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My foreskin is tight – should I get circumcised?

By Auntyji Tuesday, October 27, 2015 - 12:04
The foreskin of my penis is tight. It doesn’t pull back easily and is really painful at times. I am embarrassed to see a doctor for circumcision. Akhilesh (19), Kanpur.

Auntyji says… Akhilesh bhai, ek baat to bilkul sach kahi! I am very sure that many men identify with the sentiment of their penis being the problem. Hain ki nahin?

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Beta sun, you must have read up the whole internet by now. You might know what is Phimosis, circumcision and it’s procedure, vaghera vaghera! So let’s not spend any more time on that.

First, let’s get the medical details out of the way. So beta sun, wasie toh many people have tight foreskin and they live with it. But there is always a chance of it becoming a point of breeding infection, collecting dirt and subsequently causing discomfort and pain.

It can also obstruct the easy flow of urine, which can be quite complex. So beta is it worth taking a risk over? That is why people choose for a circumcision, and get over with it.

Operation “foreskin”

Now comes the scary part. What’s freaking you out is the operation, right? It is not a serious operation. It’s really a small job and gets done pretty quickly.

I hear many distraught gentlemen coming out of it, smiling on their way with a distinct sigh of relief saying, “Why didn’t I do it before?”

So at least go and ask the doctor how long will it take and what will he do to your foreskin, not penis. Let me assure you, that will be and remain intact.

Out of shame or due to it

Ab aayi baat embarrassment ki. Sun yaar Akhilesh, do you have to honestly tell all your pals where you were for a week? Chutti mein karva lo yeh job. If your pals can say, “I went to Kasauli for a break,” or “I went to Delhi.” Do you even have to say, “I went and got my foreskin cut off”? Hain?

Itni bhi kya honesty? Can’t you just get away with “I stayed home dude!” And that, let me assure you, is where you will be. At home, on the computer while mummy serves you your favourite food and people do things for you. That’s a dream holiday, isn’t it?

Daddy darling…

Seriously, go talk to the other gentleman in your house or your father. Zimmedari unki bhi hai! Hearing out his ward’s intimate issues! Both of you can go see a doctor together.

Beta, you are in pain and because others may find it funny, do you want to continue living with it and other potential infections? How will you explain those?

Just by the way, an unclean penis begins to smell really bad. That is just the unsexiest thing in the world. You better keep that in mind. Now say, kaat deeya jaaye, ki chode deeya jaaye, bol tere saath kya salook keeya jaaye?

To protect the author’s privacy, the person in the picture is a model.

Do you have any other problem with your foreskin or penis? Send us your concerns as comments or contact us on Facebook.

Auntyji says… Akhilesh bhai, ek baat to bilkul sach kahi! I am very sure that many men identify with the sentiment of their penis being the problem. Hain ki nahin?

Read up and full up

Beta sun, you must have read up the whole internet by now. You might know what is Phimosis, circumcision and it’s procedure, vaghera vaghera! So let’s not spend any more time on that.

First, let’s get the medical details out of the way. So beta sun, wasie toh many people have tight foreskin and they live with it. But there is always a chance of it becoming a point of breeding infection, collecting dirt and subsequently causing discomfort and pain.

It can also obstruct the easy flow of urine, which can be quite complex. So beta is it worth taking a risk over? That is why people choose for a circumcision, and get over with it.

Operation “foreskin”

Now comes the scary part. What’s freaking you out is the operation, right? It is not a serious operation. It’s really a small job and gets done pretty quickly.

I hear many distraught gentlemen coming out of it, smiling on their way with a distinct sigh of relief saying, “Why didn’t I do it before?”

So at least go and ask the doctor how long will it take and what will he do to your foreskin, not penis. Let me assure you, that will be and remain intact.

Out of shame or due to it

Ab aayi baat embarrassment ki. Sun yaar Akhilesh, do you have to honestly tell all your pals where you were for a week? Chutti mein karva lo yeh job. If your pals can say, “I went to Kasauli for a break,” or “I went to Delhi.” Do you even have to say, “I went and got my foreskin cut off”? Hain?

Itni bhi kya honesty? Can’t you just get away with “I stayed home dude!” And that, let me assure you, is where you will be. At home, on the computer while mummy serves you your favourite food and people do things for you. That’s a dream holiday, isn’t it?

Daddy darling…

Seriously, go talk to the other gentleman in your house or your father. Zimmedari unki bhi hai! Hearing out his ward’s intimate issues! Both of you can go see a doctor together.

Beta, you are in pain and because others may find it funny, do you want to continue living with it and other potential infections? How will you explain those?

Just by the way, an unclean penis begins to smell really bad. That is just the unsexiest thing in the world. You better keep that in mind. Now say, kaat deeya jaaye, ki chode deeya jaaye, bol tere saath kya salook keeya jaaye?

To protect the author’s privacy, the person in the picture is a model.

Do you have any other problem with your foreskin or penis? Send us your concerns as comments or contact us on Facebook.

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Comments
Mam meri foreskin piche nhi ho rahi maine bhot bar masturbate kiya lekin phir bhi nhi hui..meri shadi honi wali hai with foreskin sex kr sakte hai kya..? Pain hota hai kya?
Samay bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichchhe karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood aa raha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Auntiji meri age 28 years hai me masturburate 15 years ki age se karta aa raha hun.lekin mene kabhi bhi apna penis wash or clean nahi kiya.kya ye serious problem hai. Pls mjhe suggest kijiye ki ab iske liye mjhe aage kya karna chahiye
Bete Deepak sex ke baad apne guptango ko saaf paani se clean karna ek achhi adaat hai jisse ki wahan swachta bani rahe. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/mens-hygiene Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Period ke DAURAAN? Tab toh pregnant hone ka chance na ke barabr hai beta.Phir bhi kisi bhi risk ya sankramn se bachne ke liye condom ka isteaml anivarya hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty g mai bachpan se hastmehun kr raha hu mujhe lagta h iska nuksan mujhe bhugatna padega plz koi upay batay
Relax! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
Bete Nilu dekho Periods ke duran sex mein koi dikatt nahi jab tak dono partners ki isse karne mein barabar ki marzi shamil ho Lekin yaad rakhiye is duran condom ka istemal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi sankarman se bachha ja sake. Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception
Periods ke duran sex mein koi dikatt nahi jab tak dono partners ki isse karne mein barabar ki marzi shamil ho Lekin yaad rakhiye is duran condom ka istemal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi sankarman se bachha ja sake. Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception
Madam, Mere penis ki foreskin alag nhi ho rhi h. Meri shadi bhi ho chuki h kitni baar sex karr chuka phir bhi nhi alag hui h. Iske liye kchh upaye bataiye. And mei sex karte samaye jldi discharge bhi ho jata hu uske liye bhi kchhh batayiye.
Sumit bete is skin ko nahate samay halke se piche karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Zaroor poochhiye! Hum poori koshish karenge ki aapko sahi jaankaari de sakein. Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hello, Mukesh beta. Bete is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichchhe karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ramesh bete, is skin ko nahate samay halke se pichchhe karke saaf karna hota hai jisse, waha saafai bani rahe, yadi aise karte samay koi zyada takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iske baare mein. Aur jaankari ke liye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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