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Getting over a breakup: Do’s and Don’ts

By Friday, November 13, 2015 - 22:08
Going through a break up is not easy. You are trapped in a turmoil of emotions and negativity. Read our do’s and don’ts to stay strong...

Do...

  • Accept that it is over
    The worst thing you can do after a breakup is to stubbornly believe that it is temporary and your ex will come back to you. Although that may make you feel better in the short term, this is not the right solution.

    Once it is over, your ex is not likely to return. Do yourself a favour and accept that it is over. Even though this will hurt,it will also help you heal and move on.
  • Lean on your friends and family
    You’re not the first person in the world to get your heart broken. Talking about it with friends and family will only make you feel better.They will also be able to give you some good advice on how to start over fresh.

    Just make sure that you don’t constantly talk about your ex for months on end. That is again unhealthy.
  • Start exercising
    Exercise is the best way to channel your anger into something productive. Not only will working out make you feel better physically, it also releases endorphins which make you feel happy. You will have better tasks in hand to focus on.
  • Treat yourself well
    Just because you’re sad doesn’t mean you shouldn’t look after yourself. Eat healthy meals, spend lots of time outside, pick up an old hobby or learn a new skill. All these things will make you feel good and make you realise that life goes on, even after the most devastating heartbreak.
  • Make plans for the future
    From planning a night out with your friends to a full week of holiday, planning activities will make you feel excited for the future. New trips and activities will help you meet new people and also make you realise that you can have fun without your ex!
  • Take new relationships slowly
    Once you are (and you will be) ready to start seeing someone new then go ahead! Just make sure you take it slowly to figure out if this is really something you want. Do not just get into a relationship because of loneliness. You need to be comfortable being single in order to make a new relationship work.
  • Delete them from social media
    Although you may feel like this is an immature move, it’s better than being constantly reminded about them. Social media updates might tell you how amazing their life is now that they’re single. Plus, you’ll think that they’re hooking up with that hot person in their most recent photo. They’re probably not...
  • Let yourself grieve
    Breakups can be devastating and the best way to move on is to grieve. Whether this means eating 12 tubs of ice-cream, watching back to back rom-com movies or crying on the phone to your best friend (or all three at the same time). You need to let all the sadness out in order to let new happiness in.

Don’t...

  • Abuse substances
    Doing something crazy involving large amounts of drugs or alcohol may seem like the best way to dull the pain of your heartbreak. However, it won’t make you feel better in the long run and may lead to dangerous health conditions.
  • Rebound
    You may want to rebound with someone to feel intimacy again.There is nothing wrong with that. Just remember that one night stands or short flings may feel good in the short term, but they will not mend your broken heart.
  • Stalk your ex
    If your ex never wants to see you again, leave them alone! If you stalk them, at best, they will feel sorry for you for embarrassing yourself. At worst, they will be terrified and file a police case. Don’t get into either situations!
  • Blame yourself
    It’s easy to feel like you’re the one who caused your ex to walk away because you didn’t like their friends or you didn’t call them that one time, so on and so forth. Remember that it’s not your fault alone! Relationships are between two people and both share the responsibility when it ends.
  • Stay friends with your ex right away
    Being friends with your ex may seem like the mature thing to do but at least at the beginning, it’s best not to stay in contact. You need to concentrate on yourself and hanging out with your ex will make it difficult for you to draw the line between a friend and a lover. Plus, you don’t want to deal with that awkward moment when your ex introduces you to their new partner!

