Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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Is it OK to have sex during her periods?

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex during her periods, but I really want to. Is there something wrong with sex during menstruation? Sanjay (24), Noida.

Does my flirty colleague want sex?

There’s a girl at work who flirts with me. Does that mean she wants to have sex with me? I am confused. What should I do? I don’t want to miss the opportunity! Chetan (25), Delhi.

My girlfriend talks to another guy – should I be jealous?

Auntyji, my girlfriend has begun speaking to this other guy. She tells me that he’s just a friend, but I don’t trust her. Should I break up with her? Please tell me. Gurinder (23), Ambala

I am attracted to my sister - what should I do?

Auntyji, I am not very comfortable sharing this, but the truth is I am attracted to my sister. She is a bit older than me and I feel this is not right. What do you have to say about this? A***** (19), Sonipat.

How do I get talking with girls?

Auntyji, it’s not that I want to flirt with every girl around, but there are some occasions when you find somebody attractive and you want to initiate talk with her. That’s my problem – I can’t initiate. I have no bad intentions either. Sameer, New Delhi

What is the right age to have children?

Auntyji, I am not sure if I am ready for a child. My husband, in-laws, parents and all relatives are pressuring me. Is there something like the right age to have a child? Karishma (24), Nagpur

Is there a right age to fall in love?

Auntyji, I have been thinking about this woman day and night. I think I am in love with her. But I don’t know if I am old enough to fall in love. Anshul, New Delhi.

How can I get rid of wet dreams?

I am very ashamed of myself. I think I am a sex maniac. I keep having nightfalls. Seems like I am thinking of sex even while I am asleep. I am so embarrassed by these wet dreams. Can you help me? Anonymous (19), Meerut.

How can I make my wife interested in sex?

Auntyji, my wife is not really interested in sex. In fact, she is very distant with me. How can I convince her to have sex with me and be interested in me? Rahul (25), Baroda.

Is masturbation making my semen watery?

I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. Now I notice that my semen has become very watery and less in volume. Is it because of my old habit? What now? Will I be able to become a father or not? IK (28), New Delhi.

We had sex without condoms, help!

Auntyji, my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. Now she missed her period. Are these early signs of pregnancy? It freaks me out. What will we do if she is...? Help me, and please take my query asap. Anil (21), Jabalpur.

My boss hits on me. What to do?

My boss is hitting on me. He is a bit too attentive and compliments me way too much. I don’t like it but I’m afraid I’ll lose my job if I say something. My colleagues are beginning to notice but no one has said anything to me yet. Adiba (24), Gurgaon.