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Getting over a breakup: Do’s and Don’ts

By Friday, November 13, 2015 - 22:08
Going through a break up is not easy. You are trapped in a turmoil of emotions and negativity. Read our do’s and don’ts to stay strong...

Do...

  • Accept that it is over
    The worst thing you can do after a breakup is to stubbornly believe that it is temporary and your ex will come back to you. Although that may make you feel better in the short term, this is not the right solution.

    Once it is over, your ex is not likely to return. Do yourself a favour and accept that it is over. Even though this will hurt,it will also help you heal and move on.
  • Lean on your friends and family
    You’re not the first person in the world to get your heart broken. Talking about it with friends and family will only make you feel better.They will also be able to give you some good advice on how to start over fresh.

    Just make sure that you don’t constantly talk about your ex for months on end. That is again unhealthy.
  • Start exercising
    Exercise is the best way to channel your anger into something productive. Not only will working out make you feel better physically, it also releases endorphins which make you feel happy. You will have better tasks in hand to focus on.
  • Treat yourself well
    Just because you’re sad doesn’t mean you shouldn’t look after yourself. Eat healthy meals, spend lots of time outside, pick up an old hobby or learn a new skill. All these things will make you feel good and make you realise that life goes on, even after the most devastating heartbreak.
  • Make plans for the future
    From planning a night out with your friends to a full week of holiday, planning activities will make you feel excited for the future. New trips and activities will help you meet new people and also make you realise that you can have fun without your ex!
  • Take new relationships slowly
    Once you are (and you will be) ready to start seeing someone new then go ahead! Just make sure you take it slowly to figure out if this is really something you want. Do not just get into a relationship because of loneliness. You need to be comfortable being single in order to make a new relationship work.
  • Delete them from social media
    Although you may feel like this is an immature move, it’s better than being constantly reminded about them. Social media updates might tell you how amazing their life is now that they’re single. Plus, you’ll think that they’re hooking up with that hot person in their most recent photo. They’re probably not...
  • Let yourself grieve
    Breakups can be devastating and the best way to move on is to grieve. Whether this means eating 12 tubs of ice-cream, watching back to back rom-com movies or crying on the phone to your best friend (or all three at the same time). You need to let all the sadness out in order to let new happiness in.

Don’t...

  • Abuse substances
    Doing something crazy involving large amounts of drugs or alcohol may seem like the best way to dull the pain of your heartbreak. However, it won’t make you feel better in the long run and may lead to dangerous health conditions.
  • Rebound
    You may want to rebound with someone to feel intimacy again.There is nothing wrong with that. Just remember that one night stands or short flings may feel good in the short term, but they will not mend your broken heart.
  • Stalk your ex
    If your ex never wants to see you again, leave them alone! If you stalk them, at best, they will feel sorry for you for embarrassing yourself. At worst, they will be terrified and file a police case. Don’t get into either situations!
  • Blame yourself
    It’s easy to feel like you’re the one who caused your ex to walk away because you didn’t like their friends or you didn’t call them that one time, so on and so forth. Remember that it’s not your fault alone! Relationships are between two people and both share the responsibility when it ends.
  • Stay friends with your ex right away
    Being friends with your ex may seem like the mature thing to do but at least at the beginning, it’s best not to stay in contact. You need to concentrate on yourself and hanging out with your ex will make it difficult for you to draw the line between a friend and a lover. Plus, you don’t want to deal with that awkward moment when your ex introduces you to their new partner!