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Samir bete, bahut dukh hua sunkar, aur hum aapki sthiti samajh sakte hain, lekin bete zara sochiye, ek dusra ladka unki zindgi me aaya aur unhone aapko chhor diya!!!! Iska to matlab yahi hai na ki unki taraf se ye pyar tha hi nahi, hai na?? Toh ab socho ki aise rishte ka kya bhavisya hota?? Marna ya maarna kisi bhi samsya ka samadhan nahi hota bete!! Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaaiye. Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Sir...mera name Arvind hai aur haal hi me mera breakup ho gya hai..aaj breakup ke 21 din ho rhe hai...2 saal ka relationship tha hamara...pr wo set ho gyi kisi aur ke saath.....sir main usko bhulna chahta hu pr bhula nhi pa rha hu...usne aisa kyo kiya mere saath...kyo bhul gyi wo apna kiya wada...sir.! Ristaa to sayad bahut pahle hi khtm ho gya tha bs mujhe aaj ahsas hua ki...wo rista khtm ho gya hai...mere jahen me jo lock lga tha use na khone ke usne khole nhi Tod diye.... actually uski koi galti nhi hai...uski aukaat sirf bistar tk ki hi thi pr Maine use palko par bithaya.khud se bhi jyada bharosa kiya tha..paglo ki trh mohabbat ki usse.. apni maa tk se lad gya uske liye..aur yhi sayad meri sbse bdi galti hai.. sir maine uske saath budhape tk ka safar ke baare me socha tha agr mera pyar jhadiyo ke piche tk hi simit rhta to depression me aaj main nhi wo hoti.....usne mujhe khud ke hi najro me gira diya..main usse nafrat nhi krta pr aisa bhi nhi hai ki maine usse nafrat krne ki kosis nhi ki..jb bhi kiya haar gya..nafrat krne ki puri kosis kr rha hu pr kr nhi pa rha hu...jb se usko khoya hai kuch aur pane ka mn hi nhi krta..sayad main hi bura tha..... Sir mujhe kisi bhi trh use bhulna hai... Plz help me
Arvind bete hum aapki sthiti samajh sakte hain, aapne unke sath puri zindgi ke sapne dekh liye aur unhone aapko bhula diya. Lekin bete ye sochiye ki jo shadi se pahle aapke pyar ya aapke rishte ko nahi nahi samajh payi wo aage ki life me kya karti??? Jo aaj aapke bharose aur vishwas ko tod di wo aane wale future me kya karti?? Kya ye rishta puri life ke liye sahi hota?? Apne aapko sambhaliye bete!! Aap bure nahi, ab apni life aur apne family ke bare mein sochiye, aur jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh uske bare mein sochte rahna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sweta bete bahut bura laga sunkar, hum aapki sthiti aur pareshani samajh sakte hain, lekin bete yadi koi hamare sath nahi rahna chahta, toh kya hum force kar sakte hain?? Nahi na?? Unhe aapke sath rahna hai ya nahi nahi rahna, ye faisala unhe karna hai, aap unse keval isliye Haan nahi kara sakti, kyunki aap unke sath rahna chahti hain, OK!! So, jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki shayad unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. Aapko Auntyji ka pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mai kya bolu kuch samajh me nahi aa raha hai sala sab kuch ek bar me hi kyo nahi hota hai pahle hi kyo kisi ko bharosa dekar kasam kha kar or puri jindgi ki bat kar ke ye sab bat me kyo bolte hai ab tumahare sath acha nahi or ub jate hai aisa lagata hai jaise lagata ki ham purane jaisa ho gay or ham ache nahi lagate hai or har bat bura jaisa kyo lagata hai usko or bahut asani se kaise bol dete hai ab hamare bich jo hai use bhul jao or mera pichha chhodo or jine do kya pahle ham ek the to jine nahi dete the ya ham purane ho ya meri sakal gandi ho gayi aisa kyo hota hai mujhe bata sakte hai or hame ye bataiye ki ham uski sadi ke bahut pahle se sath me the or bahut achi thi hamara sath bhi or maine usko sadi ke liye bahut bar bola lekin usne kabhi nahi bola ki ha sahi hai jabki ghar valo se bhi bat ki jab ek mere sundar ladaka mila to aj bol rahi hai usko pahle se man me tha ye kya matlab hai or oo aj bahut kush ho rahi hai or jaldi se sadi bhi kar li mere dar se ya kuch bhi or apne hi call karegi or bolegi mere pass call mat karana kya use hamesa ke liye bhula du kya ho sakta hai nahi na uske har dukh sukh uski pachapana uski sararat har chij se pyar kiya sirf paise ke liye mai bhi usko jinata paise chahiye mai de sakta tha usne surat se bhivah or paise se ki hai aacha nahi ki
