Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Agh, my boyfriend is so messy! What should I do?

My boyfriend is cool but very messy. He gets into bed with his shoes on, hardly ever brushes his hair, wears filthy jeans. If I tell him, he either laughs it off or gets upset. What do I do? Kirti (22), Allahabad.

In love with my colleague – should I tell him?

I am almost in love with my colleague at work. He will be travelling abroad for a few months. Should I confess my feelings before he leaves? Lucy (22), Mumbai.

Is it OK to have sex during her periods?

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex during her periods, but I really want to. Is there something wrong with sex during menstruation? Sanjay (24), Noida.

Does my flirty colleague want sex?

There’s a girl at work who flirts with me. Does that mean she wants to have sex with me? I am confused. What should I do? I don’t want to miss the opportunity! Chetan (25), Delhi.

My girlfriend talks to another guy – should I be jealous?

Auntyji, my girlfriend has begun speaking to this other guy. She tells me that he’s just a friend, but I don’t trust her. Should I break up with her? Please tell me. Gurinder (23), Ambala

I am attracted to my sister - what should I do?

Auntyji, I am not very comfortable sharing this, but the truth is I am attracted to my sister. She is a bit older than me and I feel this is not right. What do you have to say about this? A***** (19), Sonipat.

How do I get talking with girls?

Auntyji, it’s not that I want to flirt with every girl around, but there are some occasions when you find somebody attractive and you want to initiate talk with her. That’s my problem – I can’t initiate. I have no bad intentions either. Sameer, New Delhi

What is the right age to have children?

Auntyji, I am not sure if I am ready for a child. My husband, in-laws, parents and all relatives are pressuring me. Is there something like the right age to have a child? Karishma (24), Nagpur

Is there a right age to fall in love?

Auntyji, I have been thinking about this woman day and night. I think I am in love with her. But I don’t know if I am old enough to fall in love. Anshul, New Delhi.

How can I get rid of wet dreams?

I am very ashamed of myself. I think I am a sex maniac. I keep having nightfalls. Seems like I am thinking of sex even while I am asleep. I am so embarrassed by these wet dreams. Can you help me? Anonymous (19), Meerut.

How can I make my wife interested in sex?

Auntyji, my wife is not really interested in sex. In fact, she is very distant with me. How can I convince her to have sex with me and be interested in me? Rahul (25), Baroda.

Is masturbation making my semen watery?

I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. Now I notice that my semen has become very watery and less in volume. Is it because of my old habit? What now? Will I be able to become a father or not? IK (28), New Delhi.