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I’m 21, in love with a teenager

Love and relationships
I love my 16-year-old girlfriend very much and she loves me too, but everyone disapproves of our relationship. I care for her and guide her in everything. What’s the problem? Rajeev (21), Pune.

I had unsafe sex, do I have HIV?

STDs/STIs
Hello Auntyji, I had unprotected sex. It just happened somehow. How can I find out if I have contracted HIV? I am very worried. Please help me out. Prashant (27), Agra.

Agh, my boyfriend is so messy! What should I do?

Love and relationships
My boyfriend is cool but very messy. He gets into bed with his shoes on, hardly ever brushes his hair, wears filthy jeans. If I tell him, he either laughs it off or gets upset. What do I do? Kirti (22), Allahabad.

Will my in-laws mind my dark complexion?

Thinking about Marriage
I am dating a guy since two years. He is fair, tall and supportive but I am quite dark. If I get married to him, will his family be considerate? Minakshi (22), Mysore.

My foreskin is tight – should I get circumcised?

Male body
The foreskin of my penis is tight. It doesn’t pull back easily and is really painful at times. I am embarrassed to see a doctor for circumcision. Akhilesh (19), Kanpur.

In love with my colleague – should I tell him?

Love and relationships
I am almost in love with my colleague at work. He will be travelling abroad for a few months. Should I confess my feelings before he leaves? Lucy (22), Mumbai.

Is it OK to have sex during her periods?

Female body
My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex during her periods, but I really want to. Is there something wrong with sex during menstruation? Sanjay (24), Noida.

Is masturbation harmful?

Male body
I’ve been masturbating for many years. Now my penis has become small. I have wet dreams and my semen is also very watery. Will I have a good sex life and children? Prashant (23), Jodhpur.

Does my flirty colleague want sex?

Meeting someone
There’s a girl at work who flirts with me. Does that mean she wants to have sex with me? I am confused. What should I do? I don’t want to miss the opportunity! Chetan (25), Delhi.

My girlfriend talks to another guy – should I be jealous?

Relationship problems
Auntyji, my girlfriend has begun speaking to this other guy. She tells me that he’s just a friend, but I don’t trust her. Should I break up with her? Please tell me. Gurinder (23), Ambala

I am attracted to my sister - what should I do?

Love and relationships
Auntyji, I am not very comfortable sharing this, but the truth is I am attracted to my sister. She is a bit older than me and I feel this is not right. What do you have to say about this? A***** (19), Sonipat.

How do I get talking with girls?

Meeting someone
Auntyji, it’s not that I want to flirt with every girl around, but there are some occasions when you find somebody attractive and you want to initiate talk with her. That’s my problem – I can’t initiate. I have no bad intentions either. Sameer, New Delhi