Ravi bete sabse pahle apne aapko shant kijiye, relax!! Bete bahut dukh hua aapki sari baaten padhkar, lekin unhone apni taraf se is rishte ko tod diya hai aur aapko bata bhi diya hai- toh ab Auntyji ki suniye - jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
May your happiness be continued Ashish bete!! If you would like to join in on any further discussion on any topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Radhika bete pahle apne aap ko shant kijiye aur apni puri baat yaha spadht roop se likhiye, taki hum aapko sahi salah de saken. Aur ye jaan lijiye ki aisee koi bhi samasya nahi jiska samadhan na ho..OK!! Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Oh ho Samiksha bete!! Ek saal me chaar baar breakup?? Ye kaisa rishta ya pyar hai bete?? Kisi bhi rishte mein ek dusre ka samman karna, vishwas aur pyar hona bahut zaruri hai. Kya aapko lagta hai ki is rishte ka koi bhavishya hai? Kya aapko ye thik lagata hai? Please har tarah se vichaar kijiye aur ek sahi nirnay lijiye. Theek hai bête! Ise bhee pdhiye: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/love-and-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Savan bete hum aapki pareshani samajh sakte hain, lekin isme samasya ho sakti hai, jis rishte mein parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lijiye. Yadi aap koi kadam uthana chahte hain - to uske parinaam kya ho sakte hain - sari jaankari lijiye - Madad ke liye ise bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jyoti Sharma
Tue, 10/29/2019 - 17:13
mera dil toote 1 saal se jyada ho gaye main apne ex bf ko bhoolna chahti huin par bhul hi nhi pa rahi main kya karu? please help
Jyoti beta bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Pyar ka matlab ham sabbkuch maan lete hein or kayi had tak ye sahi bhi hota hein pyar koi paap nhibhein na kych bura hein isme bas kuch cheeje hein jinki wajhe se ham apne pyar se dur ho jate hein... Or kuch had tak hamari kismat bhi kuch aiaa mod leti hein ki ham chah kar bhi apne pyar ko apni life ko nhi bachha pate..... Pyar se bichadna matlab apne dil ke feelings ke or aatma ke 100 tukde krna jaisa hota hein..... Esliye please apne aap ko pahle se hi aadi na bnaye kisika warna jina bahot muskil ho jayega.... Baate kre pyar kre par limit se taki in future aisa koi mod aaye to aap jaldi aisa dard se ubhar sako.... Apne aap ko majboot krke pyar kare warna bina apne pyar ke jee nahi payenge.....sophielove
Priya bete apna mat rakhne ke liye bahut dhanyawad!! Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! Ise bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mere parter se brekup ho gya h 7 din 5 saal ka relationship tha humara me pragnent bhi ho gyi ho gyi thi ushne meko tablet khila di aur thode din bat krke phir ushne mujhse ldayi krke move on kr diya sab jgha see block diya h pehele bolta tha ki shadi krnege but ab mna krke age bdh gya mujhe samjh ni ara me kya kru mene ushke gar me bhi bat krli h wo bolra h me shadi ni krna chata ab isse ushki faimly bhi yhi bolri h ki jab ldka hi ni krna chata h h tho hum kya kre