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Thank you! Apna mat rakhne ke liye dhanyavad Pawan bete! Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare Facebook aur Instagram mein zarur shamil ho: https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
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Navin beta ye jaan lijiye ki jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare Facebook aur Instagram mein zarur shamil ho: https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Oh ho Samiksha bete!! Ek saal me chaar baar breakup?? Ye kaisa rishta ya pyar hai bete?? Kisi bhi rishte mein ek dusre ka samman karna, vishwas aur pyar hona bahut zaruri hai. Kya aapko lagta hai ki is rishte ka koi bhavishya hai? Kya aapko ye thik lagata hai? Please har tarah se vichaar kijiye aur ek sahi nirnay lijiye. Theek hai bête! Ise bhee pdhiye: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/love-and-relationships Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sir mujhe uske bager jine se dar lagata tha but ab usse chor diya mujhe me kya karu 1sal depression me bhi rahi fir bar nakli to bhi uski yaad bahut aati bahut rulati kabhi kabhi marne ka man karta kisi pe bharosha nahi hota pata nahi me kya karu uske bare me maine sadi tak plan kar liya tha ab mujhe khud se nafrat ho rahi h me uske bager nahi rah pa rahi hu ab mujhe kya karna chachiye
Beta bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin mar jana kisi samsya ka samadhan nahi ho sakta - ek baar apni family ke bare me bhi sochiye - jo aapse bahut sneh rakhti hai. Uske bare me kya sochna, jab unhone shadi tak baat Jane par bhi aapka bharosa aur pyar sab tod diya toh sochiye is rishte ka bhavisya kya hota?? Aur sabse aham baat ki jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Apne aapko shant kijiye aur aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare Facebook aur Instagram mein zarur shamil ho: https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Savan bete hum aapki pareshani samajh sakte hain, lekin isme samasya ho sakti hai, jis rishte mein parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lijiye. Yadi aap koi kadam uthana chahte hain - to uske parinaam kya ho sakte hain - sari jaankari lijiye - Madad ke liye ise bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jyoti Sharma
Tue, 10/29/2019 - 17:13
mera dil toote 1 saal se jyada ho gaye main apne ex bf ko bhoolna chahti huin par bhul hi nhi pa rahi main kya karu? please help
Jyoti beta bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Pyar ka matlab ham sabbkuch maan lete hein or kayi had tak ye sahi bhi hota hein pyar koi paap nhibhein na kych bura hein isme bas kuch cheeje hein jinki wajhe se ham apne pyar se dur ho jate hein... Or kuch had tak hamari kismat bhi kuch aiaa mod leti hein ki ham chah kar bhi apne pyar ko apni life ko nhi bachha pate..... Pyar se bichadna matlab apne dil ke feelings ke or aatma ke 100 tukde krna jaisa hota hein..... Esliye please apne aap ko pahle se hi aadi na bnaye kisika warna jina bahot muskil ho jayega.... Baate kre pyar kre par limit se taki in future aisa koi mod aaye to aap jaldi aisa dard se ubhar sako.... Apne aap ko majboot krke pyar kare warna bina apne pyar ke jee nahi payenge.....sophielove
Priya bete apna mat rakhne ke liye bahut dhanyawad!! Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! Ise bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mere parter se brekup ho gya h 7 din 5 saal ka relationship tha humara me pragnent bhi ho gyi ho gyi thi ushne meko tablet khila di aur thode din bat krke phir ushne mujhse ldayi krke move on kr diya sab jgha see block diya h pehele bolta tha ki shadi krnege but ab mna krke age bdh gya mujhe samjh ni ara me kya kru mene ushke gar me bhi bat krli h wo bolra h me shadi ni krna chata ab isse ushki faimly bhi yhi bolri h ki jab ldka hi ni krna chata h h tho hum kya kre
