However, there are a few ways that Shalini can figure out if Anay wants a serious relationship or if he's just looking for a fling.
How they talk to you!
One of the biggest indicators of whether someone is looking for a serious relationship or just a hookup is their communication style. If Anay is constantly texting or calling Shalini and making an effort to get to know her, it's a good sign that he is interested in a serious relationship.
On the other hand, if Anay only contacts Shalini late at night or when he wants to hang out, it could be a sign that he is only interested in a casual hookup.
How they treat you
If Anay is always making an effort to take Shalini out on dates, or if he is attentive and considerate towards her needs and wants, it's a sign that he is looking for a serious relationship. Eg: He gets worried when she does not reply when she is sick or if she is having a stressful day - he asks what happened.
However, if Anay only contacts Shalini when he wants to hang out and doesn't make much of an effort to get to know her, it could indicate that he's just looking for a casual hookup.
Ask them directly
While it may be uncomfortable, the most straightforward way to determine Anay's intentions is by asking him directly. Shalini can start by asking him what he is looking for in a relationship and if he sees a future with her. This can give Shalini a clear understanding of where Anay stands and if he is looking for a serious relationship or just a hookup.
It's important to remember that everyone's intentions are different and that it's okay to have a casual relationship if that's what both of you are looking for. The most important thing is, to be honest with each other about your expectations and desires.
To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed.
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