Oh Bhavana bete, bahut dukh hua sunkar, aapki sthiti hum samajh sakte hain!! Bete sabse pahli baat kya aapne apne gharwalon se iske baare mein baat kiya hai?? Yadi sambhav ho toh apne gharwalon se baat kijiye aur unki madad lene ki koshish kijiye - kisi bharosemand dost ya relative ki bhi madad le saktin hai - ya agar aap chahen aur possible ho toh us ladke par kisi lawyer/wakeel ki madad se legal action le sakti hain ya police complaint kara sakti hain - aur apne liye nyay maang sakti hain. Saath hi ek aur baat hai bete is rishte mein ab bharosa, vishwas aur pyar nahi rahega So jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai ya usmen dhokha mil jata hai toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aur us ladke ne ya uske gharwalon ne bhi rishte ke liye mana kar diya hai - toh aap apne liye nyay toh zarur maangiye, lekin sath hi aap aage bhi badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera breakup hogya h but mai aj bhe usse bht pyr krte hu fmly pblm ke wjhse hm alg hogye hm.wo bhe bht pyr krta h yaad me bht depression me chlagya h wooo.. mujhe bht bura lgrha h ki mere wjhse asa horha h kya kru mai kuch smjhnhi arha
Kaira bete hum aapki aur unki pareshani samajh sakte hain, lekin jis rishte mein parents ka virodh ya family problem ho usmein samsya ho sakti hai. So.....aur jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. All the best. Ye padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/parents-vs-partner-who-would-you-pick Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera 8 sal ka sacha pyar tha bahut ,8 sal se shadi ka wait Kiya dono ne or 8 sal bad love marriage kri or usne shadi ke 1 mahine bad he mujhe chod diya or divorce mang rahi hai jabki wo mere ghr bhi nhi aai rhene kabhi , koi resion nhi hai divorce ka ,main bahut tang ho gya hu ,main us se beintha pyar krta hu shuru se aaj tk.
Oh bete bahut dukh hua sunkar, lekin 8 saal ke intejar ke baad shadi huyi, aap dono ne ek lamba intezar kiya, fir aisa kyun?? Bete ek baar unse milkar bahut hi pyar se baat chit karne ki koshish kijiye - pata kijiye iska kya karan hai - lekin yeh bhi yaad rakhiye ki is rishte mein rahna ya na rahna unki marzi hai, unki marzi ka samman kijiyega - aap unse sirf isliye Haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki aap unse bahut pyar karte hain, kyunki jaisa aap bata rahe hain, wo shadi ke baad bhi kabhi aapke ghar rahne nahi aayi hain, isse toh yahi lagta hai ki wo is rishte mein rahna hi nahi chahti hain ya yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki karan kuchh aur ho - saath hi unhone aapse divorce bhi maanga hai - toh baat gambhir lagti hai, fir bhi ek koshish kijiye - baat kar ke, chahen toh kisi bharosemand dost, ya family member ki madad lijiye, Ok bete! Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mra bhi breakup hogya h wo mujse bat bhi ni Krna chahta mra awaj sun k gussa ajta h usko ..4 sal k relation khtm krdiya bina koi glti k bolta h hmlogo k jamta ni h ..mne bhi accept krliya h ab usko chutkara chiy mujse but m ni kr parhi hu bht try kri ek ek din bhari lgta h ..bht uneasy feel hota h hr smye bechaini lgta h .hmsha majburi m use bat krne chli jati hu but wo asusual mri insult krta h bht ..pr mre s ni ho pata manage janti hu insult hogi fir b uneasy feel hota h krk chli jati hu bat krne ..pr usko ek bund dukh ni h frk ni pdta jse m exist hi ni krti .kitna roti hu fir b koi frk ni pdta ulta chilla dta h ..m kse niklu kse agye move on kru ...smj ni ara 4 din strong bnti hu fir next day heavy feel hota h ...
Oh bete bahut dukh ho raha hai sunkar, par kya hum kisi ko zabardasti apna bana sakte hain, nahi na?? Wo aapka insult kar rahe hain aur baat nahi karna chahte, toh aap bhi apne self respect ko mat kharab kijiye. Jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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