Oh Bhavana bete, bahut dukh hua sunkar, aapki sthiti hum samajh sakte hain!! Bete sabse pahli baat kya aapne apne gharwalon se iske baare mein baat kiya hai?? Yadi sambhav ho toh apne gharwalon se baat kijiye aur unki madad lene ki koshish kijiye - kisi bharosemand dost ya relative ki bhi madad le saktin hai - ya agar aap chahen aur possible ho toh us ladke par kisi lawyer/wakeel ki madad se legal action le sakti hain ya police complaint kara sakti hain - aur apne liye nyay maang sakti hain. Saath hi ek aur baat hai bete is rishte mein ab bharosa, vishwas aur pyar nahi rahega So jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai ya usmen dhokha mil jata hai toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aur us ladke ne ya uske gharwalon ne bhi rishte ke liye mana kar diya hai - toh aap apne liye nyay toh zarur maangiye, lekin sath hi aap aage bhi badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera breakup hogya h but mai aj bhe usse bht pyr krte hu fmly pblm ke wjhse hm alg hogye hm.wo bhe bht pyr krta h yaad me bht depression me chlagya h wooo.. mujhe bht bura lgrha h ki mere wjhse asa horha h kya kru mai kuch smjhnhi arha
Kaira bete hum aapki aur unki pareshani samajh sakte hain, lekin jis rishte mein parents ka virodh ya family problem ho usmein samsya ho sakti hai. So.....aur jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. All the best. Ye padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/parents-vs-partner-who-would-you-pick Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mera 8 sal ka sacha pyar tha bahut ,8 sal se shadi ka wait Kiya dono ne or 8 sal bad love marriage kri or usne shadi ke 1 mahine bad he mujhe chod diya or divorce mang rahi hai jabki wo mere ghr bhi nhi aai rhene kabhi , koi resion nhi hai divorce ka ,main bahut tang ho gya hu ,main us se beintha pyar krta hu shuru se aaj tk.
Oh bete bahut dukh hua sunkar, lekin 8 saal ke intejar ke baad shadi huyi, aap dono ne ek lamba intezar kiya, fir aisa kyun?? Bete ek baar unse milkar bahut hi pyar se baat chit karne ki koshish kijiye - pata kijiye iska kya karan hai - lekin yeh bhi yaad rakhiye ki is rishte mein rahna ya na rahna unki marzi hai, unki marzi ka samman kijiyega - aap unse sirf isliye Haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki aap unse bahut pyar karte hain, kyunki jaisa aap bata rahe hain, wo shadi ke baad bhi kabhi aapke ghar rahne nahi aayi hain, isse toh yahi lagta hai ki wo is rishte mein rahna hi nahi chahti hain ya yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki karan kuchh aur ho - saath hi unhone aapse divorce bhi maanga hai - toh baat gambhir lagti hai, fir bhi ek koshish kijiye - baat kar ke, chahen toh kisi bharosemand dost, ya family member ki madad lijiye, Ok bete! Aapko Auntyji ka bahut sara pyar!! https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mra bhi breakup hogya h wo mujse bat bhi ni Krna chahta mra awaj sun k gussa ajta h usko ..4 sal k relation khtm krdiya bina koi glti k bolta h hmlogo k jamta ni h ..mne bhi accept krliya h ab usko chutkara chiy mujse but m ni kr parhi hu bht try kri ek ek din bhari lgta h ..bht uneasy feel hota h hr smye bechaini lgta h .hmsha majburi m use bat krne chli jati hu but wo asusual mri insult krta h bht ..pr mre s ni ho pata manage janti hu insult hogi fir b uneasy feel hota h krk chli jati hu bat krne ..pr usko ek bund dukh ni h frk ni pdta jse m exist hi ni krti .kitna roti hu fir b koi frk ni pdta ulta chilla dta h ..m kse niklu kse agye move on kru ...smj ni ara 4 din strong bnti hu fir next day heavy feel hota h ...
Oh bete bahut dukh ho raha hai sunkar, par kya hum kisi ko zabardasti apna bana sakte hain, nahi na?? Wo aapka insult kar rahe hain aur baat nahi karna chahte, toh aap bhi apne self respect ko mat kharab kijiye. Jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Amita bete aisa nahi sochte ki koi nahi hai aapka!! Apna man ko shant karne ki koshish kijiye. Bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
बेटे जब एक रिश्ता एक मुक्काम तक आकर रुक जाता है तो उसे फिर शुरू करना या उसी पर टिके रहना इसमें इतनी समझदारी नहीं. आगे बढ़ो,नए कदम उठाओ. नए पुराने दोस्तों से मिलो, films, music, कोई hobbies. अपनी जिंदगी में उतर आओ. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Riya sharma
Tue, 03/21/2023 - 19:13
Aaj1 year ho gya hm logo ke relationship ka aur aaj mere bf ko lg rha h ye pyar kuchh nh hota h 😭😭 aur wo mujhe chhod diya bol rha h ki pta nh job lgegi ya nh agr mai pd kr job nh kr paya to mai apne family se shadi ke liye nh bol skta hu 😭😭 mai bhi abhi ias ki preparation kr rhi hu mai kya kru please kuchh help kijiye mera
Riya bete bahut bura laga sunkar, lekin relax!! Sabse pahli baat ki aap IAS ki taiyari kar rahi hain, toh sab kuchh chood kar apni padhayi aur taiyari par focus kijiye. Sochiye - agar aapne IAS crack kar liye toh aapka future kitna bright hoga??? Aur jab ek rishta ek makaam tak aa ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. Aage badhiye, naye kadam uthaiye, apni taiyari mein pure man ke sath jut jaaiye - sath hi naye aur purane dost dhoondhiye, films, music, koi hobbies. Apni zindigi jeene mein utar jaiye. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul Anil Patil
Sun, 04/02/2023 - 18:53
Hi Sir mein Rahul Mera 4 years se relationship tha sab kuch bahot accha chal rha tha aur hamari shadi bhi thi after 2 3 months lekin mujhe kisi aur se pata chala mtlb mere friend se ki wo dusare relationship mein hai aur mujhe is tension mein paralysis bhi ho Gaya to mein abhi uska wait kar rha hun
Oh Rahul bete bahut dukh ho raha hai sunkar, aap jald swasth ho jaye, hamari god se prarthana hai. Lekin bete kya aapne is baat ki sachayi pata ki thi? Ya sirf apne dost ki baat sunkar stress me aa gaye?? Kya aapne apni partner se iske bare me baat ki?? Kya wo aapke is haalaat ke bare mein janti hain?? Bahut sari baate hain jinka jawab aapke paas hona chahiye - kisi bhi tarah ki baato ko sunkar uski jaanch karna chahiye fir koi nirnay lena chahiye aur aap toh itne stress mein aa gaye ki bimar ho gaye....bete Auntyji ki maano toh ek baar unse, unke gharwalo se iske bare me baat karo - kyunki aap dono ki shadi bhi honewali thi. Aap chahe toh apne kisi bharosemand dost, pariwar ke kisi sadasya ki madad lijiye aur har pahlu ko clear kijiye. Isse aapko stress se bahar nikalne mein bhi madad milegi - aap jald swasth honge aur aap soch vichar kar sahi nirnay bhi le payenge. Aapko Auntyji ki ore se dher sara pyar aur shubhkamnaye. https://lovematters.in/en/news/shes-avoiding-me-now-what https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-a-proven-technique https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/she-never-said-no-but-she-meant-so Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare Facebook aur Instagram mein zarur shamil ho: https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Ks chouhan
Sat, 04/22/2023 - 17:12
Sir me 9 sal se meri gf se pyar krta hu o bhi mujhe Jan se jyada pyar karti he lekin uske Ghar Wale aur mere Ghar Wale hum dono ko alag krna chahte hai bad bar bahut torcher krte hai aur hum dono ek dusre ke Bina nahi ji skte to Hume kya krna chahiye sir
Please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. Yadi koi kadam uthate hain - to uske kya parinaam kya ho sakte hain - sab pooch leejiye aur aapko aur family ko kiss-kiss stithi ke liye tayyar rehna hai - uski poori knowledge le leejiye. Mada ke liye ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/parents-vs-partner-who-would-you-pick https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare Facebook aur Instagram mein zarur shamil ho: https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
7 saal ka rishta hamara 1 mahine k ander khatam ho gaya. sabse buri baat lagi ki sath me rehte hue ladki bhi dekh li. or kuch din pehle mujhe bata raha hai shadi se. meri zindagi ka sabse bada jhatka hai ye mere liye. mein apni shadi ki planing kr rahi hu, or wo kisi or se apni shadi ki news deke mujhe chala gaya.......... aisa kisi ke sath na ho. meri zindagi me to kuch raha hi nahi.
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