yeh sex unprotected tha? Toh isme pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hai. Kya koi emergency pill li thi toh isse mahila ke maashik dharam par bhi asar padh sakta hai. Aur agar protected tha toh isme pregnancy ke chances naa ke barabar hote hai.... Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hllo doctor. Mai ye puchhna chahta hu ki mai apni gf k saath uske mc khatm.hone k agle din sex kia tha.... Kya isse pregnent hone ka chance hai??
Ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hello mam merit girl friend ki age 22 year ki hai meri gf ki mc 15-04-16 ko hui this air Maine bins kandom me 22-04-16 ko sex kiya that kya merit girl friend pragnent ho sakti hai mam plz help me
Ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Isiliye unchahe garb se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal karne ki salha di jaati hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
auntiji ma feb me unsafe sex krwai thi march me mc ai thi pr mera pet halka fula h or peth me bhi halka dard h ma prega news se 6 april ko test ki to negative aya meri mc bhi bharab rahti h 3 , 4 month me ati h to kya ai pregnent ho sakti hu
Nahi beta, aap ek panjikrit doctor se mil lijiye aur pata laga lijiye ki ye dard aur peth kyu fulla lag raha hai? Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Mam mene unsafe sex kia h apne bf se periods se pehle usne virya andr dala th bt mene ek ghnte bd nikal dia th or mjhe 5 dn bd periods bi hoge th lekn is mhine periods ni hone ki smbhavna lgri h plz btae kya m pregnnt hogi hu
Ji haan essa bilkul ho sakta hai, kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Sure hone ke liye unprotected sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hai. Saath hi kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se bhi mil lijiye. https://www.fpaindia.org/ https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Actually yeh puri tareh se ladki ki mahavari par depend karta hai, yadi who bilkul nirdharit hai ya nahi jiski vajeh se yeh bahut hi risk ka kaam bhi hai. Yadi aap bina kisi protection ke yaa bina kisi suraksha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap unn dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bacha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori tareh se surakshit nahi maana jaata. Yadi aap pregnancy ke risk se bachna chahte hai to kisi aur tarike ke mukable condom ka istemal karna easy aur safe tarika hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Mam meri gf ki mc 8-04-16 ko hui aur main sex with condom 1-05-2016 ko kiya abhi uska mahina pura ho haya hai mc nahi aa rahi aur pregnency test kit se pata kiya to negative mila phir bhi mc nahi aa rahi kya wah pregnent ho sakti hai Plz help
Isme itna dar nahi beta… period late bhi ho jaate hai. Toh sabse better yeh hoga ki aap kuch roz dekh leejiye aur phir foran ek doctor ko mil leejiye. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum